How can a person not know if they are gay?

Wouldn't their sexual desire come out (no pun) in their dreams?

Gawd I hope not.

I've dreamed of having sex with male and female, desirable and undesirable.

I barely remember my dreams. Not even if I wrote themn down straight after them.

As far as I see, dreams can be what u actually want (but very far fetched and of course unconcious ie, u dont think about it until u dream it in ur dream)

Guys just dont turn me on. I think gays are more self concious then straight guys because

a) alot less gay guys around then girls
b) more feminine, thus naturally more vain
c) gay porn, they see themselves and want to look like their gay porn star they are watching.

of course, straight guys aspire to be buff so who the fuck knows?

Do straight men dream about sex with men?

Do gay men dream about sex with women?

....dense in the org today

origmnd said:

i know a couple menthat have told me they have... one was freaked out by it,the other was turned on by it