okay okay, so I have told you guys about that guy i'm interested in. Well here is the second part.... He wanted me to help him with a project in class. So he wanted ME to email HIM the info that HE needed. I was like NO, if you need some help, I'll might help if I'm not busy or whatever. You can e-mail me and i'll try. He gets all fidgity and cranky about it. Every time he sees me he's like "why haven't you e-mailed me" I'm like EMAIL ME, you are the one that needs the help, I know what I'm doing. Well..... a couple of days pass and he text messages my cell phone talking about "OH I lost your e-mail, I'm having trouble with the homework" So I send him this e-mail instead:
( the xxxx's stand for his name : )





You want an email???? Here’s your email… You are an
insensitive, cold person. You are nothing like I
pictured you to be. I thought I had a pretty good
idea of what you were all about when I first got to
know you but you are just nothing like I thought you
were.

You want people to go to you, talk to you, call you,
email you, come to you, bow to you whenever you want
them to. You are SPOILED and self centered. It’s all
about YOU and what XXXXX needs. Cuz XXXXX is the
center of the universe. XXXX, XXXX, XXXXX
XXXXX ME ME ME ME ME ME.


You don’t even know how to spell my name right, that
just shows how much you care. Yet, you expect me to
JUMP whenever you need something for a class. Does it
even cross your mind that your lil insensitive
attitude might be hurtful?

Or maybe lil comments about heather being sexy, or Your “my
car ain’t good enough for the women I want” comments,
or your “I want to fly to Jamaica to hook up with chicks
over there” comments (you implying I ain’t a good
enough Jamaican?????)”

Don’t be text messaging me talking about you lost my
e-mail address. You know very well you have my e-mail
address, you just want me to be chasing you down for
things that YOU need to get done. I don’t need to
e-mail you boy… I know what I’m doing in class. FIND
YOUR OWN INFO.

You lost my e-mail address?, lose my number too. If
you were really a “friend” you would be give a shit
about how your actions might affect me, but since you
live in 111 XXXX st. in XXXXXville I know you don’t
realize or care. NOW, that’s not to say that you’re
hurting me, I’m just saying what if you were??
Nevertheless, I'm cool with just being your class
mate with no drama. Just keep giving me your fake lil
smiles and false chit chats about projects and
whatever, and it will be all good with us, cuz I’ll
turn around and give you the same lil fake smile and
fake chit chat back.

why don't just say to hell with this dude and find someone who doesn't want to use you?

well, i would have done the same, actually i have done something kinda similer relativly recently

Although with thought and time, i think these kinda actions just make you look hysterical and unhinged

but hey like i said been there

shykitty said:

You mean getting thrown out of a bar?

Men suck.

That's why I'm going to have my clitoris made into a massive, huge dong and inject myself with large doses of testosterone. I already have a-cups, so that shouldn't be hard to take away. At which point, I'm going to just love women.

Who will probably also dump me, and as such, I should just go be asexual.

2the9s said:

erm no

i do lots of stupid things

Nero said:

LOL
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Honestly you sound like a drama-queen and he's better off for the fact that you aren't interested.

lovemachine said:

Let me get this straight, this guy wants me to do his work for him cuz he knows I like him, I right an e-mail to set him STRAIGHT about what I will and will not allow him to do and I'm the drama queen?

DenverMoon said:

Yes you are and I would find it funny if I received such a long drawn email in this situation. As I would be reading it thinking ... okay miss drama queen. It's jus the way it is because this is how men think. Letters like this make men run the other way...fast.

Nero said:

you're a FEMALE! I had NO idea..... I'm sorry



And DenverMoon, you didn't have to reply to his stupid ass, all you had to do was when you saw him, wave, and keep on a walkin', he comes after you, walk faster, you don't have to say a word. That's what I woulda done, I can treat a person cold in a second, act like they ain't even there, like they aren't worth me wasting my breath talkin to you should try that

Tish4 said:

Precisely...you are not a drama-queen.

Tish4 said:

That's EXACTLY what I did, and he wouldn't let me. He would come around and say hello and smile and be all buddy buddy with me. He likes the fact that I like him so much, I think it's entertainment. He doesn't want me to go away, he wants me to be after him 24/7

Trust me I tried ignoring him and being rude, and he would still be friendly and nice to me (which just made me look like I was evil and mean in front of others!!!)

lovemachine said:

I know thanks for noticing




DenverMoon said

:

SO? If it looks like that, those other people you probably wouldn't talk to in the first place, so why would you care? Honey, that's one thing you gotta learn, all you have is you, yourself, and you, other people who don't know you, 75% of the time, wanna stay that way. The world is a cold place, so you turning out as being mean shouldn't mean shit to you, if he's bugging you, just walk away, ignore his ass, stay doing exactly what you were doing. Let him come off as the muhfuckin' retard who can't take a hint.


And ANOTHER thing, you shouldn't let people MAKE you do anything you don't wanna do. He's not forcing you to talk to him, so therefore, don't. If you don't wanna have anything to do with him, make sure that he damn well notices that.
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Tish4 said:[quote]

lovemachine said:

Right On!

Good Lawd Child....

:wtf:

Is this that deep?

DenverMoon said:

that's just my advice, try it

OK. Let's get these things straight.

I'm a guy who needs some info. I know this girl who likes me and ask her if she could email me that info.

So I'm a MF

I don't get it

This is some goofy shit Just don't deal w/ his ass anymore - who needs the irritation? He's a jackass, you're aware of this, MOVE ON... it's only "drama" if you let turn into drama...

DenverMoon said:

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LolaM said:

PANDURITO said:

yeah.

i'm a little confused, too. the email doesn't sound like you're "interested in him" in the slightest. no offence, but it sounds like a rant. a little violent

PANDURITO said:

men

I can't answer for her but at a guess...

she was hurt that the guy who she likes alot and who acts like he likes her could loose her e-mail, maybe he did... maybe he was using it as an excuse for not being in touch, that the nice things he did/said didn't actually mean anything

so the extent of the message being rantish shows how much it hurt her that she meant so very little to this man that she didn't even warrent the saving on an e-mail address


maybe

it does sound like a rant, done in the heat of the moment when the emotions are going a little loopy.

Alcop0p said:

TheFrog said:

Alcop0p said:

TheFrog said:

Alcop0p said:

i'm the one on the left, right?

TheFrog said:

funny you should say that but yes.

Alcop0p said: