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I have turned into an utter bore! I need to snap out of it.....
I have been off the dating scene for 31 months now and other then the occasional ( and very fleeting) crush I can honestly say I have not met a single man that I would want to date in any real manner... I have dealt with my baggage and it is time for me to snap out of it but being on my own so long I am starting to worry I can't and or won't.. It was the best thing I ever did to just remove myself from the option.. It has been so freeing to walk into rooms not thinking in the least about relating. ( Also very eye opening as to how horrid woman can be) I have become a pro at turning men into friends and have so many.. Anyone else went into a self imposed dry spell? How did you pop out of it? | |
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you need udder balm 
OHHHH you said utter | |
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Mach said: you need udder balm
OHHHH you said utter  | |
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You did the right thing. It's better to be alone than to settle for just anything. | |
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Sometimes it just finds you when you are not even looking
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Muse2NOPharaoh said: I need to snap out of it.....
I have been off the dating scene for 31 months now and other then the occasional ( and very fleeting) crush I can honestly say I have not met a single man that I would want to date in any real manner... I have dealt with my baggage and it is time for me to snap out of it but being on my own so long I am starting to worry I can't and or won't.. It was the best thing I ever did to just remove myself from the option.. It has been so freeing to walk into rooms not thinking in the least about relating. ( Also very eye opening as to how horrid woman can be) I have become a pro at turning men into friends and have so many.. Anyone else went into a self imposed dry spell? How did you pop out of it? I've been dating, but experiences the same.....(ok, replace 'man' for 'woman', okay? ) | |
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Muse2NOPharaoh said: I need to snap out of it.....
I have been off the dating scene for 31 months now and other then the occasional ( and very fleeting) crush I can honestly say I have not met a single man that I would want to date in any real manner... I have dealt with my baggage and it is time for me to snap out of it but being on my own so long I am starting to worry I can't and or won't.. It was the best thing I ever did to just remove myself from the option.. It has been so freeing to walk into rooms not thinking in the least about relating. ( Also very eye opening as to how horrid woman can be) I have become a pro at turning men into friends and have so many.. Anyone else went into a self imposed dry spell? How did you pop out of it? I've met some really great women by just getting out more, going to things just because they interested me. That way, you have a great time, and you automatically have something to talk about (expertly), when you bump into someone appealing. I met the friend who introduced me to a buddy who introduced me to my girlfriend that way (all at different events). | |
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ellieadore said: Sometimes it just finds you when you are not even looking
Yes, I know this is what they say....  Is this happenin for you? It can't have happened to a better woman if so...  | |
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Muse2NOPharaoh said: I need to snap out of it.....
I have been off the dating scene for 31 months now and other then the occasional ( and very fleeting) crush I can honestly say I have not met a single man that I would want to date in any real manner... I have dealt with my baggage and it is time for me to snap out of it but being on my own so long I am starting to worry I can't and or won't.. It was the best thing I ever did to just remove myself from the option.. It has been so freeing to walk into rooms not thinking in the least about relating. ( Also very eye opening as to how horrid woman can be) I have become a pro at turning men into friends and have so many.. Anyone else went into a self imposed dry spell? How did you pop out of it? I'm in one as we speak (er..type) because I hate the way I look right now. I guess the only way to pop out of it is to get my ass back in shape. Because of this, I barely go out to have some fun these days (even when I have a babysitter available). 
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self-imposed dry spell.
loving it actually. I mean, really loving it. | |
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Imago said: self-imposed dry spell.
loving it actually. I mean, really loving it. Well I was.... but time has marched on to the point I am beginning to loathe it. I loved traveling and doing whatever I chose whenever but it has caught up to me... | |
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Muse2NOPharaoh said: ellieadore said: Sometimes it just finds you when you are not even looking
Yes, I know this is what they say.... Is this happenin for you? It can't have happened to a better woman if so... you know it has, and i'm on top of the world. ( am very lucky but don't go telling him that) Spats is right though, don't settle | |
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abierman said: Muse2NOPharaoh said: I need to snap out of it.....
I have been off the dating scene for 31 months now and other then the occasional ( and very fleeting) crush I can honestly say I have not met a single man that I would want to date in any real manner... I have dealt with my baggage and it is time for me to snap out of it but being on my own so long I am starting to worry I can't and or won't.. It was the best thing I ever did to just remove myself from the option.. It has been so freeing to walk into rooms not thinking in the least about relating. ( Also very eye opening as to how horrid woman can be) I have become a pro at turning men into friends and have so many.. Anyone else went into a self imposed dry spell? How did you pop out of it? I've been dating, but experiences the same.....(ok, replace 'man' for 'woman', okay? )Yes we have talked of this... I simply can't date for the sake of... it bores me... I have all of you if that is what I want and you are a hella of a lot fun! | |
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Muse2NOPharaoh said: Imago said: self-imposed dry spell.
loving it actually. I mean, really loving it. Well I was.... but time has marched on to the point I am beginning to loathe it. I loved traveling and doing whatever I chose whenever but it has caught up to me... I hear you. And I don't know anything. All of the boys I have dated I have simply happened upon in one way or another. And I've discovered I don't really like dating. I'd rather just couple up. But how do you couple without dating first? I don't know. harrumph. It's all so difficlt. No wonder I didn't bother for so long. |
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ellieadore said: Muse2NOPharaoh said: Yes, I know this is what they say.... Is this happenin for you? It can't have happened to a better woman if so... you know it has, and i'm on top of the world. ( am very lucky but don't go telling him that) Spats is right though, don't settle  Sweet! | |
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Muse2NOPharaoh said: abierman said: I've been dating, but experiences the same.....(ok, replace 'man' for 'woman', okay? )Yes we have talked of this... I simply can't date for the sake of... it bores me... I have all of you if that is what I want and you are a hella of a lot fun! oh no, not dating for the sake of sex.....  .....it's more that I'm always looking for something, and therefore learning.....I wonder whether I'll ever come to rest in this.....if I will find the peace & satisfaction....
Fact is that I can have to be around people, my experience is that I get into 'encounters' like that.....I will not hold that back! | |
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JustErin said: Muse2NOPharaoh said: I need to snap out of it.....
I have been off the dating scene for 31 months now and other then the occasional ( and very fleeting) crush I can honestly say I have not met a single man that I would want to date in any real manner... I have dealt with my baggage and it is time for me to snap out of it but being on my own so long I am starting to worry I can't and or won't.. It was the best thing I ever did to just remove myself from the option.. It has been so freeing to walk into rooms not thinking in the least about relating. ( Also very eye opening as to how horrid woman can be) I have become a pro at turning men into friends and have so many.. Anyone else went into a self imposed dry spell? How did you pop out of it? I'm in one as we speak (er..type) because I hate the way I look right now. I guess the only way to pop out of it is to get my ass back in shape. Because of this, I barely go out to have some fun these days (even when I have a babysitter available).
Far better to meet one who loves you just as you are ..  I could argue the merit of you being wrong but it is real to you right now and do i ever get that.. | |
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You are way too picky, my dear. Not all men can fully fulfill your ultimate fantasy of dating and marrying Prince. hehe All you others say Hell Yea!! | |
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abierman said: Muse2NOPharaoh said: Yes we have talked of this... I simply can't date for the sake of... it bores me... I have all of you if that is what I want and you are a hella of a lot fun! oh no, not dating for the sake of sex..... .....it's more that I'm always looking for something, and therefore learning.....I wonder whether I'll ever come to rest in this.....if I will find the peace & satisfaction....
Fact is that I can have to be around people, my experience is that I get into 'encounters' like that.....I will not hold that back! Sex? On sake just means dating to do so! I hear you on the rest! | |
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Listen, Muse... all you had to do was ask me for some single friends. I got peeps who know peeps in Cali.
I'll hook you up. | |
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I am still in it Muse, as you well know.. and recent circumstances have shown that even some ppl I have had most trust in have let me down, so I am way way along way from ever wanting to try and trust again. | |
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Muse2NOPharaoh said: JustErin said: I'm in one as we speak (er..type) because I hate the way I look right now. I guess the only way to pop out of it is to get my ass back in shape. Because of this, I barely go out to have some fun these days (even when I have a babysitter available).
Far better to meet one who loves you just as you are ..  Check my sig..
I must just care too much for ppl I thought cared about me.. well I am just gonna brush them away and appreciate the friends I still have | |
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2freaky4church1 said: You are way too picky, my dear. Not all men can fully fulfill your ultimate fantasy of dating and marrying Prince. hehe
Hes a bit on the slight side for me..... In many ways! | |
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Muse2NOPharaoh said: Far better to meet one who loves you just as you are .. I know where you're coming from. Muse - I am atthis point where I feel like I just cannot settle for ANYTHING anymore - not even half-ass friendships and I HATE DATING TOO! Once you reach a certain age, you just don't want to waste your time, you know? Hang in there - once you put it out there that you want to find someone, someone will find you.VOTE....EARLY | |
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a 30 year dry spell and counting ...but I STILL think it's for the best until one day I am ready | |
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ThreadBare said: Listen, Muse... all you had to do was ask me for some single friends. I got peeps who know peeps in Cali.
I'll hook you up. Oh dear! I suspect your ORIGINAL post is closer to the truth!
I am wanting a more complex answer but yours is the truth..... | |
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REDFEATHERS said: I am still in it Muse, as you well know.. and recent circumstances have shown that even some ppl I have had most trust in have let me down, so I am way way along way from ever wanting to try and trust again.
Use your free time to do all you want in life. You will pass a soul one day and that will be it. Cant say when though! As equality grows, violence declines. |
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Electrostar said: Everything is meant to happen.
Hello love!
I know.. I am taking a moment to resent the process but even i know that the process is necesary .... I'll accept in a few moments.... | |
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Muse2NOPharaoh said: JustErin said: I'm in one as we speak (er..type) because I hate the way I look right now. I guess the only way to pop out of it is to get my ass back in shape. Because of this, I barely go out to have some fun these days (even when I have a babysitter available).
Far better to meet one who loves you just as you are .. I could argue the merit of you being wrong but it is real to you right now and do i ever get that.. I know and I agree, but it's not about others not liking me...it's about me not liking me at the moment. I need to work on that first before I can really think about getting involved with anyone...on any level. | |
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