A girl I like cancelled the birthday party she was throwing for me last night because she was "sick". One of her friends laughed when I mentioned that she didn't sound very good. The "sick" girl was really coking it up all night, apparently. These, fellow orgers, are my friends.

Happy Birthday though

Kidel...just where do you these interesting ladies?

Reincarnate said:

Thanks.

purplerein said:

I like how the verb is missing. Where do I f--- these ladies? Could be a couple things.

Time for some new friends.

And happy birthday Kid.

Thats awful! I'm very sorry to hear that, despite obv. not really knowing, no one likes being blown out, especially on their birthday I hope you had a good one either way...

JustErin said:

But I just made these friends.

At least she called you to tell you it was cancelled!!

Never mind, you've got us....

Happy birthday!

jerseykrs said:

Well, I had to call her, but yeah, I guess I'll take what I can get. She re-scheduled it for Friday, but I won't get my hopes up. Lots of hard drugs she could be doing before then.

kidelrich said:

Dude, stay away from the drug hounds, they suck as girlfriends even if you do score em.

WTF???? How could someone just up and cancel your Birthday party? Even if it was at her place, she could have just hosted regardless.

I hope you tell her you thought her Birthday gift was (sniff sniff) crappy.

Seriously it's time to make a list of friends you no longer should hang out with and make a clean break! And if that is all of them, so be it.

jerseykrs said:

So true. They're losers and no matter how clean, nice, etc you might be you will still be labelled a loser by association.

You deserve better friends.

superspaceboy said:

It sucks when you have to do that shit, but sometimes it's needed.

superspaceboy said:

I'm not strong enough to do that; I've already had so many patches w/o any real friends. I can't get through another one.

kidelrich said:

Where did you meet them? Maybe cut out where you meet these freaks.

superspaceboy said:

They are friends of friends. The same way I meet anybody.

kidelrich said:

Honey, it sounds like these arent real friends.

Get out there and find some more

kidelrich said:

Hate to clue you in but these are not real friends. Seriously NOT!

And what is up with the title of the thread? Do you like this girl?

JaneyPoos said:

It was a sad, pitiful night. But I won't elaborate. Suffice to say, I wasn't feeling the love.

superspaceboy said:

Because they do drugs? Since when does that determine if someone is a real friend?

And yes.

kidelrich said:

You have to feel it in yourself before you can expect others to. Dont depend on these people for friendship, depend on yourself.

Kidel..where are you MEETING all of these interesting ladies?

kidelrich said:

I thought so.

Maybe you need to rethink who you are and where you are in life in relation to these folks. Sounds like you like to party with these people but not as much as they do. Maybe you don't want to party as much anymore, yet all of your friends haven't come to that conclusion yet. Sounds like many of them are very involved with heavy drinking and drugs. Not to judge, but by the sound of things and the parties you go to, it's just a guess.

kidelrich said:

No, because they choose drugs over you. I have nothing against drugs persay, but when they rule certain aspects of your life and affect the lives of others, yeah I got a problem with that. Not talking about you of course.

1st: Happy b-day, kid!

2nd: are you serious?????

like everyone is telling you on this thread: stay away from the druggies.....they're no good and I hope you don't see them as 'being cool' and shit! Maybe you should be strong, and cut it off..... It's hard, I know but these people get you nowhere and will let you down for the next score just like that if necessary! You deserve more!

Good luck!

kidelrich said:

I'm not surprised mate. Muchly sorry to hear of it though xXx

abierman said:

I know this sounds like a copout, but I'm not in a position in my life where I can cut people out based on them doing drugs.

And I don't use drugs or think they're cool.

yeah, sorry...happy birthday. If I threw you the party there would be lots of strippers.