Change is good!

skcoSsaihtnyC said:

Yes- I like change- It's the Gemini in me I suppose!

hmm..change..i vegeterian(sp?)..or rather i stopped eating meat,chicken,pork..which is good..tofu is good.
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It becomes apparent when you visit with a friend you haven't talked to in a long time.

i have noticed major changes within myself over the past 3 months or so

Just become Healthier,but Never Changed.

CinisterCee said:

Oh goodness this is so true for me... when i was in michigan a few months back i spent some time with a friend i dont see often ...and most them time i was with her i was thinking how strange it was... different and drifted, apart

i wasnt comfortable beingme... or speaking my truths...i just smiled and listened mostly and was left with that WTF feeling ...

I can't see it. But the other day I saw my best friend whom I haven't seen since we graduated (5 years ago) and he said I look different and asked if I had plastic surgery...

Then my other best friend who just came home from San Diego for 4 years told me that I "look different".

I guess I was supposed to stay the same gooky lookin person they graduated with.
And no I haven't had any plastic surgery. Shit, I wish I had plastic surgery money.

Machaela said:

That's the exact feeling! All of a sudden you're an introvert around the old friend!

as good as holiday!

shanti0608 said:

Gemini here too... I enjoy change....

Machaela said:

Sometimes it troubles me more to have other's perceive changes that I cannot see.... I hope all changes I make are positive...

pardonme4livin said:

Sometimes my need for change causes more stress in my life. Hope 2006 I can cope better with that part of me...

I hate change...it's heavy and weighs a ton in my pockets. Besides, who the hell uses pennies anymore anyway, yanno??...











































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Byron said:

silly Byron

Byron said:

I'm with you, hon I've never been good with change

Machaela said:

You can have mine...

Natisse said:

Dollar bills rule!!

Byron said:

HELL YEAH

what i think is weird is looking back in your life and tracing everything you have and where you are now from one decision you made, then thinking how different your life would be if you made a different decision. everything about my life i can trace back to a decision i made about which job to take when i was 19. EVERYTHING. i wouldn't be where i am or have my daughter if i had chosen the other job. sometimes i wonder what i would be doing. i would have avoided a lot of hurt if i had made a different choice. but i wouldn't change a single thing about it, because if i did things differently i wouldn't have my daughter i wouldn't have met a very special person.

fantasyislander said:

You are so correct my friend!

shanti0608 said:

fantasyislander said:

I think about this often.....I love my kids and have to believe that the "wrong" decisions I made have been justified.... if not.....

shanti0608 said:

it really is almost scary though, to think about what would have happened if i'd taken that other job.

pardonme4livin said:

exactly. all the pain it took to get to where i am is worth it. she's worth it.

he's worth it too.

fantasyislander said:

Glad it's all good hun....

i find it interesting to see how i have changed over the years but also how much i've remained the same.