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ADVICE PLEASE My colleague is a lovely person but she is highly competitive. We are sales reps and she is always comparing her weekly sales to mine which there is no point doing this as we will always have different weeks for whatever reasons..
Anyway after each appointmennt she will ask me who they are, where they are located and what they do... I find this really annoying as there is no need for her to know this information and I do not do the same to her.. I respect that they are her customers and leave it at that.. Therefore I can't help but think she has a hidden agenda... So my question is.. How do I tell her to basically "back the fuck off" (sorry, really frustrated, this has gone on for months) Can someone please help me? Thanks "There comes a road in every man's journey that he's afraid to walk on his own.
I'm here to tell you, I'm at that road. And I would rather walk it with you than walk it alone". | |
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The next time she inquires, respond "Why do you ask?". | |
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Ace said: The next time she inquires, respond "Why do you ask?".
Hi thanks for replying... I tried that maybe once or twice and she will say something like "oh he looks familiar".. "or just wondering".. what do you say to that? "There comes a road in every man's journey that he's afraid to walk on his own.
I'm here to tell you, I'm at that road. And I would rather walk it with you than walk it alone". | |
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Thanks  "There comes a road in every man's journey that he's afraid to walk on his own.
I'm here to tell you, I'm at that road. And I would rather walk it with you than walk it alone". | |
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FIML said: Ace said: The next time she inquires, respond "Why do you ask?".
Hi thanks for replying... I tried that maybe once or twice and she will say something like "oh he looks familiar".. "or just wondering".. what do you say to that? To "Oh, he looks familiar.": "Everyone looks familiar to you, huh?" To "Just wondering.": "Curiousity killed the cat." Both delivered with a knowing smile. | |
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Ace said: FIML said: Hi thanks for replying... I tried that maybe once or twice and she will say something like "oh he looks familiar".. "or just wondering".. what do you say to that? To "Oh, he looks familiar.": "Everyone looks familiar to you, huh?" To "Just wondering.": "Curiousity killed the cat." Both delivered with a knowing smile. Fantastic responses! Thank you so much!!!! "There comes a road in every man's journey that he's afraid to walk on his own.
I'm here to tell you, I'm at that road. And I would rather walk it with you than walk it alone". | |
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voodoo always work. | |
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FIML said: My colleague is a lovely person but she is highly competitive. We are sales reps and she is always comparing her weekly sales to mine which there is no point doing this as we will always have different weeks for whatever reasons..
Anyway after each appointmennt she will ask me who they are, where they are located and what they do... I find this really annoying as there is no need for her to know this information and I do not do the same to her.. I respect that they are her customers and leave it at that.. Therefore I can't help but think she has a hidden agenda... So my question is.. How do I tell her to basically "back the fuck off" (sorry, really frustrated, this has gone on for months) Can someone please help me? Thanks You did it well to us, now do it to her. Say Please respect my comuster base. That's none of your business. have a good day and (smile) News: Prince pulls his head out his ass in the last moment.
Bad News: Prince wasted too much quality time doing so. You have those internalized issues because you want to, you like to, stop. | |
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as long as she aint lyin to your customers young, dumb, and no fun..
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I have no advice for you, D, but wanted to say hi... it's been such a long time!!!! we've gotta catch up hon
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Feed her misinformation. 
See how outrageous you can get it before she twigs ....  | |
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FIML said: My colleague is a lovely person but she is highly competitive. We are sales reps and she is always comparing her weekly sales to mine which there is no point doing this as we will always have different weeks for whatever reasons..
Anyway after each appointmennt she will ask me who they are, where they are located and what they do... I find this really annoying as there is no need for her to know this information and I do not do the same to her.. I respect that they are her customers and leave it at that.. Therefore I can't help but think she has a hidden agenda... So my question is.. How do I tell her to basically "back the fuck off" (sorry, really frustrated, this has gone on for months) Can someone please help me? Thanks good luck
there is no law that you HAVE to answer questions when asked and what you said right here ..."I find this really annoying as there is no need for her to know this information and I do not do the same to her" sounds like the perfect thing to say to her next time she questions you | |
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Reincarnate said: Feed her misinformation.
See how outrageous you can get it before she twigs .... good one! | |
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Reincarnate said: Feed her misinformation.
See how outrageous you can get it before she twigs .... "He should look familiar... That was Bruce Willis. Between films, he dabbles in the sales game. Started after 'Moonlighting' ended and has stuck with it... Not too many people know this, and he doesn't like it to be common knowledge. I mean, appearances and all..."  | |
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| thanks guys!!
Great ideas you have given me.. and funny too.."There comes a road in every man's journey that he's afraid to walk on his own.
I'm here to tell you, I'm at that road. And I would rather walk it with you than walk it alone". | |
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Natisse said: I have no advice for you, D, but wanted to say hi... it's been such a long time!!!! we've gotta catch up hon
hope you're smiling and life is treating you well!! Nat!!  how are you girl?? Hope all is well with you too.. Miss seeing you in the chat room..
"There comes a road in every man's journey that he's afraid to walk on his own.
I'm here to tell you, I'm at that road. And I would rather walk it with you than walk it alone". | |
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