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I'm so hurt right now I just found out that my boyfriend for the last six months has been calling his ex and telling her that he misses her.  and they were suppossed to meet up on Monday but he was unable to because I was at his home. He has been calling here when I'm at his house. My heart hurts right now. I want to kill him...
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How awful!  
At least you found out. I'm firmly planted in denial |
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I'm so sorry
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 he's an ass... and she's an ass for going back to him
sorry you are hurting, but you are going to be sooooo much better off without someone like that who would only keep hurting you  She couldn't stop crying 'cause she knew he was gone to stay | |
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I haven't confronted him yet. I don't know how... | |
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Not that it helps , but its good you found out now after 6 months.
Some people invest years of their lives before shit like this happens to them. Stay strong! | |
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Look at it this way. Would you rather find out at 6 months or 6 years? Nothing any of us can say is going to soothe your heart but at least you have the knowledge to do something about it. I'm sorry he's being such a jerk to you 2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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What a rat.. 
You need revenge, girlfriend.  | |
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oh hunny 
i'm so sorry, really
you need to let him go before he does, let him know you know the deal and don't take shit from him... and i know it hurts i kno from a past relationship what it's like to have your heart hurt...it's no good, and it's tough to get over, but believe me, focus on other things u love, look for support in your *close* friends and family and you'll be able to move on to bigger and better things - believe that,i'm living proof 
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I am sorry for you hurting heart.. ^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^
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AND GUESS WHAT FUCKING ELSE!!! last friday he claimed he was hanging with his "homies" that came in from out of town. Come to find out he was at a popular night club with some woman. He was seen canoodling with her all night. (a different woman not his ex!) | |
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beret1022 said: AND GUESS WHAT FUCKING ELSE!!! last friday he claimed he was hanging with his "homies" that came in from out of town. Come to find out he was at a popular night club with some woman. He was seen canoodling with her all night. (a different woman not his ex!)
DUMP HIS ASS!!! what a jerk! | |
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beret1022 said: I haven't confronted him yet. I don't know how...
your friends will help you sort through the hurt... then give yourself a moment to get mad... it won't be hard to tell him he's an ass and you deserve to be respected. like sammi said - get the jump on him - it will feel alot better to kick him to the curb than vice versa She couldn't stop crying 'cause she knew he was gone to stay | |
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I know it hurts and you're confused right now...but, listen to the smart folks here and give that guy what's coming to him...a swift kick in the ass! You'll get through this...I promise.  | |
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Yes, kick his ass to the curb....unless of course you are comfortable sharing him. 2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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beret1022 said: AND GUESS WHAT FUCKING ELSE!!! last friday he claimed he was hanging with his "homies" that came in from out of town. Come to find out he was at a popular night club with some woman. He was seen canoodling with her all night. (a different woman not his ex!)
Oh, girlfriend he HAS GOT TO GO!!! He's totally disprespecting you. You are so much better off without this type of trash. | |
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I agree with those above this post... disrespectful fool.  ^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^
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Thanks, for the advice guys. I can't wait to see the look on his face when I curse him out tonight. | |
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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: Look at it this way. Would you rather find out at 6 months or 6 years? Nothing any of us can say is going to soothe your heart but at least you have the knowledge to do something about it. I'm sorry he's being such a jerk to you
It's gotta hurt real bad. I'm so sorry.
Unfortunately I don't think this man will make you happy as long as he's in your life. It may be time to move on. | |
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beret1022 said: I just found out that my boyfriend for the last six months has been calling his ex and telling her that he misses her.
and they were suppossed to meet up on Monday but he was unable to because I was at his home. He has been calling here when I'm at his house. My heart hurts right now. I want to kill him...
Just needed to vent. Time to dump him. He's having his cake and eating it too. 
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moderatorI'm so sorry to hear that
What an arsehole... some people are unbelievable JaneyPoos used to be it... then they changed what it was. Now what I am isn't it and what is it is strange and frightening to me...
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time to become a lesbian.
Where's FunkMistress when I need her.... One of Dansa's org hornies 
Supa is my gay messiah and he eats homeless dandruff sammitches on the bus. HULK NEED LAID, HULK SMASH!!
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run far! run fast! imo you'll be better off without him in your life. you deserve someone who treats you better than that. | |
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| ... I'm sorry you're having to deal with that type of pain.. | |
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XxAxX said: run far! run fast! imo you'll be better off without him in your life. you deserve someone who treats you better than that.
Agreed
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Thank's guys you are all great.
I went to his house yesterday, to confront him. Of course, he denied everyting.Then he called her (in front of me) and asked her did she say any of those things - then she denied saying anything...this whole thing is just messy...I want to believe him, I guess because I'm in love with him...but part of me is saying that he is full of shit. | |
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beret1022 said: Thank's guys you are all great.
I went to his house yesterday, to confront him. Of course, he denied everyting.Then he called her (in front of me) and asked her did she say any of those things - then she denied saying anything...this whole thing is just messy...I want to believe him, I guess because I'm in love with him...but part of me is saying that he is full of shit. how did you find out? | |
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beret1022 said: Thank's guys you are all great.
I went to his house yesterday, to confront him. Of course, he denied everyting.Then he called her (in front of me) and asked her did she say any of those things - then she denied saying anything...this whole thing is just messy...I want to believe him, I guess because I'm in love with him...but part of me is saying that he is full of shit. go with the part thats telling you hes full of shit, chances are, he is and you dont need the drama, right ?
good luck sweetie One of the best days of my life... http://prince.org/msg/100/291111
love is a gift 
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That sucks...Im really sorry
I hope everything works out with you. Things happen for a reason. It's time to move on. The right person for you is waiting for you to be free. "Nobody makes me bleed my own blood...NOBODY!"
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LleeLlee said: beret1022 said: Thank's guys you are all great.
I went to his house yesterday, to confront him. Of course, he denied everyting.Then he called her (in front of me) and asked her did she say any of those things - then she denied saying anything...this whole thing is just messy...I want to believe him, I guess because I'm in love with him...but part of me is saying that he is full of shit. how did you find out? Okay. My best friend is also her friend. She told my best friend and my best friend told me. 
I know this sounds like some jerry Springer nonsense... | |
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