if you're a TOP or a BOTTOM? I was recently asked this on MYSPACE and for the first time I kind of cringed.

It really isn't that big of a deal. Is it for some of you?


M

i like both...why should that question be offending to anyone?

no one ever asked me, is this a gay thing?

AGCM said:

Sort of.....I kind of see you as a heterosexual female top.

M

i think it depends on the context, really. it's all about tact.

Anx said:

That, and it is helpful that people know their sexual compatibility

MIGUELGOMEZ said:

yeah me too


umm

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

well, depending on the source of the incompatibility, i'm either completely comfortable talking to her about it, or else it's none of his damn business.

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

Yes, but if you're just chatting...it's a little inappropriate. Like if I was to ask any of the gay boys here that question. It's a bit rude. However if you're chatting with the potential of hookin up...then, I think it's ok.

it depends on who you're talking too

if your mom asks you on myspace if

u're bottom or top, i would say it's a

bit inappropriate.

IstenSzek said:

agree, your mum's on my space?

superspaceboy said:

well, only if it's chatting and trying to hook up for something
a bit more serious than a one night stand.

i mean, what, you have to know exactly what's gonna happen on
a one off date? like you can't make do with a different position,
or a different orifice if you can't or may not enter the basement?

i find it rediculous, the kind of things people ask you when
they "consider" you for a one night stand. whatever happened
to getting shitfaced and just a bit of touchy feely?

these days it's all like "oh, his favorit colour is magnolia,
i can't have sex with someone who things magnolia is a color"

IstenSzek said:

AGCM said:

well, my mum's on my case

IstenSzek said:

IstenSzek said:

realy think i will read that again

Okay,

you guys and gals are cracking me up over here!!!!





M

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

Two tops don't make a bottom.

Two purses don't make change.


M

I agree, it's all in context.

WHATEVA!










[Edited 2/7/06 13:14pm]

This experience on MYSPACE was very "Me Tarzan, You Jane." I guess some guy saw my MYSPACE site and sent me a note. He didn't say "Hi, how are you doing." "How's you're day going." Just "Are you top or bottom."


M

MIGUELGOMEZ said:

Miguel, i dont think hes worth it honey! A bit too blunt for my shy little straight girl ass


cant type edit
[Edited 2/7/06 13:38pm]

MIGUELGOMEZ said:

Oh then...that's completely uncalled for and very rude. If he was cute, maybe I'd consider it a compliment.

I just answer "Yes".

if it felt inappropiate then it is.

MIGUELGOMEZ said:

npgmaverick said:

perfect

Without sounding desperate or anything.....I'm a versatile top.

Translation. "Okay....but ouch!"


M
[Edited 2/7/06 17:22pm]

MIGUELGOMEZ said:

Just a tiny bit too much information.

Depends on dick size. I'll flip it and reverse it, because I'm like that. Although I like giving more than receiving. I get asked that by straight people ALL THE FUCKING TIME. It's their indirect way of asking "are you the man or the woman" when your "sexual position" has nothing to do with that. Shit, I know feminine tops. I think I spoke too much...