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Here we go again I got a call late last night...
my girlfriend Maria ( Many off you met on my birthday) is getting a plane to Arizona her cousin was in a car accident but surrived her 3 children did not. I cannot imagine being the survivor. | |
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Muse2NOPharaoh said: I got a call late last night...
my girlfriend Maria ( Many off you met on my birthday) is getting a plane to Arizona her cousin was in a car accident but surrived her 3 children did not. I cannot imagine being the survivor. OH MY GOD.That is horrible. I will say a prayer. M MyeternalgrattitudetoPhil&Val.Herman said "We want sweaty truckers at the truck stop! We want cigar puffing men that look like they wanna beat the living daylights out of us" Val"sporking is spooning with benefits" | |
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Muse2NOPharaoh said: I got a call late last night...
my girlfriend Maria ( Many off you met on my birthday) is getting a plane to Arizona her cousin was in a car accident but surrived her 3 children did not. I cannot imagine being the survivor. I'll be sure to pray for Maria and her cousin. | |
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Muse2NOPharaoh said: I got a call late last night...
my girlfriend Maria ( Many off you met on my birthday) is getting a plane to Arizona her cousin was in a car accident but surrived her 3 children did not. I cannot imagine being the survivor. Thats horrible!!!! "Nobody makes me bleed my own blood...NOBODY!"
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That's HORRIBLE!
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unspeakable horror...i hope she gets bereavement and trauma counseling... | |
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Karen... Oh shit, my hat done fell off | |
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Moderator | Why the children? This is so horrible. Ohh purple joy oh purple bliss oh purple rapture! REAL MUSIC by REAL MUSICIANS - Prince "I kind of wish there was a reason for Prince to make the site crash more" ~~ Ben |
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IM So sorry Muse!
i just said a prayer for you. | |
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I know life comes in waves at times.... but geesh....
I will see Maria when she returns and mention the counseling. I just really can't wrap my head around this one yet.. | |
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Muse2NOPharaoh said: I got a call late last night...
my girlfriend Maria ( Many off you met on my birthday) is getting a plane to Arizona her cousin was in a car accident but surrived her 3 children did not. I cannot imagine being the survivor. Wow, Muse, you've had too much bad news coming your way lately. Sorry to hear about this, that poor mother must be devastated!!! RIP, mom. I will forever miss and love you. | |
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i couldn't imagine surviving either.... for maria and her cousin. | |
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psychodelicide said: Muse2NOPharaoh said: I got a call late last night...
my girlfriend Maria ( Many off you met on my birthday) is getting a plane to Arizona her cousin was in a car accident but surrived her 3 children did not. I cannot imagine being the survivor. Wow, Muse, you've had too much bad news coming your way lately. Sorry to hear about this, that poor mother must be devastated!!! You can say that again I feel surrounded by darkness... Although I know that I need to be more aware of letting the "feeling" contol the outcome... I cannot imagine stepping inside her soul for a single solid second.. | |
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Muse2NOPharaoh said: psychodelicide said: Wow, Muse, you've had too much bad news coming your way lately. Sorry to hear about this, that poor mother must be devastated!!! You can say that again I feel surrounded by darkness... Although I know that I need to be more aware of letting the "feeling" contol the outcome... I cannot imagine stepping inside her soul for a single solid second.. I can't, either...I know I am not strong enough to even think of how to survive such an experience. We are so lucky when (most of) our immediate family are still walking and talking with us. I feel awful for her. There are so many thing to say but I just hope she can survive this. To continue living after this... ugh, I'm speechless Oh shit, my hat done fell off | |
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oh my god.
poor woman. i'm gonna be thinking about this for a long time. we had the same thing in our family, long long ago just before i was born. during a daytrip 4 members of my fathers family were killed in a road accident. my grandfather, my uncle, my grandmother's sister and my 4 year old cousin. the child's mother was the sole surviver in the car but had to have major reconstructive surgery of her face since every bone in her body broke and her face was basically completly gone. so in one blow my grandmother lost her husband, a son, sister and her first (at the time only) grandchild. i can't tell you in how many ways this has affected our family as a unit. even now, my uncle still suffers from migrane cause he never had a chance to really deal with what happened (he was the one driving in the car behind them when it happened). back in those days there was no counceling for victims. these days if you see a street robbery you can get counceling but back in those days there was nothing like that. people had to deal with things internally, within the family. it made my dad's family kinda messed up in some regards. still to this day all the grown ups get petrified when any of us children go somewhere in the car. all the women didn't dare to drive anymore until just recently (!) accidents like these where half or all of your family is just ripped away from you at once are simply incomprehensible. there's not a whole lot people can do for you or say to you i guess. you just have to do that on your own and hope you have enough good friends and family left to support you and stick with you. other people just tend to forget so fast. if you still want to talk a year later, lots of people are like "what? still"?" which is so frustrating. i guess what i'm trying to say is that i hope your friend's cousin has enough family and friends to support her in the long run and that they will keep a close eye on her and also i will pray for her -although i don't do it often i think when i really mean it something or someone ís there to listen to us. eventhough i guess anyone's faith is tested to the utmost limit in cases like these where 3 innocent children die, but still one must believe that there is something that is looking after us. if only for consolence or to take a bit of the hurt away from us. so i pray that this someone or something will be with this woman and help her right now i know my grandmother got a lot of strength out of her faith and somehow managed to live on. sadly she died when i was only 15 but i'm glad to have been blessed to have known her that long since she really was the kindest and warmest person i have ever met in my life. it was incredible to think how she managed to have such faith in life and the rest of her surviving relatives without being bitter or chronically depressed. her faith is the one thing that has always made me weary of just rejecting the thought of a god altogether. seeing what it did for her and what kind of person it made her, it must be more than just a thought. [Edited 8/18/06 11:04am] and true love lives on lollipops and crisps | |
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IstenSzek said: oh my god.
poor woman. i'm gonna be thinking about this for a long time. we had the same thing in our family, long long ago just before i was born. during a daytrip 4 members of my fathers family were killed in a road accident. my grandfather, my uncle, my grandmother's sister and my 4 year old cousin. the child's mother was the sole surviver in the car but had to have major reconstructive surgery of her face since every bone in her body broke and her face was basically completly gone. so in one blow my grandmother lost her husband, a son, sister and her first (at the time only) grandchild. i can't tell you in how many ways this has affected our family as a unit. even now, my uncle still suffers from migrane cause he never had a chance to really deal with what happened (he was the one driving in the car behind them when it happened). back in those days there was no counceling for victims. these days if you see a street robbery you can get counceling but back in those days there was nothing like that. people had to deal with things internally, within the family. it made my dad's family kinda messed up in some regards. still to this day all the grown ups get petrified when any of us children go somewhere in the car. all the women didn't dare to drive anymore until just recently (!) accidents like these where half or all of your family is just ripped away from you at once are simply incomprehensible. there's not a whole lot people can do for you or say to you i guess. you just have to do that on your own and hope you have enough good friends and family left to support you and stick with you. other people just tend to forget so fast. if you still want to talk a year later, lots of people are like "what? still"?" which is so frustrating. i guess what i'm trying to say is that i hope your friend's cousin has enough family and friends to support her in the long run and that they will keep a close eye on her and also i will pray for her -although i don't do it often i think when i really mean it something or someone ís there to listen to us. eventhough i guess anyone's faith is tested to the utmost limit in cases like these where 3 innocent children die, but still one must believe that there is something that is looking after us. if only for consolence or to take a bit of the hurt away from us. so i pray that this someone or something will be with this woman and help her right now [Edited 8/18/06 11:01am] oh jesus | |
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IstenSzek said: oh my god.
poor woman. i'm gonna be thinking about this for a long time. we had the same thing in our family, long long ago just before i was born. during a daytrip 4 members of my fathers family were killed in a road accident. my grandfather, my uncle, my grandmother's sister and my 4 year old cousin. the child's mother was the sole surviver in the car but had to have major reconstructive surgery of her face since every bone in her body broke and her face was basically completly gone. so in one blow my grandmother lost her husband, a son, sister and her first (at the time only) grandchild. i can't tell you in how many ways this has affected our family as a unit. even now, my uncle still suffers from migrane cause he never had a chance to really deal with what happened (he was the one driving in the car behind them when it happened). back in those days there was no counceling for victims. these days if you see a street robbery you can get counceling but back in those days there was nothing like that. people had to deal with things internally, within the family. it made my dad's family kinda messed up in some regards. still to this day all the grown ups get petrified when any of us children go somewhere in the car. all the women didn't dare to drive anymore until just recently (!) accidents like these where half or all of your family is just ripped away from you at once are simply incomprehensible. there's not a whole lot people can do for you or say to you i guess. you just have to do that on your own and hope you have enough good friends and family left to support you and stick with you. other people just tend to forget so fast. if you still want to talk a year later, lots of people are like "what? still"?" which is so frustrating. i guess what i'm trying to say is that i hope your friend's cousin has enough family and friends to support her in the long run and that they will keep a close eye on her and also i will pray for her -although i don't do it often i think when i really mean it something or someone ís there to listen to us. eventhough i guess anyone's faith is tested to the utmost limit in cases like these where 3 innocent children die, but still one must believe that there is something that is looking after us. if only for consolence or to take a bit of the hurt away from us. so i pray that this someone or something will be with this woman and help her right now i know my grandmother got a lot of strength out of her faith and somehow managed to live on. sadly she died when i was only 15 but i'm glad to have been blessed to have known her that long since she really was the kindest and warmest person i have ever met in my life. it was incredible to think how she managed to have such faith in life and the rest of her surviving relatives without being bitter or chronically depressed. her faith is the one thing that has always made me weary of just rejecting the thought of a god altogether. seeing what it did for her and what kind of person it made her, it must be more than just a thought. [Edited 8/18/06 11:04am] Understood.... | |
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Muse2NOPharaoh said: I got a call late last night...
my girlfriend Maria ( Many off you met on my birthday) is getting a plane to Arizona her cousin was in a car accident but surrived her 3 children did not. I cannot imagine being the survivor. Oh my God Karen, I am so sorry to hear this Prayers don't seem like enough right now but that's what I'll do. 2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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Muse2NOPharaoh said: psychodelicide said: Wow, Muse, you've had too much bad news coming your way lately. Sorry to hear about this, that poor mother must be devastated!!! You can say that again I feel surrounded by darkness... Although I know that I need to be more aware of letting the "feeling" contol the outcome... I cannot imagine stepping inside her soul for a single solid second.. Me neither! RIP, mom. I will forever miss and love you. | |
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I don't think there's anything worse than surviving your children. God bless her cousin and the whole family. [Edited 8/18/06 11:17am] | |
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Muse2NOPharaoh said: I got a call late last night...
my girlfriend Maria ( Many off you met on my birthday) is getting a plane to Arizona her cousin was in a car accident but surrived her 3 children did not. I cannot imagine being the survivor. This is terribly sad news. I'm very sorry for the loss of these 3 children. | |
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Horrible. I myself have had nightmares about this - I don't know what I would do. | |
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OMG- SO sorry to hear this..
much love- peace and strength | |
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IstenSzek said: oh my god.
it was incredible to think how she managed to have such faith in life and the rest of her surviving relatives without being bitter or chronically depressed. her faith is the one thing that has always made me weary of just rejecting the thought of a god altogether. seeing what it did for her and what kind of person it made her, it must be more than just a thought. [Edited 8/18/06 11:04am] thanks for sharing that I hope that maria's cousin will be able to find some sort of comfort in her faith, if she has it. I will pray for her. this is all so incredibly sad, hug your babies today folks, hug em tight We all should know that diversity makes for a rich tapestry, and we must understand that all the threads of the tapestry are equal in value no matter what their color. Maya Angelou | |
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That's absolutely heartbreaking. I can't begin to imagine. . .
I'm sorry. When it's cloudy, the sun is still out there somewhere, K. oh noes, prince is gonna soo me!!1! | |
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This is just crushing my heart I'm praying for Maria and her cousin...I hope there is some comfort for them somewhere... | |
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