I did stare a lil' bit when i was younger, but now iam pretty good at not catching a glance at the cleavage (though its very hard not to look when the girl ur talking too is wearing a tight, or very low cut outfit)


Do any of u girls hate guys, or hated guys that would stare at ur breasts? Some girls i know take it as a compliment, and some get pissed off by it. I think subtle glances can be a turn on if ur a girl. Surely some girls want u to look?
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When I hit puberty in the 80s (!!) I did everything I could to draw attention away from them. Now I don't care any more. One particular shirt I have gets me some attention, which I wear sometimes if I feel up to it.

charlottegelin said:

Thats a cool shirt.

I was talking to a rather well endowed girl like urself and she feels sometimes that guys only go out with her boobs, and not her. But then this ex girlfriend i use to go out with would constantly complain about her small boobs, and i use to feel sorry for her, despite myself saying that i loved her small boobs anyway. I find small boobs kinda cute myself.

Breasts are meant to be sexual and of course, maternal, thats how i feel anyway, but iam sure feminists hate guys looking at their boobs sometimes.

Anyway, i dont stare, its degrading, but i feel glances are cool. Thats sad how u use to cover them up, i can see ur point though. I bet girls at the time would of killed for bigger boobs.

I am a boob guy...I make no excuses for it.... nice "shirt" charlotte I was looking at your eyes the whole time...

pardonme4livin said:

Yeah i gotta admit charlotte, u've been blessed. Gorgeous infact....

charlottegelin said:

that shirt is so ironic. i've always had an issue with women who wear t-shirts that have words going over their boobage, then get pissed when people look at their rack in order to read what's on the t-shirt. i'm not saying to hide the puppies, but by the same token, don't go printing the first page of the next harry potter book on the ta-tas...because people will read it!

Not very big there although still get spoken to them...
had i guy at work ask me what my other one was called the other day... (name badge) ..idiot!!!

Ocean said:

omg

Natisse said:

that's what I thought
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Ocean said:

What is the other one's name?

pardonme4livin said:

Mr (pre op)

Ocean said:

My boobs are very apparent no matter what I wear but when I do have any cleavage (which I rarely do anyway) I get more attention than I'd like. People make comments, like it's a big fucking deal. I hate that, no more cleavage

CalhounSq said:

its the comments that made me cover up more too.
i dont like to get that kind of attention

CalhounSq said:

Who, whoa whoa....we'll have no cleavage bashing around these parts young lady...your cleavage, as with your smile, your hair....your aura (all of which I am assuming, with never actually seeing a picture of you)....all are part of what makes a woman so alluring. It is nothing to hate on...embrace that cleavage.... (I will not take that any further... )

Raine said:

Oh no ....not you too...listen ladies....I would like to apologize for any guy that has made you feel self-conscious....I'm certain that that was not his intent...it was to compliment you in some juvinile way... maybe his momma didn't raise him right or he was raised by wolves....whateva... god created you...in all your glory....

pardonme4livin said:

ur doing a pathetic attempt in defending

pardonme4livin said:

Ehh, once you've been made to feel a certain way, it's pretty hard to put yourself back in those situations. I'm a shy person so for me it's really difficult, whereas a lot of women are cool w/ it & even seek it (obviously, look @ how many boob jobs women get ), I'd just rather people act normal around me instead of all It's too fucking weird...

thesexofit said:

You can look at my breasts if you want ,you only have to ask

pardonme4livin said:

i wouldn't say i feel self conscious.
but i have noticed a difference in the way people talk to me depending on how i am dressed.
a lot of people assume that i must be stupid or promiscuous .

Raine said:

Don't you HATE when guys get that layer of sleaze in their voice w/ every word?

And once I went to a party, had on a kinda low cut top & a girl who wasn't even gay (so I heard, I thought otherwise ) could NOT stop staring @ my cleavage!!! "Wow! Whoa! Okay! Yea, good to SEE you! WOW!" I guess it doesn't help that she was short & her eyes were right AT my nipples but still - that kind of attention, what do you do with it? Say "thank you"? Ignore them? Punch them in the face? It's just too weird, there's no right response that doesn't make me temporarily feel like I'm just a pair of tits standing there. Me no likey... dig me for my brain, it's pretty awesome sometimes

CalhounSq said:

if its a comment i ignore it and whoever made it.
i reserve the punch in the face option for (usually drunk) grabbers

I think big boobs are over-rated and they suck to have.


but when you have big boobs, covering up doesn't really help.

Rhondab said:

Surely you mean "they have to be sucked"?

Rhondab said:

Nope. & depending on how you cover them up sometimes it makes you look bigger I gotta really feel like a bum to wear a sweatshirt these days

There's no hiding the boobage. I'm cool w/ mine now (I used to want a reduction! ), I just never flaunt them



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CalhounSq said:

Reductions should be banned in all civilized nations....

pardonme4livin said:

So should the word "boobage"... it makes my dick go soft...

Which, come to think of it, is quite a feat...

pardonme4livin said:

And I'm only a C - can you imagine?

I hope I'm a C Oprah's bra show had me trippin' I just bought new bras, I better be a C

MartyMcFly said: