EvilWhiteMale said:

Does this apply to cyberlife as well ?

Rhondab said:

Perhaps.

Only when no one else is looking!

EvilWhiteMale said:

I'm lover not fighter. If I see events are going to escalate to a violent episode. Then, I'm ready to bounce.

many, many moons ago, my X called me a nasty, nasty name and without a thought, i just slapped him acrossed the face, i felt so bad, it caught me and him by surprise with the slap, he just grabbed his car keys and left and when he got home later he called to apologise for saying what he did and we actually laughed about the incident
but no never again, i felt terrible for slapping him, but at the time,
i thought hell he deserved it

Solaris said:

I like to be slapped during sex, I also love a good tugging on the hair...

In the face, it's never ok. I flipped out and smacked someone and I felt AWFUL, had he smacked me back I would have deserved it. Even if the reason was some bitch was doing coke off his bureau while I was sleeping in his bed

CarrieLee said:

I would think, maybe they DID deserve it.. Hmm Maybe just a little.. Hope someone got kicked to the curb???

BabyCakes said:

Oh yes. That was the last time I ever saw him. I just completely lost it and hit him. It wasn't right, but I was just so upset I couldn't help myself.

CarrieLee said:

I think it is justified.. I could see myself slapping someone that is doing THAT while i am sleeping.. also if i ever walked in on my man fucking someone else.. The world would hear the slap at that point.. IS IT RIGHT, NO, of course not! BUT it sure would make me feel better at that moment!

For Carrie-

BabyCakes said:

Well I thought it would make me feel better too I guess...but it really didn't. And what happened was just WRONG! I think had I just shook my head in disgust and left it would have had more of an impact on him. But I really flipped out, I guess the girl took out her mace cuz she was so scared I was gonna try and kill her!

CarrieLee said:

paranoia from the Coke will do that to ya!!

BabyCakes said:

Like Ozzy says "Paranoia will destroy ya"!!!

If a woman ever goes too far I'll smack the shit out of her (same applies to men, children, elders etc...)

Neversin.
[Edited 4/19/05 8:10am]

It depends on what the circumstances are. If the man or woman is attacking you then smack the crap out of them.

For whatever reason it seems to be acceptable for women to smack men but not the other way around. Women smack men in movies and Tv all the time and people laugh or think nothing of it. But if a man is seen smacking the woman it is frowned upon and sends a bad message. Does not make much sense.

Yes. I am a big guy and i'll let my lover or whatever smack me in the face if i did something stupid. Chance are it won't hurt me. If can lift 400 pounds of weight a little smack from someone won't hurt. But i would never ever smack my significant other. I made one mistake where i was high one tme and choked them but afterwards i felt so so so so so so bad i couldn't stand to look at myself in the mirror for a day or two especially when they weight only 100- 105 pounds and only 5"2 or 3.

Neversin said: