1) Single, Taken, or Crushing? Married.

2) Are you happy with where you are? Yes.

3) When you meet the right person, do you fall fast? Oh yes..

4) Have you ever had your heart broken? Of course...

5) Do you believe that there are certain circumstances where cheating is ok? Nope.

6) Would you ever take someone back if they cheated on you? I can't say until it has happened. We can speculate all day long, but you don't know what emotions will be going through you at the time. I know how I felt when it happened in the past with an ex, but don't know if I would feel the same if it happened with my husband.....

7) Have you talked about marriage with another person? I am not sure what you mean..I am already married...sooo.....

8) Do you want children? Already have too many! :lol:

9) How many? We have 6 between us.

10) Would you consider adoption? I would have if I didn't have children. I actually thought about adopting a daughter, because I don't have one of my own..but then the reality of SEVEN kids set in...

11) If somebody liked you right now, what do you think is a cool way to let you know? Conversation.

12) Do you enjoy playing hard to get? Nope...

13) Do you believe love at first sight exists? Nope. I believe infatuation at first sight exists..love is something that infatuation grows into.

14) Do you believe in celebrating anniverseries? I "believe" in it. But, we have only had one so far, and we didn't celebrate it.

15) Do you believe that you can change someone? I think we have an "affect" on those we love, but as far as "changing" them...nope. You can't "change" someone who doesn't want to "change".

16) If you could get married anywhere, money's not an object? Italy, I think. Never been there.

17) Do you have feelings for someone right now? My husband....


18) Have you ever wished you could've had someone but you couldn't? Of course....but it passes.

19) Have you ever broken a heart? Yes.

20) Would you ever fight somebody over your significant other? No.

21) What would you say about your last ex? Do I have to? Ahh, ok, he was a cheating, lying, stealing bastard. That good enough?

1) Single, Taken, or Crushing?--Single but taken


2) Are you happy with where you are?--never, but happier than where I was


3) When you meet the right person, do you fall fast?--extrememly


4) Have you ever had your heart broken?--many times


5) Do you believe that there are certain circumstances where cheating is ok?--not really, but that's for individuals & couples to decide for themselves.


6) Would you ever take someone back if they cheated on you?--I doubt it, but maybe


7) Have you talked about marriage with another person?--yes, but I've never wanted to get married. I talked about her ending her marraige!


8) Do you want children?--no


9) How many?--0


10) Would you consider adoption?--yes


11) If somebody liked you right now, what do you think is a cool way to let you know?--the warm smiles, flirtatious comments, and sexual innuendos are nice.


12) Do you enjoy playing hard to get?--no but it happens naturally


13) Do you believe love at first sight exists?-yes


14) Do you believe in celebrating anniverseries?--yes, we don't celebrate enough personal things in our lives--but I don't have one!


15) Do you believe that you can change someone?--no, but they can change themselves


16) If you could get married anywhere, money's not an object?--I don't want to get married, but Hawaii


17) Do you have feelings for someone right now?--yes


18) Have you ever wished you could've had someone but you couldn't?--many many many times, too many to count


19) Have you ever broken a heart?--yes


20) Would you ever fight somebody over your significant other?--not physically, unless she was being attacked


21) What would you say about your last ex?--perfect, if not for her stubborn nature, ball-busting ability, and husband!

1) Single, Taken, or Crushing? Single


2) Are you happy with where you are? Definitely


3) When you meet the right person, do you fall fast? Sometimes


4) Have you ever had your heart broken? Of Course


5) Do you believe that there are certain circumstances where cheating is ok? No
Only if their honor was disrespected...over an affair...HELL NO!

6) Would you ever take someone back if they cheated on you? Yes...if it was JUST sex.


7) Have you talked about marriage with another person? Yes


8) Do you want children? Yes


9) How many? 3


10) Would you consider adoption? Yes


11) If somebody liked you right now, what do you think is a cool way to let you know? Hmmmm....


12) Do you enjoy playing hard to get? N/A


13) Do you believe love at first sight exists? Definitely


14) Do you believe in celebrating anniverseries? I don't believe in Marriage!


15) Do you believe that you can change someone? I don't try


16) If you could get married anywhere, money's not an object? N/A


17) Do you have feelings for someone right now? Nope


18) Have you ever wished you could've had someone but you couldn't? Yep


19) Have you ever broken a heart? Yes


20) Would you ever fight somebody over your significant other? Only if their honor was disrespected...never over an affair.


21) What would you say about your last ex?[/quote] Immature, Psycho, Drama Queen, Control Freak from Hell!

DexMSR said:

Tell us what you really think.

fantasyislander said:

I really don't know why I felt the need to ask.. I know the truth..

1) Single, Taken, or Crushing?
single

2) Are you happy with where you are?
It varies.

3) When you meet the right person, do you fall fast?
No.

4) Have you ever had your heart broken?
Into a million tiny pieces.

5) Do you believe that there are certain circumstances where cheating is ok?
No, although I can understand why it happens sometimes.

6) Would you ever take someone back if they cheated on you?
Not anymore.

7) Have you talked about marriage with another person?
Yes.

8) Do you want children?
Hell no.

9) How many?

10) Would you consider adoption?
Considering I don't want children no, but if I did want children I would only adopt.

11) If somebody liked you right now, what do you think is a cool way to let you know? Ask me to go to a museum/art opening or a lecture.

12) Do you enjoy playing hard to get?
I don't have time for games.

13) Do you believe love at first sight exists?
Yes.

14) Do you believe in celebrating anniverseries?
Anniversaries-no. Birthdays-yes.

15) Do you believe that you can change someone?
Perhaps little things like helping around the house or the types of things to buy me for holidays, but not their core character. And if I wanted to then they probably aren't the right person for me...I would want to accept them for who they are character flaws and all.

16) If you could get married anywhere, money's not an object?
I don't believe in marriage. It's not that I don't want to have a significant other/life partner; I'm just not into legally binding co-dependence.

17) Do you have feelings for someone right now?
No.

18) Have you ever wished you could've had someone but you couldn't?
Yes.

19) Have you ever broken a heart?
Not that I know of.

20) Would you ever fight somebody over your significant other?
Yes. (Not physically.)

21) What would you say about your last ex?
So many things could be said, but I'll just leave it at I hope he always finds happiness.
[Edited 8/17/06 19:31pm]

I will never understand why a woman would fight another woman over a man. Why not just beat his ass instead? After you beat said woman's ass, do you keep the man?

Why do you assume that only women fight other women over men? Couldn't men fight too?


Also, it could be a situation where another person is trying to break up a marriage or relationship...the "man" may not have anything to do with it so why beat his ass?

Hobbitch said:

why do folks fight over folks, period? we ain't on wild america or whatever....

DevotedPuppy said:

I was just looking at this thread and it seems that a majority of the women that responded would fight over their man and I just don't get that and yes, I am sure there are men would who fight over a woman which I equally don't think makes logical sense.

A relationship or marriage cannot be broken up if both parties don't want it to be. In a case where someone is trying to come between this with no egging on by either party, that's what police and restraining orders are for.

Handclapsfingasnapz said:

Right? It makes folks look crazy.

1) Single, Taken, or Crushing?
Very taken

2) Are you happy with where you are?
Not so much

3) When you meet the right person, do you fall fast?
I don't think so

4) Have you ever had your heart broken?
smashed to smithereens

5) Do you believe that there are certain circumstances where cheating is ok?
NO

6) Would you ever take someone back if they cheated on you?
Probably

7) Have you talked about marriage with another person?
A couple

8) Do you want children?
i have two

9) How many?
I'd like to have another

10) Would you consider adoption?
Yes

11) If somebody liked you right now, what do you think is a cool way to let you know?


12) Do you enjoy playing hard to get?
No

13) Do you believe love at first sight exists?
I think so

14) Do you believe in celebrating anniverseries?
If you are so inclined

15) Do you believe that you can change someone?
Never

16) If you could get married anywhere, money's not an object?
Money's always an object

17) Do you have feelings for someone right now?
yes

18) Have you ever wished you could've had someone but you couldn't?
no

19) Have you ever broken a heart?
I don't think so

20) Would you ever fight somebody over your significant other?
I'm a lover, not a fighter

21) What would you say about your last ex?
I wish he would please find a new home for his dog?

Hobbitch said:

thanks for clarifying. I completely agree that a relationship can't be broken up unless one of the people involved wants it to end (even if passively). I guess I would consider police & restraining orders a type of fighting too--legal fighting. As you can see I edited my response to that question...I personally would only get into a physical fight if someone was in danger, but I would totally fight in other ways if someone was trying to maliciously break up a relationship.

(But generally, I'm a very nice person, really! )

Hobbitch said:

i would only beat said womans ass if she was deserving of it... if he goes wandering then he's the dog. but kind of the same as todd, if she wont leave him alone... sure i know he can take care of himself and tell her to go screw herself, but still. it's like a dog sniffing around my territory. if she cant show me respect and leave my man alone then i will teach her respect.

DevotedPuppy said:

I can dig it.


I still wanna know why a woman would fight for a man?

fantasyislander said:

Yes. This is exactly what I was trying to get at, but I couldn't think of how to break it down.

Thanks!

Hobbitch said:

I don't know why it didn't dawn on me until recently that there is a whole second Org going on behind the scenes in orgnotes. I won't flatter myself by thinking people actually spend time orgnoting about me (aka jone70), but not too long ago I did receive some orgnotes from someone telling me to quit being mean to another orger in a Prince related thread. (Which I found ludicrous, b/c I wasn't being mean compared to others.) Anyway this person told me that 'I'd piss off a lot of cool people at the org' if I didn't apologise to the other certain orger. That is very high school, imo.

I don't post in GD that much (and never go to chat) so I was very perplexed by this b/c I haven't had much interaction with this person...I really try to be respectful to everyone even if/when I disagree with them...

So anyway--I completely agree with you--it's weird to think that people would form opinions of others without ever getting to know them (as much as you can know one online). I'm with you--if you want to know something about me, just ask...please don't assume cause we all know what that does.


And lastly, please don't think I'm "stalking" your posts--I wanted to respond to this sub topic of the thread and your post just happened to be the one I wanted to respond to...

fantasyislander said:

Some men are not worth fighting over..

shanti0608 said:

agreed..... but some men are....

JustErin said:

Perhaps you are slightly to quick to trivialize..... I mean to say a lot depends on where you are at personally and the like... also there tends to be a freshman ... sophomore... so on and so fourth kinda learning curve.... To all a space and time.. None the less I think they should be cautioned...

Oh, what the hell!

1) Single, Taken, or Crushing? Thrilled to be married.


2) Are you happy with where you are? Absolutely.


3) When you meet the right person, do you fall fast? Too fast.


4) Have you ever had your heart broken? Hasn't everyone?


5) Do you believe that there are certain circumstances where cheating is ok? Never.


6) Would you ever take someone back if they cheated on you? I would like to think that something like that could be overcome, so yes.


7) Have you talked about marriage with another person? See question 1.


8) Do you want children? Indeed.


9) How many? Not sure yet.


10) Would you consider adoption? Absolutely.


11) If somebody liked you right now, what do you think is a cool way to let you know? There wouldn't be a cool way to let me know as I'm happily taken.


12) Do you enjoy playing hard to get? I never have, so I wouldn't know.


13) Do you believe love at first sight exists? Call me naive, but yes.


14) Do you believe in celebrating anniverseries? You bet!


15) Do you believe that you can change someone? I don't know if I can answer that. Tough question. The semantics of me changing the person are hanging me up.


16) If you could get married anywhere, money's not an object? Where I did get married.


17) Do you have feelings for someone right now? You bet! I love my wife!


18) Have you ever wished you could've had someone but you couldn't? Again, who hasn't?


19) Have you ever broken a heart? I think so.


20) Would you ever fight somebody over your significant other? If my significant other was in danger, absolutely.


21) What would you say about your last ex? I wouldn't- it's so far in the past that there's really nothing to say.

Hobbitch said:

In my case it meant if some chick was getting up in my face about my guy, usualy in a bar, if the chick is going to start swinging at me Im not going to sit there and take it...if its about cheating and he is screwing around with him and she wants to fight over it, she wins, I dont fight over losers

1) Single, Taken, or Crushing? single


2) Are you happy with where you are? ehh...


3) When you meet the right person, do you fall fast? NO


4) Have you ever had your heart broken? of course, all women have...


5) Do you believe that there are certain circumstances where cheating is ok? it's never okay...


6) Would you ever take someone back if they cheated on you? I have in the past. I can't say for sure that I would or wouldn't now - part of me feels like if you'll end a relationship over cheating just don't get in a relationship... not with a man anyway


7) Have you talked about marriage with another person? yea, never all that seriously though...


8) Do you want children? I think I will down the line, that's years away though. I'll probably have to adopt...


9) How many? 2 @ the most


10) Would you consider adoption? see above


11) If somebody liked you right now, what do you think is a cool way to let you know? just ask me out... & smile @ me a lot


12) Do you enjoy playing hard to get? no, I like to cut to the chase... which means killing it quickly if shit is wack & really not giving too many mf's chances at all


13) Do you believe love at first sight exists?maybe


14) Do you believe in celebrating anniverseries? sure


15) Do you believe that you can change someone? I used to not anymore, myself included


16) If you could get married anywhere, money's not an object? somewhere tropical, secluded, beautiful...


17) Do you have feelings for someone right now? no


18) Have you ever wished you could've had someone but you couldn't? you mean like came close & it didn't happen or admired someone from afar? I think we've all done the latter


19) Have you ever broken a heart? only one that I know of


20) Would you ever fight somebody over your significant other? I don't think so, can't see it happening - it's up to him if he wants to be w/ me, no need to fight


21) What would you say about your last ex? he's a good guy, we still talk... we're due to hit a movie soon...

Muse2NOPharaoh said:

OH MY See, this is what happens when you start fucking people from the internet


I'm just kidding I have no knowledge of anyone's personal shenanigans here & have no interest, but the whole "cautioning freshmen/sophmores" thing?? Goofy shit

Y'all are interesting

1) Single, Taken, or Crushing? Single


2) Are you happy with where you are? I think so.


3) When you meet the right person, do you fall fast? I think so.


4) Have you ever had your heart broken? Only when I was very young


5) Do you believe that there are certain circumstances where cheating is ok? Not really.


6) Would you ever take someone back if they cheated on you? No.


7) Have you talked about marriage with another person? No.


8) Do you want children? Not really.


9) How many? See above.


10) Would you consider adoption? Not any time soon.


11) If somebody liked you right now, what do you think is a cool way to let you know? Telling me.


12) Do you enjoy playing hard to get? Nah, why bother?


13) Do you believe love at first sight exists? I'll let you know when it happens.


14) Do you believe in celebrating anniverseries? Only in years, none of this "first month anniversary" rubbish.


15) Do you believe that you can change someone? No, they'll naturally resist.


16) If you could get married anywhere, money's not an object? I'm not really into marriage but if I did get hitched, I'd say on a Hawaiin beach.

17) Do you have feelings for someone right now? Unfortunately not, but I am looking...

18) Have you ever wished you could've had someone but you couldn't? Of course.


19) Have you ever broken a heart? Dunno, maybe.


20) Would you ever fight somebody over your significant other? Not really, it'd be up to her who she wants to be with.


21) What would you say about your last ex? Not much. Hope she's well.
[Edited 8/18/06 1:52am]

shanti0608 said:

No man is worth fighting for. Nothing is worth getting violent.

It's childish to do so, imo.

ZombieKitten said:

he was a good guy, we just weren't right for each other

Mach said:

dang!! drama!

1) Single, Taken, or Crushing? Taken (married) I'm always crushing though too.


2) Are you happy with where you are? Yep. Very happy.


3) When you meet the right person, do you fall fast? Sure.


4) Have you ever had your heart broken? Nope.


5) Do you believe that there are certain circumstances where cheating is ok? Sure.

6) Would you ever take someone back if they cheated on you? Sure. It depends on the situation though of course.

7) Have you talked about marriage with another person? Well, with my husband, yes, before we got married. But never with anyone else. My husband is the only person who could stand being married to me.

8) Do you want children? I guess.


9) How many? 2


10) Would you consider adoption? No


11) If somebody liked you right now, what do you think is a cool way to let you know? To come right out and tell me.


12) Do you enjoy playing hard to get? Not really.


13) Do you believe love at first sight exists? I believe lust at first site exists.


14) Do you believe in celebrating anniverseries? Sure.


15) Do you believe that you can change someone? Yes.


16) If you could get married anywhere, money's not an object? Already married, but if I did it over again, in a chateaux in France.

17) Do you have feelings for someone right now? Always.


18) Have you ever wished you could've had someone but you couldn't? Of course.


19) Have you ever broken a heart? I suppose so.


20) Would you ever fight somebody over your significant other? I don't know. Like a fist fight?


21) What would you say about your last ex? He's a cool person, we just were horrible as a couple.

minneapolisgenius said:

Why didn't I know that?!


I'm such a moron for thinking I had a chance.