When is it ok?

Do some people deserve to get smacked in the lips?

Never.

Yeah if your dinner isn't cooked or they talk while you are trying to watch the tv, maybe they breath too loud

just smack them one

ReturnOfDOOK said:

What if they smack u?

lollyp0p said:

or whenever your shirts aren't laundered and pressed correctly then they REALLy deserve it



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Solaris said:

a) I'd never hit a woman, b) if a woman EVER hits me in the face, she's out the door.

during rough sex...maybe.....

No, never ever

Solaris said:

If they smack me first, I leave....Plain AND simple

lollyp0p said:

Solaris said:

There's the door - use it

Rhondab said:

I was thinking bout that too!
But nah, the face is generally off limits, even for that.

See I think ya'll are scared to say it.

But if a woman gives you a shiner, you'd want to pop her ass in the mouth.

No lie.

CarrieMpls said:

if I can throw the punch...its on..lol

i used to date someone who wanted me to smack him in the face during the nasty. the first time was weird and i didn't like it, then the second time i just started thinking of all the ways he got on my nerves, and suddenly it became very gratifying.

um, what was the question? oh.

unless it's playful (as in a very light slap - you know, a 'love tap') or some kind of consentual sex thing, it's not okay to smack a partner in the face. never ever, i don't care how shitty what they did was to you. i've only had someone raise a hand to me once, and it was like a second date, and a date from hell at that. better believe there was no third date.

CarrieMpls said:

For you

I actually really dig that working towards the crescendo

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Rhondab said:

Ooh, Rhonda's freaky like that!

I always told the girls I dated they can hit me anywhere except my balls or my face.

Solaris said:

Wanting to and actually doing it are two different things.

Anxiety said:

Now you know a gay man would smack his lover or a woman in a heartbeat.

Solaris said:

only if he wanted to get smacked back.

Anxiety said:

There are a lot of women who would do the same thing.

But see some of them like to give punches and shit like that.

And if you hit them back....they are like....

"Why did you hit me?"

Solaris said:

I will admit to punching my ex in the eye when we were arguing. It was a day of his BS and I just got tired of the verbal abuse and his shit and I punched him in the eye. He just grabbed me then walked out of the house.

He actually apologized to me because he knew he was getting under my skin.

Rhondab said:

Okay...flip that...

I've never done it but I sure as hell wanted to shake the shit out of someone.

Bitch slapping when someone is giving you day in and day out shit...



What if you were giving him bullshit all the time?

Solaris said:

I'm not saying I was right....at all and I'm surprised he apologized.


Hitting, shaking, etc is wrong....any abuse verbal, emotional or physical...WRONG!!

Solaris said:

Only if you're doing the smacking with your lips


Otherwise, no

Rhondab said:

He apologized because you set the bitch straight and probably scared the fuck out of him.

analbolique said:

he didn't want me to cut him off.....Good loving is hard to find.
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Rhondab said:

Yeah right...

Sometimes a bitch man/woman needs to be smacked.

Verbal abuse will make you do that.

So don't verbal abuse anyone.

Rhondab said:

Yeah, well, at that point I think he was probably more scared you'd cut his peepee off.

Solaris said:

yeah, i've known people like that. they wanna horseplay, but when they get an ouchie they get all indignant about it. "dish it out but can't take it" syndrome. it just tells me never to horseplay with that person, and if they ever try to initiate it, i'd tell them to knock it off.