he is so incredibly sweet.

he kidnapped me saturday morning and i spent almost all of the holiday weekend with him, and he refused to let me pay for anything. we went and saw "brokeback mountain" which was lovely, and he held my hand the whole time. when the movie moved me to tears, he put his arm around me and held me close.

he was asking me at one point if i ever got married if i would invite my father's side of the family, asking about meeting my mother, ect.

he's like heaven.

AND-

he grew up in an apartment on the Lower East Side that he still lives in, which is rent controlled. rent controlled has not existed since the 70s, and was replace with rent stabalized, and his parents were in this apartment since the 50s, and the rent on it is only 118 dollars.

one hundred and eighteen dollars a month for the love of god!!

which is amazing, especially since there are only probably 20 rent controlled apartments left in all of manhattan at this point. this apartment would probably go for 2000 dollars a month if he or one of his family members hadn't been there since the 50s.

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last night, i called him when i got out of work just to see how his day was, ect, and he talked me into taking me out for dinner and another movie. we went to see "the producers", and while walking towards the theatre, the PSYCHO semi-EX called!



he and i went out for a few weeks, and it wasn't gonna happen, so i wuit calling him, and he didn't call me either. no big deal.

at some point though, after about 2 months of not hearing from him, he has decided i am the love of his life, and won't leave me alone. he calls ALL the time, and i ma too nice to tell him not to, and he refuses to see that i am not interested in him. monday night he called while i was already in bed 3 times in a 19 minute span untill i got up and turned the phone off.

he was trying to get me to come out, and i said "we're going to see a movie"

"we?" my semi-ex asks.

so i told him all about the ex, and nick was asking if he should beat him up for me. it was so cute.
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he sounds very sweet!

fantasyislander said:

he is...

thank you

Awwwww! Really happy for you Chris - I know the past year or two has been pretty rough on ya, here's to 2006 babe!

BananaCologne said:

amen to that, nanners.

how have you been?

cborgman said:

it's a long long maudlin tale that i'll save jacking your happy thread with my friend. xxxx

See, this is the romance novel mindset at work. Stop knocking me by saying i don't know what i am talking about. I know women.

Spats said:

what?

Spats said:

Too bad these are men.

Spats said:

he's not a woman, ya jerkoff.


tell me, how's "betty" doing? did you take "her" out for a night on the town?

VoicesCarry said:

spats...what an idiot



anyways! cborgman, im happy you're happy!
that's just soooo sweet!!!

cborgman said:

I'm sooooo happy for you baby!!!!! Does he have a brother.....?


M

BananaCologne said:

let er rip, honey. screw the thread, i want to hear from you.

Spats said:

well, then clearly you have no idea what women are like, since i'm not a woman
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SammiJ said:

thank you!

how are you?

MIGUELGOMEZ said:

sadly no. he is the only living member of his family. his parents are dead, his brother was murdered (eek!), and his other brother died of an overdose... very sad.

cborgman said:

but i'm totally happy for you and your new man, chris!

i can hear the wedding bells now.....















sounds like a great guy. i'm so very happy for you.

Handclapsfingasnapz said:

thank you, baby!

how was your holiday?

cborgman said:

'...he's something that u'll never understand.'

...if ur evil he'll 4give u by and by...

cborgman said:

i'm fantabulous thank you! ( http://www.prince.org/msg/100/172167 )



so are you two doing anything for new years then???

This thread put a big smile on my face. I'm happy for you Chris

cborgman said:

it was alright...i didn't get to go anywhere/do anything for x-mas, but i made a couple of new friends yesterday so it wasn't totally sucky.

CHIC0 said:

thank you.

he is determined to get me to quit smoking too. he offered to pay for me to get on the patch, and when he was introducing me to some of his friends last night, he mentioned during dinner when i excused myself to go smoke "he doesn't know it yet, but i am getting him the patch in a few weeks"

BananaCologne said:

SammiJ said:

awww!

that's so sweet!

unfortunately, i already have plans and tickets to go to the VIP lounge at this club here in manhattan. my boss and our work friends already bought my ticket, and they are sold out.



oh, well.

Teacher said:

awww, thanks teach!

Handclapsfingasnapz said:

how did you meet them?

IrresistibleB1tch said:

if we do get married, you SO have to be the one to walk me down the aisle.



and instead of walking down the aisle, we'll escape through the side door and motorbike up to canada