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PrintableSpats said: There is no point in being in a relationship with a woman if you are not going to be nailing her.
or a man - now this I agree with!  | |
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bkw said: SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: That's why I crack up when ladies get all freaked out because the newborn is in the crib.....we can't do that in front of the baby. Who the hell remembers anything when they are newborn!!!! Give your man some damn sex! 
. [Edited 4/18/06 19:25pm] It's not the baby watching that bothers me. It's the clapping and cheering afterwards.   your babies are school age though  | |
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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: Many women have convinced themselves that sex isn't a primary need in a relationship.
Supa, I've convinced myself that if my partner isn't wanting to fuck me all the time and anywhere he possibly can that something is wrong with him/him for me/me for him. For me, For me...I could be angry, confused, jealous, etc,...but if I'm physically/sexually attracted to my partner I still want to get physical with him...and then work it out! For me, if sexual arousal is not there, then I damn sure don't want to fuck, look at, or talk to him...out of pity. (??) But, when I'm having sex/making love with him there is nothing else I'm thinking of needing or wanting in this whole wide world. It's all good with me...*sigh*...and we'll work it out. I'm different...and I want to be wanting to fuck my man, regularly, some kind of way, until I no longer can do or he no long can do...   | |
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shanti0608 said: Byron said: It's the intimacy that's important in a relationship moreso than the sex...but when the intimacy is based on something real and sincere, it usually leads to constant lovemaking anyway.
AMEN!!!!! So true Byron!! My husband & I have been having issues lately. The main issue according to him is the lack of sex. I kept blaming myself - thinking it was my depression, work or I was tired. After really thinking about it I realized that it is the intimacy that I have been missing for years. We have been dealing with this for 10 yrs and all along I have blamed myself. It is not me- it is us together. We do not communicate well and there's little to NO imtimacy. I need that in order to feel like having sex. He has said to me that he would do without sex to keep me from leaving and that it is no longer that important to him anymore. At first I thought how sweet- he could live without sex for me but that is terribly sad- I cannot live without sex though that thought never occured to him... I hope someday I can find someone that shares my desire for passion and intimacy. My husband and I do not have that connection and I do not think we ever will but that sort of thing is not important to him. He does not have a romantic or intimate bone in his body. He says he can learn, I can tell him what I want and need and he will do it. Not sure that I want to be a teacher anymore... [Edited 4/18/06 18:43pm] I can relate to some of the things you've said here...   | |
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Byron said: shanti0608 said: AMEN!!!!! So true Byron!! My husband & I have been having issues lately. The main issue according to him is the lack of sex. I kept blaming myself - thinking it was my depression, work or I was tired. After really thinking about it I realized that it is the intimacy that I have been missing for years. We have been dealing with this for 10 yrs and all along I have blamed myself. It is not me- it is us together. We do not communicate well and there's little to NO imtimacy. I need that in order to feel like having sex. He has said to me that he would do without sex to keep me from leaving and that it is no longer that important to him anymore. At first I thought how sweet- he could live without sex for me but that is terribly sad- I cannot live without sex though that thought never occured to him... I hope someday I can find someone that shares my desire for passion and intimacy. My husband and I do not have that connection and I do not think we ever will but that sort of thing is not important to him. He does not have a romantic or intimate bone in his body. He says he can learn, I can tell him what I want and need and he will do it. Not sure that I want to be a teacher anymore... [Edited 4/18/06 18:43pm] I can relate to some of the things you've said here... | |
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i think in a long term relationship, sex comes and goes. the first year or two, you might be screwing like bunnies, but it's like...hmmm...when you're having the same meal every night, you either have to find new spices and ingredients to keep it interesting, or else you just lose your appetite for it for a while, no matter how great it may have tasted in the past. i think dry spells are normal, especially as you get older. but i also think the sex comes back. | |
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I dont understand this thread - what is sex?   if sexy was a colour it would be red  | |
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As long as there's a lot of spanking, nipple clipping and high heels licking I can easily do without the intercourse part. | |
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It's only important when it becomes a problem.
If one of you wants it all the time and the other doesn't - that's a problem. If you're both happy with your frequency of love-making (regardless of how many times you do it), then it's not important. Was it Byron whom said "intimacy" was more important? Whomever said it, was correct. I dumped somebody once because I absent-mindedly reached out a hand to hold their's but they pulled their hand away. | |
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Justin1972UK said: It's only important when it becomes a problem.
If one of you wants it all the time and the other doesn't - that's a problem. If you're both happy with your frequency of love-making (regardless of how many times you do it), then it's not important. Was it Byron whom said "intimacy" was more important? Whomever said it, was correct. I dumped somebody once because I absent-mindedly reached out a hand to hold their's but they pulled their hand away. Wow. I have done that. She got annoyed by that. | |
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Spats said: Justin1972UK said: It's only important when it becomes a problem.
If one of you wants it all the time and the other doesn't - that's a problem. If you're both happy with your frequency of love-making (regardless of how many times you do it), then it's not important. Was it Byron whom said "intimacy" was more important? Whomever said it, was correct. I dumped somebody once because I absent-mindedly reached out a hand to hold their's but they pulled their hand away. Wow. I have done that. She got annoyed by that. Out of curiosity, what do you see as the upside of dating you? oh noes, prince is gonna soo me!!1! | |
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It depends on what they want when dating someone. | |
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Sex is important but it's not the most important. I want to know who I'm dealing with before I get down with the get down ya know! So far I think I'm doing well with who I have. I'm not a fan of "old Prince". I'm not a fan of "new Prince". I'm just a fan of Prince. Simple as that | |
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Usually, when someone says that sex isn't that important in a relationship, it means that either they are not getting any or that their partner isn't getting enough. | |
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U must be kidding. It's like having a Ferrari and NO gas. | |
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Spats said: It depends on what they want when dating someone.
I think you actually might be on to something here.  In spite of the cost of living, it's still popular. |
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Spats said: It depends on what they want when dating someone.
I think I treat them good. But i don't overdue it. I don't spoil them or treat them like queens. You do that and they will take you for granted or walk all over you. | |
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TMBGITW said: TMPletz said: He doesn't believe in relationships, though. Oh wait I forgot his right and left hand don't count as a relationship...  I believe in relationships. Just not long term ones. | |
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Spats said: It depends on what they want when dating someone.
You don't seem like somebody who would adjust what you offer very much depending on the person. Seems like you'd be more what-ya-see-is-what-ya-get. I'm just unclear on what she gets. It's clear what she DOESN'T get. . . spoiled, worshipped, public affection, reassurance of love, sympathy. . . etc. So, what's the selling point, here? How do you manage to get laid on a regular basis? oh noes, prince is gonna soo me!!1! | |
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HereToRockYourWorld said: Spats said: It depends on what they want when dating someone.
You don't seem like somebody who would adjust what you offer very much depending on the person. Seems like you'd be more what-ya-see-is-what-ya-get. I'm just unclear on what she gets. It's clear what she DOESN'T get. . . spoiled, worshipped, public affection, reassurance of love, sympathy. . . etc. So, what's the selling point, here? How do you manage to get laid on a regular basis? Maybe it's because some girls like the whole bad boy, cold , distant.... thing... because they think they can change him 'round. When they realize they can't or when they are about to realize they can't... he drops them. That is if his org persona is his real life persona. In spite of the cost of living, it's still popular. |
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You would have to ask them what they get out of it. I am just telling you what i offer. They have usually made the first move because i don't do it anymore so they must see something they like. 
Why should any woman be worshipped?? | |
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Spats said: You would have to ask them what they get out of it. I am just telling you what i offer. They have usually made the first move because i don't do it anymore so they must see something they like.
Why should any woman be worshipped?? But you HAVEN'T told me what you offer. That's my question! Are you suggesting that it's just your appearance?
And I'm not telling you to worship anybody. I'm not telling you anything at all. oh noes, prince is gonna soo me!!1! | |
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Lammastide said: I'm an out gay man who just celebrated my 10th year of marriage to a woman.
I SO want you to elaborate Really?    I never met you, but I LOVE you & I will forever!! Thank you for being YOU - my little Princey, the best to EVER do it | |
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Oh, & sex isn't the be-all, end-all but it's damn important. If I can't fuck you, we ain't "together" & if we're "together", we better be fuckin' 
Oh, I mean making sweet fluffy love & shit  I never met you, but I LOVE you & I will forever!! Thank you for being YOU - my little Princey, the best to EVER do it | |
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CalhounSq said: Oh, & sex isn't the be-all, end-all but it's damn important. If I can't fuck you, we ain't "together" & if we're "together", we better be fuckin'
Oh, I mean making sweet fluffy love & shit Ὅσον ζῇς φαίνου
μηδὲν ὅλως σὺ λυποῦ πρὸς ὀλίγον ἐστὶ τὸ ζῆν τὸ τέλος ὁ χρόνος ἀπαιτεῖ.” | |
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Lammastide said: CalhounSq said: Oh, & sex isn't the be-all, end-all but it's damn important. If I can't fuck you, we ain't "together" & if we're "together", we better be fuckin'
Oh, I mean making sweet fluffy love & shit Shouldn't you be elaborating right now?
I never met you, but I LOVE you & I will forever!! Thank you for being YOU - my little Princey, the best to EVER do it | |
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CalhounSq said: Lammastide said: Shouldn't you be elaborating right now?
I owe a lot of orgers this story. I'll get to it sooner or later. Ὅσον ζῇς φαίνου
μηδὲν ὅλως σὺ λυποῦ πρὸς ὀλίγον ἐστὶ τὸ ζῆν τὸ τέλος ὁ χρόνος ἀπαιτεῖ.” | |
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Lammastide said: CalhounSq said: Shouldn't you be elaborating right now?
I owe a lot of orgers this story. I'll get to it sooner or later. I'll be waiting  I never met you, but I LOVE you & I will forever!! Thank you for being YOU - my little Princey, the best to EVER do it | |
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to answer the question of the thread: NO.
i wont get started, but no. | |
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SammiJ said: to answer the question of the thread: NO.
i wont get started, but no. to revise this no, but some might think of it more than others it's a natural human desire... just not so important to everyone...  "A broken heart bleeds beautiful poetry as a tattered soul breathes beautiful art..." | |
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