Hi Orgers. Why do heterosexual men feel the need to say "Im Not Gay Or Nothin'..." before complementing another man on how he looks? What does that say about how comfortable he is with his own sexuality?

Hello. So that the man being complimented doesn't give the admirer a black eye.

Its sad that one would want to hurt someone just over a compliment.

Because they are retards and they dodn't want to admitt that they have a huge bonner for the dude, or if they stare at the man too long they'll have gay thoughts and get a huge boner.

Yep, it's true , the right kinda man can turn any man gay, I know this for a fact and I can testify to this because I had a dream that I was a man and I had a huge boner for my own self, and I tried to have sex with my self, but I was playing hard to get and I questioned my sexuality.


Then handsclapfinagsnaps tried to put the moves on me and that frightened me.....so I woke up and got online.
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klhk said:

klhk i love you so much



you are so intelligent. Finally someone i can relate to.
you're my savior klhk

dreamfactory313 said:

It's really dumb but you have no idea how ignorant so many men are. I have had guys pre-emptively tell me they don't want me near them or they don't go that way, as if I'd even want them. Please

I think you're all getting your knickers in a twist about a whole load of nothin'.

This "Im Not Gay Or Nothin'..." phenomenon has happened to me so much. In book stores, the grocery store, the gym, etc. Why cant a straight man just come out and say, "you look nice in that jacket" or "I like your haircut"? Its so ridculous. Women dont seem to have a problem with being gracious to one another but men do for some reason and it kinda pisses me off. Its just silly. The level of homophobia is stifling in our society. Its as though a murderer is more accepted than a gay man.

Hormones thats why, i careless me. i compliment anyone. boy or girl cause i am attracted to both if u my type.

jayaredee said:

i love you more, JD!

Our romance is real, everyone!

Our love is stronger than a heard of Bison! We love each other!
When the time is right we will be together, jayaredee....just me and you and Madonna and George Michael...together....forever.

klhk said:

Huh?

Anyway I compliment my mates. Most men do don't they? U know shit like "cool jacket" "cool hair" "man their cool trainers". But I guess ur talking about deeper physical looks. Comparing men to women is interesting but can go on forever.

U could say women compliment eachother because they are more obsessed with looks and making eachother feel better.

dreamfactory313 said:

In some circles it is

klhk said:

OH KLHK!!!

I Love you more than ever. I never felt this way about a woman in my life

We will create a family with all of us

AND these 2 muthafuckas!!!

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

Its a crying shame.

jayaredee said:

GASP!!!!

They are more beautiful and sexy as ever!


Every day will be hot steamy sex and MUSIC!!!! Yes, jayerdee the music!


We will make love to song after song! Having sex with you, jayredee, Madonna and Goerge Michael, while we all sing together is my ULTIMATE fantasy!

klhk

I also dream of George Michael and Madonna singing beautiful hot sexy songs while we make love. That is all i want in this lifetime. I don't want to do anything else but listen to George Michael and Madonna and make love to you ALL day long.

I pray my dream comes true so soon.
I can't wait any longer

Life is hell every day without you in my bed klhk.
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klhk said:

I see another clique created (2 person one mind)


Anyway Khlk, as funny as ur dream sounds, errrrr, the right man can not turn u gay. Not even jayaredee can.

thesexofit said:

well, u are only 19. My dreams are valid, when you get enough life experience you will realize that I am right!

Oh, and never say anything agianst jayaredee! When you see his beautiful face , I guarantee you, you'll fall in love, and you'll be twisting your ass like, Marilyn Monroe!

klhk said:

? I know some pretty extroverted gays but ? Nah I wasn't bashing the jay. I thanked him (and u even) today. As for my life expreience, I have had shitloads, but yeah, who knows? Iam not narrow minded enough to say I will never be gay, but even seeing a chick giving a guy a blowjob just makes me puke.
I hate it in movies when they do that. They just suck on it for ages zzzzz. Many straight guys love that shit proberly. Now there might be some confusion there.

When a girl is blowing me though, that is different of course.

thesexofit said:

Hey thesexofit

So you probably just don't like seeing dick in any way shape or form. THere's no prblem with that at all. It's probably just natural to your heterosexuality.

I just hate the straight guys who are ignorant and hateful towards homosexuals for the sake of being hateful and have no reasons.

jayaredee said:

u are so smart, JD! We have so much in common it's unreal...




The sexofit has a secret crush on you and I, me thinks.
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jayaredee said:

Yeah. Hey i got gay mates (stereotyping here but they love theatre too). God man u should here the twats on my estate. I have done many shitty things, but I never diss a gay guy. As for not like seeing dick. I don't mind mine. Ha! Now theres confusion for yeah.

It's odd because I should be gay by stereotype. Not that I like people to say boo hoo, but maybe because I was abused as a kid by a bloke has put me off? Yeah iam a lil' fucked up.

klhk said:

U both crack me up. I havn't been out all week. I got no money so porn is my only option. "if u ain't gonna do it, let me get to it"- ray parker jr "she needs to get some"

jayaredee said:

Baby, I LOVE seeing dick! Every color is beautiful!

I am living proof of gay boy turning me into doing gay things. I was strictly all girls when i was under 20. then when i was 21, my girl up and left and moved to Houston and this boy who ws 22 came over one night and gave me a blowjob that had my mouth dropped. He was doing it everynight until i finally put it in him and i was like crosseyed how tight it was. All this when i was in the army barracks too cause i was in the military. from that point on i been with both until i found my dreamlover and was dating then for 2 and half years before my divorce. Damn i wished it was different but i am over my ex now where i say ex now. So for klk or whoever said they were 19 they betternot say that cause i didn't think i was going to be screwing guys neither and i do.

saintsation said:

JDINTERACTIVE said:

As funny and sad as it is, there's a lot of truth in it.

I prefer to say a certain piece of clothing looks good or it's a cool haircut they cut they got rather than saying the guy looks good. I'm the same with women though. I don't say they look good unless I want to get the message across that I really dig 'em. Mainly because I don't want to give anyone the wrong impression, boy or girl.

I dunno, sometimes I just do it on here cause ppl don't know anything about me.

I don't mean it in a reaffirming my sexuality kind of way or anything. Just inserting some extra worthless info is all. It's just like when I'll also casually mention that I'm Canadian in a post.

PurpleKnight said:

And even if you did, so fucking what? Some gay people are proud of their sexuality and mention it all the time and most people don't take offense. Well, I'm "proud" to be hetrosexual, which doesn't mean I think people with another sexual orientation are inferior in any way.

analbolique said:

I don't really feel the need to reaffirm my sexuality, but you make a great point. I'm proud of being straight too, and it's lame when ppl think it's only cool to be proud when you're gay.

Well women are beautiful, and I'm proud to want and desire them. So there!
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