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Printablebizarre said: I've been in situations somewhat like this. It all looks like a power struggle to me.
I don't think you were wrong, Dynamic. IMO Toya is to blame for allowing this situation to escalate to where it did. It almost seems to me that she facilitated or at least didn't do anything to stop you and Selina from locking horns, when she is the ONLY one who can calm you both. Some people really enjoy having others fight over them...even if they pretend to sort of protest. As grotesque as it may be, I've seen people act this way. The whole thing and the answer to your ultimatum revolved around who was going to pamper her ego more. And in this case Selina, who she lives with and sees much more often then you is the obvious choice. It was a mistake to make Toya choose, if you wanted to keep her as your friend. I do think that you may be better off without her in the long run. She sounds manipulative. Good luck, and next time find a friend who is as honest and serious about preserving your friendship as you are! I was kinda pissed that she just sat there through the whole thing and didn't say SHIT. It's like she expected this to happen. I'm not mad though. Because everything I said to her was a LONG time coming anyway, and I'm glad I got it off my chest. Toya's just mad because I didn't kiss Selina's ass like she does. I think she did enjoy watching us fight over her, which is something I never wanted to do. I was hoping that Selina and I could at least have some kind of mutual relationship BECAUSE of Toya, seeing as how we're both her friend, but she made it plain as day that she was having none of that. So i'm leaving them to their own devices. One of Dansa's org hornies 
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Neversin said: Dewrede said: Imo you were out of line by treating her like that in her own house
Bullshit, if one acts like a fucking idiot one should be treated like a fucking idiot no matter if it's one's house or not... (What the fuck does someone's habitat have to do with common courtesy? Just because I live somewhere I have the full right to be a fucking retard to anyone who visits my place?? What kind of retarded thinking is that?) Neversin. Yeah. She does need to learn some fucking manners. I have some. That's why I spoke to her when she came in the house, or she would've bitched about that too. One of Dansa's org hornies
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I don't know what to say, DS...it seems that Selina knew you well enough to push your "Set it off!" button...and, specifically in front of LaToya, which made you look bad then...and, to some, on this thread now...
I think Selina is devilish, and got what she set out to get...you out of LaToya's life....  Mind you...not for the competitive reasons I think Selina has, but for your own love for LaToya; go back to her and work out your friendship.
And this: " All my life Selina had my back when I was in shit, and where were you at?"...sounds like some regurgitated shit from someone else (  ) if you are just now hearing it for the first time.
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SHANNA said: I don't know what to say, DS...it seems that Selina knew you well enough to push your "Set it off!" button...and, specifically in front of LaToya, which made you look bad then...and, to some, on this thread now...
I think Selina is devilish, and got what she set out to get...you out of LaToya's life.... Mind you...not for the competitive reasons I think Selina has, but for your own love for LaToya; go back to her and work out your friendship.
And this: " All my life Selina had my back when I was in shit, and where were you at?"...sounds like some regurgitated shit from someone else ( ) if you are just now hearing it for the first time.
Best wishes, whatever you decide to do. Thanks but Selina can have her. If getting rid of Selina means getting rid of Toya, then oh well. Maybe Toya will get her head straight and realize who the better friend is. One of Dansa's org hornies
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DynamicSavior said: SHANNA said: I don't know what to say, DS...it seems that Selina knew you well enough to push your "Set it off!" button...and, specifically in front of LaToya, which made you look bad then...and, to some, on this thread now...
I think Selina is devilish, and got what she set out to get...you out of LaToya's life.... Mind you...not for the competitive reasons I think Selina has, but for your own love for LaToya; go back to her and work out your friendship.
And this: " All my life Selina had my back when I was in shit, and where were you at?"...sounds like some regurgitated shit from someone else ( ) if you are just now hearing it for the first time.
Best wishes, whatever you decide to do. Thanks but Selina can have her. If getting rid of Selina means getting rid of Toya, then oh well. Maybe Toya will get her head straight and realize who the better friend is. With comments like that, I think Toya already knows who the better friend is.  | |
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DynamicSavior said: SHANNA said: I don't know what to say, DS...it seems that Selina knew you well enough to push your "Set it off!" button...and, specifically in front of LaToya, which made you look bad then...and, to some, on this thread now...
I think Selina is devilish, and got what she set out to get...you out of LaToya's life.... Mind you...not for the competitive reasons I think Selina has, but for your own love for LaToya; go back to her and work out your friendship.
And this: " All my life Selina had my back when I was in shit, and where were you at?"...sounds like some regurgitated shit from someone else ( ) if you are just now hearing it for the first time.
Best wishes, whatever you decide to do. Thanks but Selina can have her. If getting rid of Selina means getting rid of Toya, then oh well. Maybe Toya will get her head straight and realize who the better friend is. I believe you are...  Even with your decision to remove yourself from the situation for the time being...  | |
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PapaSmurf said: DynamicSavior said: Thanks but Selina can have her. If getting rid of Selina means getting rid of Toya, then oh well. Maybe Toya will get her head straight and realize who the better friend is. With comments like that, I think Toya already knows who the better friend is. I think that that's disappointment talking... | |
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SHANNA said: PapaSmurf said: With comments like that, I think Toya already knows who the better friend is. I think that that's disappointment talking... | |
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SHANNA said: DynamicSavior said: Thanks but Selina can have her. If getting rid of Selina means getting rid of Toya, then oh well. Maybe Toya will get her head straight and realize who the better friend is. I believe you are... Even with your decision to remove yourself from the situation for the time being... I felt it was for the best. She should've used her better judgemnet. I mean, come on now. If you were best friends with someone for 17 years, you KNOW that person. If someone else who doesn't know your friend as good as you do, comes to you and says "I don't like him. He blah blah blah" wouldn't you think to yourself "Does that sound like something he/she would do?" Toya didn't do that. She just assumed that Selina COULDN'T have possibly lied about me. But whatever. They can have each other now. [Edited 2/21/06 10:45am] One of Dansa's org hornies
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I'm just wondering what would happen if I started a thread called, "Y'all, I'm seriously about to fuck a f*ggot up". The first clue to who's wrong is in the thread. I seriously don't think Selina's blasting you over the Internet. She got what she wanted - you out of LaToya's life - and you pushed it to that point. | |
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theVelvetRoper said: I'm just wondering what would happen if I started a thread called, "Y'all, I'm seriously about to fuck a f*ggot up". The first clue to who's wrong is in the thread. I seriously don't think Selina's blasting you over the Internet. She got what she wanted - you out of LaToya's life - and you pushed it to that point.
I don't mean that title. I started this thread when I was angry. I've calmed down since. And please stop trying to make me look like the bad guy when I'm clearly not. There are some parts of this i'm at fault for, but the whole situation isn't my fault. One of Dansa's org hornies
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theVelvetRoper said: I'm just wondering what would happen if I started a thread called, "Y'all, I'm seriously about to fuck a f*ggot up". The first clue to who's wrong is in the thread. I seriously don't think Selina's blasting you over the Internet. She got what she wanted - you out of LaToya's life - and you pushed it to that point.
Cara, I've read your posts off and on for more than a year. I wouldn't assume you were wrong because of your language, or for wanting insight from internet friends regarding a "difficult" experience. | |
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SHANNA said: theVelvetRoper said: I'm just wondering what would happen if I started a thread called, "Y'all, I'm seriously about to fuck a f*ggot up". The first clue to who's wrong is in the thread. I seriously don't think Selina's blasting you over the Internet. She got what she wanted - you out of LaToya's life - and you pushed it to that point.
Cara, I've read your posts off and on for more than a year. I wouldn't assume you were wrong because of your language, or for wanting insight from internet friends regarding a "difficult" experience. Shanna, I haven't "assumed" anyone was wrong, I gave my opinion based on what DynamicSavior posted. Nor did I say anyone was wrong for wanting some insight regarding a "difficult" experience. [Edited 2/21/06 11:59am] | |
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