My partner's father died today. The last 2 weeks have been a very emotional time. Although my bf was not particualrly close to his father, it is interesting how death can affect your life. I talked with my Mother this evening and she told me of a time when my Grandfather passed away on my Dad's side. A very stressfull time for my Mother, she felt she had to be very strong for those around her. It wasn't until afterwards, when she remembers someone gave her a hug, and asked her how she was? She broke down in tears.
People respond to death in many different ways, and I do not have a lot of experience with it. I really thought that this wouldn't bother me, but there is a sadness that has reared it's ugly head, and everyone around me is sympathetic, and concerned. I find myself questioning my own mortality, appreciating relationships, amazed with how truly phenomenal life is.

as cliche as it sounds..life will get better...believe it!

death is a part of life
I had never (and still really haven't) experienced it close up first hand. A workmate's boyfriend died and my own mortality hit me like a ton of bricks. I cried for days even though I'd never met this guy, but my empathy for my workmate went deeper than I expected.
Hugs go a long way, and let your partner grieve (he will grieve the fact they weren't so close too probably), even long after you think he should have got over it.

Moxy said:

that it is
i think i will call my parents today

charlottegelin said:

unfortunately it is

Moxy

sometimes when you arnt close to a parent and loose them it can be harder on you

so many questions and all that

hang in there







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[Edited 3/10/06 4:27am]

Take care, Moxy.

I'm sure your partner appreciates all the love and support you're giving him at the moment.

I hope things brighten soon.