Handclapsfingasnapz said:

oh, but there's a big difference between a look and yelling 'hey baby!' and whatnot after you down the street. I don't mind a look and a smile. But the wolf whistles and carrying on have GOT to go. I agree.

CarrieMpls said:

looks and smiles i don't really mind, but for me, a look is followed by an ignorant comment 98% of the time. i can count the number of polite, respectful comments i've gotten on one hand. and you know how i dress too, so it ain't like i've got my boobs and ass out for the world to see either so guys can talk to me like that. it's just ridiculous.

Handclapsfingasnapz said:

I remember this one time I was walking home from the subway with my headphones on, minding my business. i think i was coming home from work, so i was crazy tired. anyway, this guy comes up and starts talking and whatever but i just ignore him because I HAVE MY DAMN HEADPHONES ON AND THAT MEANS LEAVE ME ALONE! and wouldn't you know, he says, "I KNOW YOU CAN HEAR ME!!"

so i started walking faster and he went away.

You do realize men are ALWAYS looking, don't you? It doesn't matter whether we actually say anything.

Ladies, if you dress skimpy, men are going to look, it is that easy. We like to look at fine ladies, that is how we were built. You gotta know this by now. Cover up if you don't want us with our tongues hangin out. hehe

Ladies, if you dress skimpy, men are going to look, it is that easy. We like to look at fine ladies, that is how we were built. You gotta know this by now. Cover up if you don't want us with our tongues hangin out. hehe

Ladies, if you dress skimpy, men are going to look, it is that easy. We like to look at fine ladies, that is how we were built. You gotta know this by now. Cover up if you don't want us with our tongues hangin out. hehe

CalhounSq said:

co-

2freaky4church1 said:

But it doesn't even matter what you wear sometimes - you can be covered head to toe & guys will still act like they've never seen boobs beneath fabric before

2freaky4church1 said:

But it doesn't even matter what you wear sometimes - you can be covered head to toe & guys will still act like they've never seen boobs beneath fabric before

CalhounSq said:

exactly!

JasmineFire said:

ya'll are crazy.

Handclapsfingasnapz said:

Blame God or nature. But don't blame us.

so this weekend was hot outside...i mean HAWWWT.
so i broke out the tubetop and daisy dukes
my sister and i were on our way 2 the beach for the weekend but i needed to pick up a chair @ Canadian Tire (crappy tire for those of u who are also canadian...)
so we're standing in line, i'm all dolled up and i move aside because i hear someone trying to pass through

...its this old'ish man WITH HIS GRANDKIDS...and i caught him looking @ me from behind, then as he was passing he was all grinning at me and slowing down, and his grandkids were like "granpa lets go!" and he just kept strolling by grinning @ me...even stopping @ the door to look @ me again!

i felt so violated, but my sister and i, as well as the cashier (who was a friend of mind from highschool) had a good laugh

i know i looked decent, ive never had enough courage to go out in public looking like that
and i dont know if i'd do it again
not to mention that we stopped @ a mall too and there was this CONGREGATION of old italian men, and when i walked by they all stopped yelling to take a look...

im not amazonian queen or anything so im nothing exotic 2 look @

anyways i thought i'd share that with you all so you too could get a good laugh

It sounds like you're ok with young and handsome guys paying attention to you, but not the "old" men?
Don't get me wrong, it can be disrespectful and creepy.
like those shorts or sweat pants that have stuff written like a banner on girls butts.
If you put the honey out there you're going to swat away some bees.

And there's the misconception that people grow out of horny.

SammiJ said:

ALL LIES I TELL U!!!!! ALL LIES!!!! ALL OF IT!!!!!....at least what's in bold.

This girl is hot...she just don't know it. I don't know why, cuz she see's in the mirror what I see. She's got beautiful eyes....the hair is coming along. Beautiful smooth skin that covers a beautiful smooth figure. And T&A to die for. I understand why old men would oogle her. I don't like it...but I understand.


and underneath that beautiful exterior is a beautiful person...of which I fell in love with and will marry. If I had made a mistake and married someone else...and saw her on the street, I would be oogling as well....that's why I understand...don't like it...but understand.
[Edited 7/17/06 20:29pm]

Being disrepectful is never called for but as far as looking at women (MILFS included, ) I have zero control over it. Fine is fine and it don't matter who you're with or how old I am.

Clevage is like looking at the sun, you never look directly at it, always indirect but again, zero control over that.

I guess its what makes me a straight male.

that kinda happened to me in the porno store once. I was in there with a hoodie because men tend to like to talk to me and I don't go in there to make friends. So I'm staring at the boring selection and this 70-something year old man comes next to me and says "as good looking as you are, you should be in these movies." and I said "...thanks." and kinda stepped away. Then he came close again and said "So....do you want me to suck you off." Good God holy church of the negro and BET in the mornin HELL naw. I got the fuck up outta there. But yeah Sammi, you should post pics.

Slave2daGroove said:

What about the guys who stare? Like this -->

Slave2daGroove said:

What about the guys who stare? Like this -->