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Why Are Some People So Damn Mean??? Just rude, making nasty comments without thinking. Gotta think that they must have something wrong in the noggin to make them that way. Or that their own personal lives are so fucked up that it makes them miserable, so they, in turn, want to make others miserable in order to make themselves feel better. Can't understand it, since I would not even think of treating somebody that way, but other people seem to get a sick sense of satisfaction from it. Some people need a slap in the face to wake them up and realize that that attitude is not the one to have. [Edited 2/28/06 18:53pm] RIP, mom. I will forever miss and love you. | |
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AsianBomb777 said: Not to worry, this post was not directed at you, it's directed at a few people in my personal life who need a serious reality check. RIP, mom. I will forever miss and love you. | |
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whew...i was worried....sometimes rumors fly...
question being...if someone is overtly rude to you..and it's continuous how do you maintain the "ignore" attitude.. without going blalistic on them? i love you for who you are, not the one u feel u need to be.
My star shines bright ....even in the darkest night... | |
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psychodelicide said: ...fucked
who are these people that have driven nancy to say such things??? | |
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tamaranow said: whew...i was worried....sometimes rumors fly...
question being...if someone is overtly rude to you..and it's continuous how do you maintain the "ignore" attitude.. without going blalistic on them? Why oh why does everybody think that this thread is about orgers when it's not? Okay, everybody repeat after me, "This thread is not about orgers...this thread is not about orgers...this thread is not about orgers". Dunno how I maintain a pleasant attitude towards rude people, think it's because I'm just too damn nice. As everyone knows, being nice does not cut it in this world, because people just walk all over you. I want to change it, but I'm not sure how to go about doing that. [Edited 2/28/06 19:17pm] RIP, mom. I will forever miss and love you. | |
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emm said: psychodelicide said: ...fucked
who are these people that have driven nancy to say such things??? Some rude idiots who need to be put into their place, that's who. RIP, mom. I will forever miss and love you. | |
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psychodelicide said: I want to change it, but I'm not sure how to go about doing that.
calmly and forcefully standing up to the person/issue | |
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emm said: psychodelicide said: I want to change it, but I'm not sure how to go about doing that.
calmly and forcefully standing up to the person/issue Unfortunately, I have trouble doing that, which is why I'm get into these situations. RIP, mom. I will forever miss and love you. | |
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Too Many Adults are just angry children. News: Prince pulls his head out his ass in the last moment.
Bad News: Prince wasted too much quality time doing so. You have those internalized issues because you want to, you like to, stop. | |
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MickG said: Too Many Adults are just angry children.
...who need a hug? | |
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Illustrator said: MickG said: Too Many Adults are just angry children.
...who need a hug? Everyone. News: Prince pulls his head out his ass in the last moment.
Bad News: Prince wasted too much quality time doing so. You have those internalized issues because you want to, you like to, stop. | |
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MickG said: Too Many Adults are just angry children.
Huh? What's that supposed to mean? RIP, mom. I will forever miss and love you. | |
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psychodelicide said: tamaranow said: whew...i was worried....sometimes rumors fly...
question being...if someone is overtly rude to you..and it's continuous how do you maintain the "ignore" attitude.. without going blalistic on them? Why oh why does everybody think that this thread is about orgers when it's not? Okay, everybody repeat after me, "This thread is not about orgers...this thread is not about orgers...this thread is not about orgers". Dunno how I maintain a pleasant attitude towards rude people, think it's because I'm just too damn nice. As everyone knows, being nice does not cut it in this world, because people just walk all over you. I want to change it, but I'm not sure how to go about doing that. [Edited 2/28/06 19:17pm] damn. funny you should say that! i've been thinking the same exact thing lately | |
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I suppose I do it because I'm unhappy with my own life. Or maybe I just don't care about others feelings. Or, maybe I'm just mean. | |
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XxAxX said: psychodelicide said: Why oh why does everybody think that this thread is about orgers when it's not? Okay, everybody repeat after me, "This thread is not about orgers...this thread is not about orgers...this thread is not about orgers". Dunno how I maintain a pleasant attitude towards rude people, think it's because I'm just too damn nice. As everyone knows, being nice does not cut it in this world, because people just walk all over you. I want to change it, but I'm not sure how to go about doing that. [Edited 2/28/06 19:17pm] damn. funny you should say that! i've been thinking the same exact thing lately Really, you too? RIP, mom. I will forever miss and love you. | |
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jerseykrs said: I suppose I do it because I'm unhappy with my own life. Or maybe I just don't care about others feelings. Or, maybe I'm just mean.
You're not mean, jersey. RIP, mom. I will forever miss and love you. | |
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A lot of what I say is just a play on words, more of a joke.
It's just so scathing, it hurts the person I've directed it at. Geminis like to play mental word games. | |
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psychodelicide said: XxAxX said: damn. funny you should say that! i've been thinking the same exact thing lately Really, you too? i'm finally realizing that although we'd like to believe that turning the other cheek, being supportive and forgiving of our friends and enemies alike, this philosophy isn't effective. because on SOME people kindness doesn't work. brute force does. [Edited 3/1/06 7:04am] | |
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Old people in the church do it all the time, cause they expect to get away with it. I don't know why everybody's overly nice to them. unless they have mental illness, they're just assholes who didn't die. What makes that so special and beyond reproach? All it takes is one slip and bye bye hip. | |
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psychodelicide said: jerseykrs said: I suppose I do it because I'm unhappy with my own life. Or maybe I just don't care about others feelings. Or, maybe I'm just mean.
You're not mean, jersey. Well, not to you. But I am mean. | |
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I tend to think there's very little distance between right and wrong. Maybe even none. we're only bacteria and something else will come. I know my thoughts verge from axe to marshmallow in an instant, but I'm not quite sure anything exists before the action and odd things happen at an atomic level. It's obvious forgiveness is the answer. Jesus was just a scientist. | |
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trust me when i say anxiety deserves the meanness he gets from me. Power tends to corrupt; absolute power corrupts absolutely. - Lord Acton | |
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Number23 said: I tend to think there's very little distance between right and wrong. Maybe even none. we're only bacteria and something else will come. I know my thoughts verge from axe to marshmallow in an instant, but I'm not quite sure anything exists before the action and odd things happen at an atomic level. It's obvious forgiveness is the answer. Jesus was just a scientist.
Indeed. "I saw a woman with major Hammer pants on the subway a few weeks ago and totally thought of you." - sextonseven | |
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minneapolisgenius said: Number23 said: I tend to think there's very little distance between right and wrong. Maybe even none. we're only bacteria and something else will come. I know my thoughts verge from axe to marshmallow in an instant, but I'm not quite sure anything exists before the action and odd things happen at an atomic level. It's obvious forgiveness is the answer. Jesus was just a scientist.
Indeed. Well, if everyone could read each others every thought and headflash, we'd all be wanting different planets to live on to be alone. Thank whatever dreamed up the three dimentions so that we are judged by our actions rather than our minds. | |
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Number23 said: minneapolisgenius said: Indeed. Well, if everyone could read each others every thought and headflash, we'd all be wanting different planets to live on to be alone. Thank whatever dreamed up the three dimentions so that we are judged by our actions rather than our minds. Yeah, because if that were the case I would have no friends at all. "I saw a woman with major Hammer pants on the subway a few weeks ago and totally thought of you." - sextonseven | |
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minneapolisgenius said: Number23 said: Well, if everyone could read each others every thought and headflash, we'd all be wanting different planets to live on to be alone. Thank whatever dreamed up the three dimentions so that we are judged by our actions rather than our minds. Yeah, because if that were the case I would have no friends at all. Aye. Funny how we'll never really know anyone. | |
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When someone is having a bad life, it can fook up your whole day! | |
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Number23 said: minneapolisgenius said: Yeah, because if that were the case I would have no friends at all. Aye. Funny how we'll never really know anyone. This is true. "I saw a woman with major Hammer pants on the subway a few weeks ago and totally thought of you." - sextonseven | |
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minneapolisgenius said: Number23 said: Aye. Funny how we'll never really know anyone. This is true. You back? I thought you had a life, dancing, talking, laughing, etc. These are the things I can see you doing. Me? My left eye's really sore and I'm concerned it's a malignant tumour pressing against it. That's why i'm here. Well, me and Jack, but that's nothing to boast about. | |
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