WillyWonka said:

is this a WW character thing or for real about you?

i'm very shy believe it or not, at least til I warm up to people.

BucketOfBouncyBalls said:

Virgos are cool. For the most part (with the ones I've known) they go after what and who they want. My mom is a Virgo as well as my best friend and the 2 chicks that attacked me.

jerseykrs said:

huh.

i am a bit suprised. wait, was this the suprise?

cborgman said:

yeah, you'll know it when you get it toots.

jerseykrs said:

toots...

cborgman said:

That's what I call my uncle. I call him uncle toots.

Moonstar319 said:

cborgman said:

No, this is me being completely real about myself. I've never been comfortable in my own skin, and have always felt so awkward in social situations.

It makes making friends difficult, to say the least.

TOOTS IS MY WORD!!!!!

I am not that shy, but there is only one person in the world that has the ability to make me clam up and litterally melt at the same time...with just a simple hello.

I my Paxil.

I am far too shy!

Muse2NOPharaoh said:

No you are not...I don't think so anyway.

TMBGITW said:

Take your damn pants off. Now.

ReturnofDOOK said:

Who me or Karen?

TMBGITW said:

You. Karen and I are on the phone and she's already taken her pants off.

ReturnofDOOK said:

I can't I have to go to sleep I have to be to work early.....

I'm only shy when I'm naked and it's really cold.


M

TMBGITW said:

Okay. I'll just rub one out without you....

WillyWonka said:

You're not alone

oh god Im always shy in person when I meet people....I'm a big bumbling idiot

It's hard for me to answer this concisely - there's no 'yes, I am' or 'no, I'm not' answer.

I wouldn't class myself as shy but I used to be. Very much so. So even though most people who know me would laugh at that idea, I still get the odd reminder even now. Not very often but it happens. I guess it's just my self-perception as opposed to how others see me. I'd still say I'm slightly shy; most other people would disagree.


It used to take me quite a while to let down my barriers - and people would often mistake it for arrogance - but I'm pretty easy-going that way now. Once I know someone - that's it. No holds barred.

But, as Supa says, socially it's hardly ever an issue. Romantically, that's a different matter.

I am very shy when meeting new people ,i would be so nervous if i met any orgers. Large groups of people freak me out too..i am not a person that likes to be the centre of attention ..unless i'm drunk!

Nikki23 said:

I'm one way or the other. Sometimes I love being in a big group of people, sometimes I prefer one-on-one. Some people can go into a large group and immediately make themselves known; some, like me, are a slow burner. It depends on how well you know the people, obviously.

If I'm drunk, though, ignore that last comment. Anything goes.

onenitealone said:

I wish i had the personality i have when i'm drunk ,when i'm sober..well at the start of being drunk i'm fun ,then i get annoying!

Nikki23 said:

I'm sure you're not.

The one thing I do hate - and I won't allow myself to be controlled by it anymore - is other people's perceptions of one's self. I've found that, sometimes, other peoples' expectations have caused me to act in certain ways. People think you're shy, you can act shy as a result. People think you're the life and soul of the party, you can be that too. And sometimes you can be the total opposite of what they were expecting. But, personally, I find that draining. People are too mercurial to be like that.

TMBGITW said:

I was teasing!

I can be. I'm a LOT better than what I was growing up, though. College life kinda changed all that for me.

WillyWonka said:

I think you're pretty cool.