Spats said:

and don't you dare start sounding all high and mighty about spelling, jerkoff. you haven't spelled everything right either, and if you start doing that you can bet your balls that i will point out EVERY mistake you goddamn make!!!

can you tell i'm in a fighting mood today? so BRING IT ON!!!

Spats said:

I have no problem with women doing the approaching. I also have no problem with men doing the approaching.

I just think the eventual reward of finding someone you truly love and who truly loves you back far outweighs any leftover scars of rejection. Trust me, I've been on the rejection train and while it isn't fun, I can't say that it didn't help to shape me into who I am today in a positive way.

If he is going to talk down to me about anything then he has it coming. He pretends to be this wise man with all these deep meaning messages and then turns around and can't spell jerk. If you are going to make fun of someone then don't make mistakes like that.

I am not asking him to post a pic of himself. Of his wife. If she is such a babe he won't have a problem. I have tried the instructions that one person gave me on posting a pic and it did not work.

In my opinion i think it's best to avoid rejection as much as possible. Nothing good comes from it.

Spats said:

I used to think so too- hence the fear of asking any girls out. However, in hindsight, rejection actually did have its benefits for me.

I'm engaged to someone I can't imagine life without. It turns out she is in Australia, while I am in the US. We've been together for 2 and a half years now. It is very difficult to endure the distance and time apart. Perhaps I needed to experience the rejection I did to appreciate the scope of how rare true love can be. If that is the case, it was well worth it. I'd take being rejected 10 times as much as I was and it would still be well worth the prize that I have.

Moonbeam said:

beautiful, isn't it.

Moonbeam said:

that's so sweet
yay for love surpassing distances!!

Just go for it and be yourself ,

Have fun , dont stress

G'won , go for it

fantasyislander said:

that's my girl!!

IrresistibleB1tch said:

except he didn't bring it.

just be urself. So lame but true. Iam very ugly and unusual looking and it is hard for me to get any girl, but its possible. Iam not saying ur ugly bytheway, but evne witht hat hinderence i have, i can still get some and get a relationship. If only i can get over my ex

I just wanted to say

NEVER
NEVER
EVER
OH GOOD GOD
FOR THE LOVE OF BABY JESUS
EVER
Take advice from Spats about ANYTHING!






And yes, be yourself. Try a little to talk to her, but don't worry about it unduly. You're shy, and that's not wrong. Do your best.

Moonbeam said:

Can I just say thank you all for the hilarious shit on this thread??!!!

You are lucky.I tried the long distance thing with a girl once. But i just gave up and stopped responding to her.

Spats said:

Indeed, I am very lucky. We're both good communicators and have been open and honest from the beginning. It takes a lot or work and patience to be able to maintain a long distance relationship, particuarly one not of different cities or states, or even countries, but hemispheres.

fantasyislander said:

he never does.

Moonbeam said:

Like Thailand and the UK. I was back and forth 4 or 5 months at a time in the beginning for a couple of years and it was tough.

Fauxie said:

Congrats on getting through it!