purplerein said:

I don't have a lot of issues. I just find it gross. I gotta question any woman who loves doing that.

Spats said:

having a heart does not equal being a wimp. the strongest people are those who've got the balls to love themselves and others. one day you'll wake up, like a lot of people. maybe.

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mrdespues said:

No having a heart does not equal being a sissy boy. But guys that leave flowers on pillows or write stupid poems or get into romantic bullshit are.

Spats said:

Yes? What would you like to know?

Spats said:

dude, you're so opinionated about other people and what they choose to do in their love life that it leads me to think you're not very happy with yourself. forget about other people... if they like being romantic, that is entirely their choice... i think you have a very "hallmark"-ish view of romance... it's not all flowers and bunnies.

just go for what you like.. you seem threatened in an obsessive way about romance and sensitivity... you will never find a successful relationship if you don't learn to love yourself first. but somehow i don't think love is really your bag... though some like you don't admit it, or don't know it yet, it really is everyone's... you'd be dead without it, as a mammal.

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JustErin said:

mrdespues said:

And one of the main causes of their game playing is how they were raised. Their moms did not raise them right. Moms have to be more careful how they raise their daughters. It's the same with women who go for jerks or women who are stuck in a 50's mentality. They learned it from their moms who did the same thing. Always look at the parenting. Bad role models at home.

I feel for you when it comes to the dating world. It's not pretty out there. In fact it's depressing a lot of the time.

Spats said:

I agree with you on that, actually. In my version though, there needs to be a good balance between simple manners/decency and honesty/integrity. I am so sick of rude and stand-offish people, men or women. Get over yourselves.

I'm a bit bored of this thread now. Goodbye.




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Spats said:

NOOOOO! Guys who do not like a woman to make noise, faces or give or receive oral ..
I have never heard a guy say all of those things..
I know some Non-wussy boys too..


For me sex is a way of expression your feelings for another person and being connected to that person in a way like you are with no one else.
A unique way of giving that person pleasure, joy & happiness. So- if a man enjoys oral then so do I .. if he is enjoying it then I am too... To me it is about pleasuring your partner and receiving pleasure in return.
So- that is why I keep asking what you like about sex??
I am sure it is entirely different for you..
See- we are all different
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shanti0608 said:

see, spats is not about pleasuring a woman, he's all about conquering a 'trophy' he can then talk/brag about.....maybe he succeeded (which can be questionable) and that would be the reason why he's not anymore.....spats doesn't like sex.....

eventhough I post pics with girls on them (some of which I've been intimate with), these pics are to me a testiment to a good time.....these women are genuine friends, sacktime or none.....

spats isn't capable of that, call me a bragger.....

abierman said:

No- I call You a REAL man...

shanti0608 said:

abierman said:

cool.



got any spares?

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

mrdespues said:

I am sure he does but I think you should have no trouble on your own..

Imago said:

dang, i missed that... sorry supes

you know i would, if i was wired that way

mrdespues said:

I'm sorry, but Supa has the best personality ever!

mrdespues said:

come and hang with me!

I get myself in trouble all the time somehow.....

abierman said:

i'd love to my friend

i'm thinking of heading to the UK soon (have dual citizenship)... might get over your way you know!

this is probably the most popular thread i've ever started.

i just want to say thankyou to all those who made it happen.





i'm over my little shit-fit now. bring on the women!

mrdespues said:

Hell yeah!!
That's the spirit!

As a person who is also sick of the opposite gender you and I could argue all day about which gender plays the most games.But I have done the following:



I LEFT MEN'S BITCH ASSES ALONE.

left them alone.
left them alone, child.
*i'm dancing right now*
left them alone.

I have been celibate for four years. That's how fed up my black ass is with men and the stupid childish selfish pussy-greedy games they play.


Now I'm betting that you're not that tired of women.
But feel free to vent your frustrations.

Shit, men and game-playing go together like peanut butter and jelly. The difference is men's games involve them seeing how many women they can juggle before one of them finds out. Women may play with a muhfuggahs's mind, but it is only ONE muhfuggah.

alwayslate said:

we should get together for a drink. i don't do that shit. never have, never will.

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alwayslate said:

Would that this were true.

shanti0608 said:

Well i a not sticking my face down there ever again no matter how much they want it. I have no problem with pleasuring a woman but not if the act disgusts me. It's just gross and they are not going downtown on me no matter how much they want to. I wouldn't be able to respect them after that.

mrdespues said:

I am happy with myself. And it's women that have the hallmark view of romance. That's why women watch soap operas, like poems, and dream of weddings and being swept off their feet.

I have been in love before but i have met very few lovable women.

I am not looking for a long term relationship. I want my freedom.

Spats said:

Wow- sorry you had a bad experience...
I have never had anyone that had that reaction after doing that to me but hey.. to each his/her own...
So- big question?? Did you finally get sacktime.. whatever that consists of?

abierman said:

I don't mind pleasuring a woman. Just not at the expense of my self respect.

Spats said:

Ok... here again I do not understand you.. I have never heard a guy say that going down on me was being disrespectful to himself..but if YOU do not feel comfortable doing it then you should not.. I guess we agree on that..

I cannot speak for the guys on this subject.. hopefully some male orgers will explain this to me..

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