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Printablemilkandhoney said: Disturb me with all your cares and your worries...
ok, here we go . . . i have about $350 in bills yet to pay this month, and only about $150 left. i will soon have to get the timing belt replaced on my car, i just keep praying that it doesn't actually break before i have the money to do it. and now there is a faint clanking sound sometimes when i turn the wheel. i don't know if i'm going to get anymore child support this month, and my next paycheck from my second job is not going to be enough. i'm getting a headache. my house is a mess and i don't have the energy to clean it. i sooooo need a vacation. i'm thinking about going to london if i get my tax refund back in time, and there is enough money left after paying bills. | |
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milkandhoney said: Disturb me with all your cares and your worries...
considering that all 'matter' is mostly comprised of energy, i worry perpetually that the loose bond between energy and matter will dissolve, rendering all 'matter' on this planet - nay, the planet itself - incohesive, a big ball of floating particulate matter that will slowly dissipate into space. what do you recommend i do when i'm riding up 17 floors to work in the elevator and i start thinking 'hey, i sure hope the matter/energy bond doesn't dissolve right now..." | |
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I went to the doctor today and he told me my body has very strange angles that will cause me much pain and can't be helped.
I wanted a guardian angel, but all I seem to have are angles.  | |
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Natisse said: lilmissmissy said: No one'z forgotten ya sweetie!! C'mere n give us a hug   I miss you!!Miss you too Tisse!! No hablo espanol,no! 
Pero hablo ingles..ssii muy muy bien... 
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fantasyislander said: milkandhoney said: Disturb me with all your cares and your worries...
ok, here we go . . . i have about $350 in bills yet to pay this month, and only about $150 left. i will soon have to get the timing belt replaced on my car, i just keep praying that it doesn't actually break before i have the money to do it. and now there is a faint clanking sound sometimes when i turn the wheel. i don't know if i'm going to get anymore child support this month, and my next paycheck from my second job is not going to be enough. i'm getting a headache. my house is a mess and i don't have the energy to clean it. i sooooo need a vacation. i'm thinking about going to london if i get my tax refund back in time, and there is enough money left after paying bills. more. my vacuum broke, and who knows when i'll be able to get it fixed. i just opened my utility bill, and it's over twice what i was expecting. so instead of $350 still to pay its more like $480. 
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Nothing major, but my 4 year old who is not dry at night yet and wears a pull-up to bed, takes it off halfway through the night and urinates on the mattress of the spare bed in his room instead of going to the toilet. He also insists on doing his number twos in a nappy, screaming blue murder if he has to sit on the potty. I've tried putting the nappy in the potty to catch his poo, but he is not fooled.
What do I do? | |
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Natisse said: I'll get it out and be done with it... I'm not taking care of myself at all I should be on medication that is vital for my long-term health my diet is atrocious and I'm putting on weight at an alarming rate... I'm slipping slowly back into depression again and don't know how to stop it... I feel forgotten about by most people I know back home but know it's (mostly) paranioa... I'm worried that I'm running out of time here in the UK to see everything I want to
that feels a little better 
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Natisse said: I'll get it out and be done with it... I'm not taking care of myself at all I should be on medication that is vital for my long-term health my diet is atrocious and I'm putting on weight at an alarming rate... I'm slipping slowly back into depression again and don't know how to stop it... I feel forgotten about by most people I know back home but know it's (mostly) paranioa... I'm worried that I'm running out of time here in the UK to see everything I want to
that feels a little better
travel to a warm place and swim with dolphins daily I read today it cures depression! | |
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Both of my surviving grandparents are ailing healthwise and I live 750 miles away from them. My mom has been dealing with financial issues and depression and I live 750 miles away from her. My brother has a ton of issues around him and yep...you guessed it... live 750 miles away from him too. Not to mention tmy own personal drama dealing with school, financial issues, my 9 to 5 job, my appraisal business, coaching basketball, winter, my own depression and I have been experiencing frequent excruciating heartburn for a few months now. Other than that...life is peachy....
One more thing... this school year we decided to send our kids to private school. My kids love it, it works great for my schedule and my kids are getting an amazing education. The only way I was able to swing this was because of significant financial assistance from the school. Got a letter home yesterday from the school where they have implemented a new finacial aid policy. Next year...if I want my kids to return...my cost will go from $12,000 to $29,000  | |
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Well the only issues i have are with my mom. For once, i don't have to deal with any relationship drama, at least for right now, but i just want my mom to be happy. She's like Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde mode. One day she's unusally happy just for no reason, not a bad thing, but then the next day, she's either moping around the house making a big issue out of nothing, or she's yelling at me because she's mad at herself about something.....
I feel guilty, I want to move out to save my own sanity. I feel like if i leave that it will just put her into a deeper dump. About 70% of the time she's negative and because her opinions mean so much to me, her negativity bothers more so than the next person's negativity would. I'm afraid that if i live with her long enough that i'll be just as bitter as she is. She didn't get this way until my dad got sick with cancer and passed away 4 years ago. Well anyway, she's been back in the dating game about a year now, and she's having bad luck with men, and this in turn makes her bitter and dramatic. I listen and give my 2 cents, but in the end she makes own decision about things. I just wish she would put her energy into doing things that make her happy by herself, like not depending on men to make her happy. I will forever love and miss you...my sweet Prince. | |
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I dont know what to do!
Dammit. And I cant even post about it! Do you ever feel like the devil is laying temptation on a plate for you and you just cant decide whether or not to take it? Not temptation as such, but a choice. I dont want to make the wrong one.... I just dont know what to do! | |
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susannah said: I dont know what to do!
Dammit. And I cant even post about it! Do you ever feel like the devil is laying temptation on a plate for you and you just cant decide whether or not to take it? Not temptation as such, but a choice. I dont want to make the wrong one.... I just dont know what to do! Take it.....take it.....teake it..... 
 When you say you can't post about it....you must be saying it has to do with someone from here.....  (checkin' your old posts)
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I am refraining from posting my troubles on the Org now.. usually comes back and bites me hard on the ass..  | |
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pardonme4livin said: susannah said: I dont know what to do!
Dammit. And I cant even post about it! Do you ever feel like the devil is laying temptation on a plate for you and you just cant decide whether or not to take it? Not temptation as such, but a choice. I dont want to make the wrong one.... I just dont know what to do! Take it.....take it.....teake it.....
When you say you can't post about it....you must be saying it has to do with someone from here..... (checkin' your old posts)
no Susannah DON'T take it hon... believe in your heart you know what is right and follow your instinct and above all remember you're accountable for your decisions and choices
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pardonme4livin said: susannah said: I dont know what to do!
Dammit. And I cant even post about it! Do you ever feel like the devil is laying temptation on a plate for you and you just cant decide whether or not to take it? Not temptation as such, but a choice. I dont want to make the wrong one.... I just dont know what to do! Take it.....take it.....teake it.....
When you say you can't post about it....you must be saying it has to do with someone from here..... (checkin' your old posts)
Lol it does, and its probably quite easy to find too, if you look in the right places! But he aint gonna see it! you think I should take it? The chance, not the temptation from the Devil!  | |
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susannah said: pardonme4livin said: Take it.....take it.....teake it.....
When you say you can't post about it....you must be saying it has to do with someone from here..... (checkin' your old posts)
Lol it does, and its probably quite easy to find too, if you look in the right places! But he aint gonna see it! you think I should take it? The chance, not the temptation from the Devil! Seriously....I have no idea....I don't know your story.....if I did I would certainly offer my opinion.... I give good advice....usually.... | |
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pardonme4livin said: susannah said: Lol it does, and its probably quite easy to find too, if you look in the right places! But he aint gonna see it! you think I should take it? The chance, not the temptation from the Devil! Seriously....I have no idea....I don't know your story.....if I did I would certainly offer my opinion.... I give good advice....usually....  don't believe him!!
j/k. hope everything works out for the best, whatever problem you're having | |
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fantasyislander said: pardonme4livin said: Seriously....I have no idea....I don't know your story.....if I did I would certainly offer my opinion.... I give good advice....usually.... don't believe him!!
j/k. hope everything works out for the best, whatever problem you're havingHey!  
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thanks guys all much appreciated
Ok decision time has come! Tisse I think youre the only one who actually knows what I mean - thank god! If I say yes is that definitely the wrong choice though? We dont know. Im just being wary. And if I do say yes I will definitely continue to be wary, dont you worry! PS | |
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susannah said: thanks guys
all much appreciated
Ok decision time has come! Tisse I think youre the only one who actually knows what I mean - thank god! If I say yes is that definitely the wrong choice though? We dont know. Im just being wary. And if I do say yes I will definitely continue to be wary, dont you worry! PS can't wait to give you a big hug soon | |
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Natisse said: susannah said: thanks guys
all much appreciated
Ok decision time has come! Tisse I think youre the only one who actually knows what I mean - thank god! If I say yes is that definitely the wrong choice though? We dont know. Im just being wary. And if I do say yes I will definitely continue to be wary, dont you worry! PS can't wait to give you a big hug soon Aw you too! Hope everythings ok with you, hope you feel better
Im saying yes, and now am back to butterflies. Feel ill. Here we bloody go a-bloody-gain. But I can take the responsibility! Noone is to worry. we all have to take chances sometimes  | |
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susannah said: Natisse said: can't wait to give you a big hug soon Aw you too! Hope everythings ok with you, hope you feel better
Im saying yes, and now am back to butterflies. Feel ill. Here we bloody go a-bloody-gain. But I can take the responsibility! Noone is to worry. we all have to take chances sometimes thinking of taking a chance myself soon... tell you about it real soon before I pluck up the courage again to go through with it butterflies indeed... good luck gorgeous lady you deserve all the happiness in the world  | |
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susannah said: Natisse said: can't wait to give you a big hug soon Aw you too! Hope everythings ok with you, hope you feel better
Im saying yes, and now am back to butterflies. Feel ill. Here we bloody go a-bloody-gain. But I can take the responsibility! Noone is to worry. we all have to take chances sometimes  Yes you do.....without risk...there is no payoff...good luck to you... | |
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charlottegelin said: Nothing major, but my 4 year old who is not dry at night yet and wears a pull-up to bed, takes it off halfway through the night and urinates on the mattress of the spare bed in his room instead of going to the toilet. He also insists on doing his number twos in a nappy, screaming blue murder if he has to sit on the potty. I've tried putting the nappy in the potty to catch his poo, but he is not fooled.
What do I do? is he possibly sleep walking? explain to him that his poo is no longer a part of him when it comes out. My daughter was freaked out by the thought that a part of her was being flushed down the toilet. I had to explain to her that that was what the poo was for and if we kept it inside we'd get sick and if we didn't flush it it would really stink up the house. It took a while but she got over it. talk to him...ask him what he's thinking and really listen. he'll be ok 
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Thanks to both of you Ill be fine
And Tisse you better tell me soon! Hope everythings ok honey, good luck | |
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butterfli25 said: charlottegelin said: Nothing major, but my 4 year old who is not dry at night yet and wears a pull-up to bed, takes it off halfway through the night and urinates on the mattress of the spare bed in his room instead of going to the toilet. He also insists on doing his number twos in a nappy, screaming blue murder if he has to sit on the potty. I've tried putting the nappy in the potty to catch his poo, but he is not fooled.
What do I do? is he possibly sleep walking? explain to him that his poo is no longer a part of him when it comes out. My daughter was freaked out by the thought that a part of her was being flushed down the toilet. I had to explain to her that that was what the poo was for and if we kept it inside we'd get sick and if we didn't flush it it would really stink up the house. It took a while but she got over it. talk to him...ask him what he's thinking and really listen. he'll be ok I've drawn diagrams and everthing to show how food turns into poo and it has to come out or he will get sick in his tummy - he is 4 and quite intelligent, but his excuse is that the seat on the potty is cold (even after stitting on it for 5 mintues  !) this has been going on for several months already
he says he pulls off the pull-up because it's wet after doing a wee early in the night, and then next one he does he does on the bed!
I am sure he will be fine I know this is a minor blip in the scheme of things but it takes up so much of my mind-space trying to get around it! | |
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charlottegelin said: butterfli25 said: is he possibly sleep walking? explain to him that his poo is no longer a part of him when it comes out. My daughter was freaked out by the thought that a part of her was being flushed down the toilet. I had to explain to her that that was what the poo was for and if we kept it inside we'd get sick and if we didn't flush it it would really stink up the house. It took a while but she got over it. talk to him...ask him what he's thinking and really listen. he'll be ok I've drawn diagrams and everthing to show how food turns into poo and it has to come out or he will get sick in his tummy - he is 4 and quite intelligent, but his excuse is that the seat on the potty is cold (even after stitting on it for 5 mintues !) this has been going on for several months already
he says he pulls off the pull-up because it's wet after doing a wee early in the night, and then next one he does he does on the bed!
I am sure he will be fine I know this is a minor blip in the scheme of things but it takes up so much of my mind-space trying to get around it!Try going in and changing him before u go to bed hun... | |
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Natisse said: susannah said: Aw you too! Hope everythings ok with you, hope you feel better
Im saying yes, and now am back to butterflies. Feel ill. Here we bloody go a-bloody-gain. But I can take the responsibility! Noone is to worry. we all have to take chances sometimes thinking of taking a chance myself soon... tell you about it real soon before I pluck up the courage again to go through with it butterflies indeed... good luck gorgeous lady you deserve all the happiness in the world | |
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Ocean said: charlottegelin said: I've drawn diagrams and everthing to show how food turns into poo and it has to come out or he will get sick in his tummy - he is 4 and quite intelligent, but his excuse is that the seat on the potty is cold (even after stitting on it for 5 mintues !) this has been going on for several months already
he says he pulls off the pull-up because it's wet after doing a wee early in the night, and then next one he does he does on the bed!
I am sure he will be fine I know this is a minor blip in the scheme of things but it takes up so much of my mind-space trying to get around it!Try going in and changing him before u go to bed hun... Good idea. I get his big brother up to wee before I go to bed, so I might do the same with him thanks! | |
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