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Printableheybaby said: thanks guys. i hate these types of situations. i just wish that they could just go to school get their education and do what they like in life.
I agree with you Baby... But there are bullies in the real world too....  | |
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I say alright for your son! This is why...
He obviously didn't start the fight. The other kid did...and con't seem to control his anger...I mean it's dodge ball for Chissy Sakes! He defended himself and fought back. I'll bet that the other kid will not be messing around with your son again. If he had wimped out he'd have more issues post fight than he did by nipping it in the bud. What he did was "wrong"...violence begets violence. He should know that. But he should know that standing up for himself was ok too...if that's what happened. oh and this comes from someone who'd get the crap beat out of em for no reason all the time...at age 10. I never hit back...and that's why they did it. I know one bully just ended up leaving me alone after beating me up constantly...probably because I was longer a challenge and would instantly cower at first sign of him. [Edited 4/12/05 17:25pm] Christian Zombie Vampires | |
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superspaceboy said: I say alright for your son! This is why...
He obviously didn't start the fight. The other kid did...and con't seem to control his anger...I mean it's dodge ball for Chissy Sakes! He defended himself and fought back. I'll bet that the other kid will not be messing around with your son again. If he had wimped out he'd have more issues post fight than he did by nipping it in the bud. What he did was "wrong"...violence begets violence. He should know that. But he should know that standing up for himself was ok too...if that's what happened. well he rarely gets into any fights. and i do tell all my boys that its not right to fight. he quiet and usually just does his work. he hasn't gotten into a fight since the 2nd grade. | |
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superspaceboy said: I say alright for your son! This is why...
He obviously didn't start the fight. The other kid did...and con't seem to control his anger...I mean it's dodge ball for Chissy Sakes! He defended himself and fought back. I'll bet that the other kid will not be messing around with your son again. If he had wimped out he'd have more issues post fight than he did by nipping it in the bud. What he did was "wrong"...violence begets violence. He should know that. But he should know that standing up for himself was ok too...if that's what happened. oh and this comes from someone who'd get the crap beat out of em for no reason all the time...at age 10. I never hit back...and that's why they did it. I know one bully just ended up leaving me alone after beating me up constantly...probably because I was longer a challenge and would instantly cower at first sign of him. [Edited 4/12/05 17:25pm] i was bullied alot at school too...and i don't want him going through that either. i just try to keep a balance between showing it wrong to start a fight and defending yourself to keep from being a doormat. | |
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sometimes it SUCKS being the mommy and having to sort all this shit out, we second guess our every move - just so we dont 'scar' them for life 
i believe you are a levelheaded woman, you have always given great advice here... and you are sweet as sweet can be  so, go with that instinct on this one and let your baby know youre here for him if it continues, and the other kid cant keep his hands off your baby, you call me, we'll go TOGETHER and straighten this crap out  One of the best days of my life... http://prince.org/msg/100/291111
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nakedpianoplayer said: heybaby
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sometimes it SUCKS being the mommy and having to sort all this shit out, we second guess our every move - just so we dont 'scar' them for life
i believe you are a levelheaded woman, you have always given great advice here... and you are sweet as sweet can be so, go with that instinct on this one and let your baby know youre here for him if it continues, and the other kid cant keep his hands off your baby, you call me, we'll go TOGETHER and straighten this crap out  i trust he'll do the right thing, he's been a good boy  | |
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