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Reply #180 posted 06/29/06 2:41pm

MIGUELGOMEZ

notoriousj said:

HereToRockYourWorld said:



I don't have somebody else after me! I'm after somebody else! There's a difference! lol




Melle Mel was an original memeber of "Grandmaster Flash and the Furious 5" I don't know if that is who they were talking about but that is the only Melle Mel I know. lol
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Sorry Madartista quoted Madonna's Truth or Dare.
Carry on.


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Reply #181 posted 06/29/06 2:43pm

MIGUELGOMEZ

HereToRockYourWorld said:

And there has been a TWIST. . . ah, the coworker thing. . .

So. I gave her a ride to pick up her car at lunchtime today, and she drops a total bomb on me: she used to be in a relationship with my supervisor. Who is, apparently, very jealous.

And I've picked up on the fact that the supervisor doesn't like that my crush and I get along, but I couldn't figure out why the hell she'd care.

Well, now I know. She's jealous.

While I'd like to believe that she could remain professional if Hotness and I get involved, jealousy is a fucking powerful thing.

Oh, drama.

My inclination at the moment, honestly, is to just level with Hotness, tell her I've got a thing for her, and find out whether it is at all mutual. Because my employer wants me to stay for another year (my position was supposed to end in teh fall, but they're bribing me to stay), but I'm much more interested in Hotness than in the job, and (as many of you thoughtfully warned), it's really looking like the two could be incompatible.

But I don't WANT to level with her! I'm scurred. boxed

bawl




Can this thread get any hotter? There's jealousy, flirting, bisexuality, open relationships. Wooo hoo!!! I need some Sun Tea to cool off.


M
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Reply #182 posted 06/29/06 2:44pm

notoriousj

HereToRockYourWorld said:

And there has been a TWIST. . . ah, the coworker thing. . .

So. I gave her a ride to pick up her car at lunchtime today, and she drops a total bomb on me: she used to be in a relationship with my supervisor. Who is, apparently, very jealous.

And I've picked up on the fact that the supervisor doesn't like that my crush and I get along, but I couldn't figure out why the hell she'd care.

Well, now I know. She's jealous.

While I'd like to believe that she could remain professional if Hotness and I get involved, jealousy is a fucking powerful thing.

Oh, drama.

My inclination at the moment, honestly, is to just level with Hotness, tell her I've got a thing for her, and find out whether it is at all mutual. Because my employer wants me to stay for another year (my position was supposed to end in teh fall, but they're bribing me to stay), but I'm much more interested in Hotness than in the job, and (as many of you thoughtfully warned), it's really looking like the two could be incompatible.

But I don't WANT to level with her! I'm scurred. boxed

bawl




Well dear you can not let fear rule what you do...some fear is good, but fear to the point that is makes you not want to do something is not good. As weird as it may feel, you basically have to suck it up, and level with her and tell her how it is...cause if you don't you may never get what you want. And that would suck even worse.
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Reply #183 posted 06/29/06 2:44pm

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MIGUELGOMEZ said:

HereToRockYourWorld said:

And there has been a TWIST. . . ah, the coworker thing. . .

So. I gave her a ride to pick up her car at lunchtime today, and she drops a total bomb on me: she used to be in a relationship with my supervisor. Who is, apparently, very jealous.

And I've picked up on the fact that the supervisor doesn't like that my crush and I get along, but I couldn't figure out why the hell she'd care.

Well, now I know. She's jealous.

While I'd like to believe that she could remain professional if Hotness and I get involved, jealousy is a fucking powerful thing.

Oh, drama.

My inclination at the moment, honestly, is to just level with Hotness, tell her I've got a thing for her, and find out whether it is at all mutual. Because my employer wants me to stay for another year (my position was supposed to end in teh fall, but they're bribing me to stay), but I'm much more interested in Hotness than in the job, and (as many of you thoughtfully warned), it's really looking like the two could be incompatible.

But I don't WANT to level with her! I'm scurred. boxed

bawl




Can this thread get any hotter? There's jealousy, flirting, bisexuality, open relationships. Wooo hoo!!! I need some Sun Tea to cool off.


M



Yes. It will get hotter when I get to come back and tell you mutherfuckers what she TASTES LIKE. Stay tuned. cool
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Reply #184 posted 06/29/06 2:45pm

notoriousj

MIGUELGOMEZ said:

notoriousj said:





Melle Mel was an original memeber of "Grandmaster Flash and the Furious 5" I don't know if that is who they were talking about but that is the only Melle Mel I know. lol
[Edited 6/29/06 14:38pm]



Sorry Madartista quoted Madonna's Truth or Dare.
Carry on.


M




Ok well I tried... pout
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Reply #185 posted 06/29/06 2:46pm

notoriousj

HereToRockYourWorld said:

MIGUELGOMEZ said:





Can this thread get any hotter? There's jealousy, flirting, bisexuality, open relationships. Wooo hoo!!! I need some Sun Tea to cool off.


M



Yes. It will get hotter when I get to come back and tell you mutherfuckers what she TASTES LIKE. Stay tuned. cool





More info then I needed...thanks though confused
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Reply #186 posted 06/29/06 2:46pm

MIGUELGOMEZ

HereToRockYourWorld said:

MIGUELGOMEZ said:





Can this thread get any hotter? There's jealousy, flirting, bisexuality, open relationships. Wooo hoo!!! I need some Sun Tea to cool off.


M



Yes. It will get hotter when I get to come back and tell you mutherfuckers what she TASTES LIKE. Stay tuned. cool




....I just picked myself off the floor from gasping and swooning...I can't wait to hear.

It'll either taste like canteloupe (a couple of friends have told me) or plain yogurt.

Break a leg.....(tongue?)

M
MyeternalgrattitudetoPhil&Val.Herman said "We want sweaty truckers at the truck stop! We want cigar puffing men that look like they wanna beat the living daylights out of us" Val"sporking is spooning with benefits"
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Reply #187 posted 06/29/06 2:47pm

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MIGUELGOMEZ said:

HereToRockYourWorld said:




Yes. It will get hotter when I get to come back and tell you mutherfuckers what she TASTES LIKE. Stay tuned. cool




....I just picked myself off the floor from gasping and swooning...I can't wait to hear.

It'll either taste like canteloupe (a couple of friends have told me) or plain yogurt.

Break a leg.....(tongue?)

M


I totally love you, Miguel. lol
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Reply #188 posted 06/29/06 2:49pm

MIGUELGOMEZ

HereToRockYourWorld said:

MIGUELGOMEZ said:





....I just picked myself off the floor from gasping and swooning...I can't wait to hear.

It'll either taste like canteloupe (a couple of friends have told me) or plain yogurt.

Break a leg.....(tongue?)

M


I totally love you, Miguel. lol



In a Prince-long-version-Computer-Blue-voice "The feeling's mutual."


sorry for FAMMing out edit.
M
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Reply #189 posted 06/29/06 2:59pm

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HereToRockYourWorld said:

MIGUELGOMEZ said:




I thought of that right when I wrote Melly Mel. Get out of my head Chris!!!! lol

That documentary is genius.


M



I have no idea what the fuck you guys are talking about. lol


As Miguel said, it's quoting Madonna's ode to her then assistant Melissa in a Birthday po-em.
let me come over it's a beautiful day to play with you in the dark
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Reply #190 posted 06/29/06 3:00pm

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HereToRockYourWorld said:

Yes. It will get hotter when I get to come back and tell you mutherfuckers what she TASTES LIKE. Stay tuned. cool


OMG! TM, TM!!!
let me come over it's a beautiful day to play with you in the dark
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Reply #191 posted 06/29/06 3:36pm

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madartista said:

HereToRockYourWorld said:

Yes. It will get hotter when I get to come back and tell you mutherfuckers what she TASTES LIKE. Stay tuned. cool


OMG! TM, TM!!!



You want me to text message you what she tastes like? confuse

Well, ok. wacky
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Reply #192 posted 06/29/06 3:58pm

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HereToRockYourWorld said:

madartista said:



OMG! TM, TM!!!



You want me to text message you what she tastes like? confuse

Well, ok. wacky


LOL. That's GLAADspeak, for "too much, too much" -- because TMI was apparently too long!
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Reply #193 posted 06/29/06 4:21pm

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madartista said:

HereToRockYourWorld said:




You want me to text message you what she tastes like? confuse

Well, ok. wacky


LOL. That's GLAADspeak, for "too much, too much" -- because TMI was apparently too long!



I figured that's what you meant. lol

I'm sorry, but not only am I the queen of TMI, I'm making Miguel swoon! Who could resist?
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Reply #194 posted 06/29/06 4:24pm

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HereToRockYourWorld said:

I figured that's what you meant. lol

I'm sorry, but not only am I the queen of TMI, I'm making Miguel swoon! Who could resist?


wink i'm overly sensitive to girlspeak, being the Grade A Homo tht I am.
let me come over it's a beautiful day to play with you in the dark
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Reply #195 posted 06/29/06 5:27pm

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notoriousj said:

HereToRockYourWorld said:

And there has been a TWIST. . . ah, the coworker thing. . .

So. I gave her a ride to pick up her car at lunchtime today, and she drops a total bomb on me: she used to be in a relationship with my supervisor. Who is, apparently, very jealous.

And I've picked up on the fact that the supervisor doesn't like that my crush and I get along, but I couldn't figure out why the hell she'd care.

Well, now I know. She's jealous.

While I'd like to believe that she could remain professional if Hotness and I get involved, jealousy is a fucking powerful thing.

Oh, drama.

My inclination at the moment, honestly, is to just level with Hotness, tell her I've got a thing for her, and find out whether it is at all mutual. Because my employer wants me to stay for another year (my position was supposed to end in teh fall, but they're bribing me to stay), but I'm much more interested in Hotness than in the job, and (as many of you thoughtfully warned), it's really looking like the two could be incompatible.

But I don't WANT to level with her! I'm scurred. boxed

bawl




Well dear you can not let fear rule what you do...some fear is good, but fear to the point that is makes you not want to do something is not good. As weird as it may feel, you basically have to suck it up, and level with her and tell her how it is...cause if you don't you may never get what you want. And that would suck even worse.
[Edited 6/29/06 14:49pm]



I don't really dig the very real possibility of being crushed by rejection. boxed
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Reply #196 posted 06/29/06 5:31pm

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HereToRockYourWorld said:

notoriousj said:





Well dear you can not let fear rule what you do...some fear is good, but fear to the point that is makes you not want to do something is not good. As weird as it may feel, you basically have to suck it up, and level with her and tell her how it is...cause if you don't you may never get what you want. And that would suck even worse.
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I don't really dig the very real possibility of being crushed by rejection. boxed


But you'll never know you can fly unless you gas up the jet smile
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Reply #197 posted 06/29/06 5:32pm

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Besides, overnight dog sitting topped with a nature hike in the morning is a lesbians wet dream lol I think something really amazing is in your future biggrin

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Reply #198 posted 06/29/06 5:50pm

notoriousj

HereToRockYourWorld said:

notoriousj said:





Well dear you can not let fear rule what you do...some fear is good, but fear to the point that is makes you not want to do something is not good. As weird as it may feel, you basically have to suck it up, and level with her and tell her how it is...cause if you don't you may never get what you want. And that would suck even worse.
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I don't really dig the very real possibility of being crushed by rejection. boxed




Melissa listen, rejection sucks its part of life, but like supa said you will never know unless you take that chance. God knows we all had our fare share of rejections in the past, but don't let the fear of rejection, the fear of the past and what people have said or done, keep you from moving on to a wonderful future. The past likes to hold us back if we dwell on it...Life is full of chances...now do you want to sit later in life wondering "what if?" I don't think you do, but I know its scary and no matter what happens you will come out of it fine. Think about all the other things you have survived, if you can survive them you can survive this....Shit girl if I can survive getting ditched in a fuckin airport then you can get through this no matter how it turns out. You will be fine....just do it! wink
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Reply #199 posted 06/29/06 5:56pm

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notoriousj said:

HereToRockYourWorld said:




I don't really dig the very real possibility of being crushed by rejection. boxed




Melissa listen, rejection sucks its part of life, but like supa said you will never know unless you take that chance. God knows we all had our fare share of rejections in the past, but don't let the fear of rejection, the fear of the past and what people have said or done, keep you from moving on to a wonderful future. The past likes to hold us back if we dwell on it...Life is full of chances...now do you want to sit later in life wondering "what if?" I don't think you do, but I know its scary and no matter what happens you will come out of it fine. Think about all the other things you have survived, if you can survive them you can survive this....Shit girl if I can survive getting ditched in a fuckin airport then you can get through this no matter how it turns out. You will be fine....just do it! wink


Listen to this smart lass nod God if I only had the balls to be more courageous in my 20s I'd be much farther than I am in life nod I take chances now more than I ever have and I always see it like you will never know if you don't try and who wants to give the rejections of the past that much power over your future? I sure don't.
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Reply #200 posted 06/29/06 6:10pm

MIGUELGOMEZ

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

HereToRockYourWorld said:




I don't really dig the very real possibility of being crushed by rejection. boxed


But you'll never know you can fly unless you gas up the jet smile




I don't ever want you to include the word gas when you are talking about sex, ever again. lol


M
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Reply #201 posted 06/29/06 6:13pm

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HereToRockYourWorld said:

And there has been a TWIST. . . ah, the coworker thing. . .

So. I gave her a ride to pick up her car at lunchtime today, and she drops a total bomb on me: she used to be in a relationship with my supervisor. Who is, apparently, very jealous.

And I've picked up on the fact that the supervisor doesn't like that my crush and I get along, but I couldn't figure out why the hell she'd care.

Well, now I know. She's jealous.

While I'd like to believe that she could remain professional if Hotness and I get involved, jealousy is a fucking powerful thing.

Oh, drama.

My inclination at the moment, honestly, is to just level with Hotness, tell her I've got a thing for her, and find out whether it is at all mutual. Because my employer wants me to stay for another year (my position was supposed to end in teh fall, but they're bribing me to stay), but I'm much more interested in Hotness than in the job, and (as many of you thoughtfully warned), it's really looking like the two could be incompatible.

But I don't WANT to level with her! I'm scurred. boxed

bawl


omg! You can do it!


ee!

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Reply #202 posted 06/29/06 6:16pm

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MIGUELGOMEZ said:

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:



But you'll never know you can fly unless you feul up the jet smile




I don't ever want you to include the word gas when you are talking about sex, ever again. lol


M
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Is that better razz
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Reply #203 posted 06/29/06 6:17pm

notoriousj

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

notoriousj said:





Melissa listen, rejection sucks its part of life, but like supa said you will never know unless you take that chance. God knows we all had our fare share of rejections in the past, but don't let the fear of rejection, the fear of the past and what people have said or done, keep you from moving on to a wonderful future. The past likes to hold us back if we dwell on it...Life is full of chances...now do you want to sit later in life wondering "what if?" I don't think you do, but I know its scary and no matter what happens you will come out of it fine. Think about all the other things you have survived, if you can survive them you can survive this....Shit girl if I can survive getting ditched in a fuckin airport then you can get through this no matter how it turns out. You will be fine....just do it! wink


Listen to this smart lass nod God if I only had the balls to be more courageous in my 20s I'd be much farther than I am in life nod I take chances now more than I ever have and I always see it like you will never know if you don't try and who wants to give the rejections of the past that much power over your future? I sure don't.




Thanks hug I gave similar advice to someone else the other night...so far they have not taken it. rolleyes

lol Not to blow my own horn Melissa but I do know what I am talking about. I don't mean that to sound egotistical and such...but then again I don't use esquire in my name either.
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Reply #204 posted 06/29/06 6:20pm

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HereToRockYourWorld said:

And there has been a TWIST. . . ah, the coworker thing. . .

So. I gave her a ride to pick up her car at lunchtime today, and she drops a total bomb on me: she used to be in a relationship with my supervisor. Who is, apparently, very jealous.

And I've picked up on the fact that the supervisor doesn't like that my crush and I get along, but I couldn't figure out why the hell she'd care.

Well, now I know. She's jealous.

While I'd like to believe that she could remain professional if Hotness and I get involved, jealousy is a fucking powerful thing.

Oh, drama.

My inclination at the moment, honestly, is to just level with Hotness, tell her I've got a thing for her, and find out whether it is at all mutual. Because my employer wants me to stay for another year (my position was supposed to end in teh fall, but they're bribing me to stay), but I'm much more interested in Hotness than in the job, and (as many of you thoughtfully warned), it's really looking like the two could be incompatible.

But I don't WANT to level with her! I'm scurred. boxed

bawl


It sounds like she leveled with you already, to create an opening for you to express your feelings. I don't know, but I don't think most people would open up about that kind of inter-office relationship casually. So, it sounds like she trusts you and wants to hear what you think of her.

Secondly, the job sounds nuttier by the moment. Are you looking around?
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Reply #205 posted 06/29/06 6:20pm

notoriousj

If it does not work out ya always got me....


who's yo favorite heffa?

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Reply #206 posted 06/29/06 6:38pm

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notoriousj said:

If it does not work out ya always got me....


who's yo favorite heffa?

batting eyes wink

Not counting me, it has to be the flyest ho up in this joint mr.green
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Reply #207 posted 06/29/06 7:55pm

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Pfft, you fuckers just wanna know how the story ends already. talk to the hand

lol

Darlings, I think it's good advice. I do. I'm gonna feel it out. But. . . well. . . we were blabbing again today, and I told her we should "hang out" sometime outside of work so that we don't have to be interrupted by phones and stuff, and she comes up to me a few minutes later and asks me to go and "get drinks" with her on the 4th (which we both have off). Aren't "drinks" a date?


HOLY FUCK, did she ASK ME OUT?! omfg

I just realized that maybe she did.


I'm. So. Clueless. falloff

Anyway. If I get a graceful opportunity, I'll take it, and report back posthaste. lol
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Reply #208 posted 06/29/06 7:55pm

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If it does not work out ya always got me....


who's yo favorite heffa?

batting eyes wink



You mah favorite heffa. batting eyes
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Reply #209 posted 06/29/06 7:57pm

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Dude. She totally asked me out. doh!









































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