so this weekend was hot outside...i mean HAWWWT.
so i broke out the tubetop and daisy dukes
my sister and i were on our way 2 the beach for the weekend but i needed to pick up a chair @ Canadian Tire (crappy tire for those of u who are also canadian...)
so we're standing in line, i'm all dolled up and i move aside because i hear someone trying to pass through

...its this old'ish man WITH HIS GRANDKIDS...and i caught him looking @ me from behind, then as he was passing he was all grinning at me and slowing down, and his grandkids were like "granpa lets go!" and he just kept strolling by grinning @ me...even stopping @ the door to look @ me again!

i felt so violated, but my sister and i, as well as the cashier (who was a friend of mind from highschool) had a good laugh

i know i looked decent, ive never had enough courage to go out in public looking like that
and i dont know if i'd do it again
not to mention that we stopped @ a mall too and there was this CONGREGATION of old italian men, and when i walked by they all stopped yelling to take a look...

im not amazonian queen or anything so im nothing exotic 2 look @

anyways i thought i'd share that with you all so you too could get a good laugh

never underestimate how cute you are.

i HATE that! i've even had old men ask me for my phone number 'n shit. wtf?!? you're old enough to be my damn grandfather!


it majorly creeps me out.

JasmineFire said:

its a stew of feelings
its creepy
but funny because these men still think they're 20

SammiJ said:

it is a but funny when you think that these guys think that they may actually have a chance.

it's amazing that some of them are so bold. younger men who are shy should take a lesson from them. sorta.

JasmineFire said:

SammiJ said:

Maybe we shouldn't have talked you out of posing for Suicide Girls.

i'm pretty sure i'll be the same way when i get old.

SammiJ said:

when he got home, he said yannow who I saw at Canadian Tire?...WHOOPIE FREAKIN GOLDBERG...and SHES HAWTT

It sounds like you're ok with young and handsome guys paying attention to you, but not the "old" men?
Don't get me wrong, it can be disrespectful and creepy.
like those shorts or sweat pants that have stuff written like a banner on girls butts.
If you put the honey out there you're going to swat away some bees.

And there's the misconception that people grow out of horny.

It used to bother me. I don't let it anymore. I just imagine the dirty old men are invisible and too bad they cannot have what they want coz they ain't getting it.

on the flip side, i can't wait to be an old woman so i can shamelessly flirt with the young men...

my grandma's friends do it and i think it's so cute.


hypocritical of me, i guess...

JasmineFire said:

that is cute, i can't wait to do that

but we all get that sometimes sammij i find it amusing, i just say hello and keep going

sinisterpentatonic said:

eww

I feel disgusted too at first and just laugh it off later.

AnckSuNamun said:

When I was younger and more self-conscious about myself it bothered me. Now I don't care if it's an 80 year old man, it's just nice to be appreciated.

JasmineFire said:

Me too.

that kinda happened to me in the porno store once. I was in there with a hoodie because men tend to like to talk to me and I don't go in there to make friends. So I'm staring at the boring selection and this 70-something year old man comes next to me and says "as good looking as you are, you should be in these movies." and I said "...thanks." and kinda stepped away. Then he came close again and said "So....do you want me to suck you off." Good God holy church of the negro and BET in the mornin HELL naw. I got the fuck up outta there. But yeah Sammi, you should post pics.

DiscoballStallion said:

See now, that's just taking it a step too far

AnckSuNamun said:

Who you tellin. He reminded me of that old dude who used to do those oatmeal commercials. Coincidentally, Cocoon came on that same night. I didn't watch it though. I mean, if he was younger and I was in the mood then it would've been game on.

DiscoballStallion said:

DiscoballStallion said:

The Quaker Oats man?

AnckSuNamun said:

Wilford Brimely is a stone cold freak. Believe it.

CalhounSq said:

that shit's my new signature!

as for the subject at hand--i hate, hate, hate, hate hate HATE being ogled at by people. it's got nothing to do with self-consciousness or anything like that, it's just that i've heard so much of it ever since hitting puberty that it annoys the bejesus outta me. you think i look cute/pretty/attractive/whatever? wolf-whistling, staring at me constantly and yelling "hey, shaaaaawty!" is NOT the way to let me know.

SammiJ said:

First of all! You are F'in beautiful! I'm as straight as they come, and I'D check ya out too!

I hear ya though. It's gross!!!!!

I went grocery shopping this morning and I was looking for my iced tea, and the guy stalking the shelves goes "What R ya lookin for"

I'm like "the Southern Brew"

He's like "rite there"

Then he goes (TOTALLY looking at my crotch), "I tried it and it was too sweet for me, but I guess everything is sweeter down South"

OMFG! I had 2 babies in a CAR CART with me for cryin' out loud.

Guys R JUST GROSS!

Face it Sammi!
[Edited 7/17/06 13:26pm]

Handclapsfingasnapz said:

oh, but there's a big difference between a look and yelling 'hey baby!' and whatnot after you down the street. I don't mind a look and a smile. But the wolf whistles and carrying on have GOT to go. I agree.

luv4all7 said:

CalhounSq said:

co-