JustErin said:

yep. bad experiences.

mrdespues said:

BUT STILL???? I dunno, where I live it's so simple. Theres so many single ppl that r attractive and seemingly good guys looking for a relationship, is it just harder for guys????

mrdespues said:

Like I said, that's not a long time!!!!!

jerseykrs said:

ass.

it's been about a year now, really.

luv4all7 said:

it's easier in america. trust me.. i've lived in both places.

but let's not go there or i might end up like spats and we don't want that.


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mrdespues said:

thanks for playing.

i sincerely thank u.

mrdespues said:

Oh, yeah, then that's long.

Despues, and You could not find a girl that u like in a year????

Whats the deal?

Genuinely asking, I find this interesting.

jerseykrs said:

told ya.





things are starting to rot down there.

mrdespues said:

Hey, I feel your pain but with the men. I got hit on by a really hot chick last week and actually considered going the gay way.

luv4all7 said:

well, listen:

ex and i were still "together" in our minds (yet not in physicality) a couple months ago... though it was a very rocky "together" with virtually every day having us talking on the phone in misery for how much we missed each other... that went on for about 8 months or more... but it had been that way for YEARS, each time we were seperated because of the fucking visa situation in the U.S.Anal.

ok. so, you see then, that i couldn't get with anyone else. i was tied down. we were going to marry and were happy about it, or so i thought. all the while over that 8 months before we broke up SHE'D had major fixations on some guy ya dayayayada.....and so she tells me months after the EVENT of it being an ISSUE so KAPUT. end of the relationship. make sense?

CarrieLee said:

please, let's get it on then.



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ok.. that was a JOKE... carrielee...

mrdespues said:

Yeah, I get it, sit fido, sit. good dog.

luv4all7 said:

why is it that people get the wrong idea when you don't post enough emoticons? (God: I don't know, John.. it just is, my son...) y'all should know me better than that by now...

luv4all7 said:

It can be tough for guys. A lot of people focus on the female-to-male numbers ratio. But, it can difficult fiding someone with your values, similar interests, complementary disposition, degree of attractiveness, etc. Very often, the good ones are taken.

Sometimes, even the ones who seem nice at the outset are so riddled with issues that they have developed defense mechanisms that manifest in game-playing. I love Fiona Apple's music, but I'm tired of dating her ilk. I think MrD is expressing the same sort of frustration.

ThreadBare said:

i'd date you if you were female. on that post alone.

Thanks for explaining.

Fiona is lovely.

mrdespues said:

Thanks.

And

luv4all7 said:

Not by month seven...

ThreadBare said:

.....Ah, issues are interesting.

luv4all7 said:

just ask Spats!

ThreadBare said:

yeah... you probably wouldn't like me anyway. i'm too much like Fiona.

mrdespues, do like I do.....I've single for two years now, meaning not having been a real steady relationship..... play the game like they do, pay these women back the shit they're giving you, do it gentle, don't be a pig.....you'll have fun and they'll somehow like your cockiness, as they're doing just the same. You'll find yourself having a great time with women and maybe eventually you'll find the right girl..... I haven't found the right girl yet, I'm not easy either, but I do enjoy being in the 'datingzone' (as Spats used to call it).....lack of sex is not an issue (unless you're Spats... )
But beware, you can also get fucked up.....

abierman said:

been there, done that

thanks for the tip, but it's lost on these ears

mrdespues said:

ok, do speed-dating then..... .....internet-stuff.....all that lame shit that doesn't work for me....


all due respect, I don't believe your 'problem' lies with women.....

abierman said:

it takes all kinds, abierman

i went too far in one direction to just go back to the start, dig?



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mrdespues said:

so you expect women to jump on your bandwagon???

I doubt that will work.....