Spats said:

abierman said:

because you asked her to come to your place to do computer stuff.....you say you made out with her.....this was the time to take it further, which you didn't....now she thinks that she's good enough to deal with your computer-retardedness, not for anything else.....she's out, sucka!!!!

you're a loser, Spats

No, i am not. I get sacktime on my terms. And i want her to do the move. If she felt she was not good enough for anything else yesterday then those are her issues. Her problem is she wants the guy to do the move. If she feels rejected in anyway that's her problem

XxAxX said:

purplerein said:

Spats said:

XxAxX said:

agree 110%. i think the ritualized wedding is little more than a scam, perpetrated by the 'wedding industry' to suck money out of people.

imo no better way exists for two lovers to curse their own union

Tell that to the newlyweds.

Spats said:

purplerein said:

then she's not the girl for you, is she. have you told her you're not going to make any moves, or are you leaving her like Helen Keller in a maze

Well you would think she would get the hint by now. But you never know with women.

shanti0608 said:

I keep thinking I will click on this and there will actually be some good news posted..

Like Spats finally gets some sacktime...

fantasyislander said:

shanti0608 said:

I keep thinking I will click on this and there will actually be some good news posted..

Like Spats finally gets some sacktime...

looks like phil is buying erin's bike....

shanti0608 said:

fantasyislander said:

looks like phil is buying erin's bike....

Good news!!

Spats said:

abierman said:

because you asked her to come to your place to do computer stuff.....you say you made out with her.....this was the time to take it further, which you didn't....now she thinks that she's good enough to deal with your computer-retardedness, not for anything else.....she's out, sucka!!!!

you're a loser, Spats

No, i am not. I get sacktime on my terms. And i want her to do the move. If she felt she was not good enough for anything else yesterday then those are her issues. Her problem is she wants the guy to do the move. If she feels rejected in anyway that's her problem

purplerein said:

I've never seen Spats and Imago in the same room at the same time..

Spats said:

XxAxX said:

agree 110%. i think the ritualized wedding is little more than a scam, perpetrated by the 'wedding industry' to suck money out of people.

imo no better way exists for two lovers to curse their own union

Tell that to the newlyweds.

XxAxX said:

Spats said:

Tell that to the newlyweds.

i tried! i tried to talk my friends out of going $10,000 into debt for a wedding. but nooooo... love wasn't enough. it wasn't enough that they were actually lucky enough to find each other and be together, they had to trim everything with lace and frost it into the bargain.

XxAxX said:

Spats said:

Tell that to the newlyweds.

i tried! i tried to talk my friends out of going $10,000 into debt for a wedding. but nooooo... love wasn't enough. it wasn't enough that they were actually lucky enough to find each other and be together, they had to trim everything with lace and frost it into the bargain. and yes, eventually the debt became a source of irritation for them
[Edited 8/8/06 14:05pm]

purplerein said:

XxAxX said:

i tried! i tried to talk my friends out of going $10,000 into debt for a wedding. but nooooo... love wasn't enough. it wasn't enough that they were actually lucky enough to find each other and be together, they had to trim everything with lace and frost it into the bargain.

if that's what made them happy..it's their problem. weddings are for some people and not for others...we can't fault people for their choices, unless the choice is running into a burning building or something like that

Spats said:

purplerein said:

Spats said:

Well you would think she would get the hint by now. But you never know with women.

instead of hints..why not be honest and tell her. what are you afraid of

Handclapsfingasnapz said:

mdiver said:

XxAxX said:

i tried! i tried to talk my friends out of going $10,000 into debt for a wedding. but nooooo... love wasn't enough. it wasn't enough that they were actually lucky enough to find each other and be together, they had to trim everything with lace and frost it into the bargain. and yes, eventually the debt became a source of irritation for them
[Edited 8/8/06 14:05pm]

Then the problem is their view of marriage not marriage itself....many have married for £50 and been happy for years...the union its self is not at fault..the view of what is required is wrong.

XxAxX said:

mdiver said:

Then the problem is their view of marriage not marriage itself....many have married for £50 and been happy for years...the union its self is not at fault..the view of what is required is wrong.

i agree. i don't think it's at all necessary to memorialize love in the way the wedding industry would have us do (and by the way you just agreed with Spats )

personally, i would never want my lover to pay a fortun$ for some stupid diamond ring. it's a tacky tradition, imo

luv4all7 said:

I am so confused about how these Spats threads end up being like 12 pages long and hanging around for like whole months.

purplerein said:

luv4all7 said:

I am so confused about how these Spats threads end up being like 12 pages long and hanging around for like whole months.

Cause it's like the auto wreck on the side of the road..you can't help but look.
if everyone (myself included ) would ignore him..

purplerein said:

luv4all7 said:

I am so confused about how these Spats threads end up being like 12 pages long and hanging around for like whole months.

Cause it's like the auto wreck on the side of the road..you can't help but look.
if everyone (myself included ) would ignore him..

JustErin said:

mdiver said:

XxAxX said:

i agree. i don't think it's at all necessary to memorialize love in the way the wedding industry would have us do (and by the way you just agreed with Spats )

personally, i would never want my lover to pay a fortun$ for some stupid diamond ring. it's a tacky tradition, imo

I agree but that in its self does not undermine the union of 2 people who love each other and want to formalize that.....so no i didnt just agree with him his issue is not with the financial side of it it is with the institution itself.....
[Edited 8/8/06 14:23pm]

XxAxX said:

well, spats said this:

It's true. The whole spectacle of a wedding is nonsense. The dress, the music, the vows, the whole thing. It's just something women yearn for since they were little girls for some reason.

i guess his words could be read a number of ways at that

fantasyislander said:

JustErin said: