What's so weird about that? I want a wife, kids, live a nice quiet life...grow old and watch my children and grand children do well in school and later on their careers.

awwww i wnt another drink

I want nothing

but what i can't have

I have children

I had the wedding i had the husband

TheDuck said:

Am I that depressing?

I want a hotdog, but i don't eat meat what a fucker

awwwww well i am glad to hear that it will come n time U are still young... i hope U find the one that U can do all this with.. i know U would make a good dad since U are a good uncle... i am just a lill shock to hear U say it so tell me are U hearing a lill clock go tick tick

purplekisses said:

I don't want to be an old dad though. Sure, technically I could still make babies in 20 years from now, but....

eikonoklastes said:

its me not u

eikonoklastes said:

i hear U... but ur n good shape so i think U have noffn to worry bout but finding the right woman that is another issue

eikonoklastes said:

You always swore that since you were married once that you wouldnt do it again and that you didnt want kids either...you said you'd be happy living up in a mountain cabin with only a grocery delivery once a week and away from the world...since when you want to be the "family guy"?

TheDuck said:

Oh no, I've heard that one way too often.

PurpleThunder said:

Well I might not want to go through the process of marriage again, but to me the woman in my life might as well be called my wife. I don't recall saying I don't want kids. I honestly can't imagine I ever said that. The only reservations I have have to do with the fact that I grew up without a father and I can't say I really know what a father is supposed to do. On the other hand I guess such things will have to be defined for every couple as every situation is different.

I first started to feel like I wanted to have children about 4 years ago with my ex wife. We were trying too and in retrospect I guess it was a good thing I didn't happen. However eversince the feeling has grown stronger. Maybe it just takes longer for some people to get these feelings.

If I can't have my family I could be relatively happy living on a mountain all by myself, away from the rest of the world. Either way, I will never be a very social person, but I don't think that has to stand in the way of starting a family.

I also believe that there are many children who need a loving family, so the child(ren) don't necessarily have to be my own flesh and blood.

eikonoklastes said:

Poor poor thing.....you sound like you were HURT..... wanting to be alone, alone with YOURSELF....




But I'm STILL surprised you even THOUGHT of having a child before.... sorry, I just got that vibe from you....anyway, I hope you acheive your goals.

Tish4 said:

I won't say I've been hurt worse than other people, not at all, it just had more of an impact on me because of the person I am. Some get hurt worse, time after time and still stay optimistic. I'm a bit jealous of them really, wish I was that strong.

I've never been a very social person, though it has gotten increasingly worse after my early 20's and it's not really related to my past relationships. I'm really not as insensitive as I may come across sometimes, contrary even, I'm just selective about who I allow to touch me because once someone's in my life I have a very, very hard time of letting them go.

Not to mention that I'm goofing around a lot here at the org even if people don't think I'm particularly funny.

eikonoklastes said:

THAT may be the TRUEST thing you've EVER said But seriously, I envy YOU..some are just so retarted.....they allow ANYONE into their life and let them fuck it up..it's sad when you think about it. But you are just the opposite, you choose people to have in your life , that's hot. And makes some of us ladies try even harder to get you


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Hey weren't you married once?

joey, joey, joey... are you taking some sort of 'truth medicine' lately honey ??? you have shocked me with some of your posts recently. its great to see you be more open and honest about the person you REALLY are !!! yes, youre an ass lovin freak but you are also a very sweet guy, and you will have your mrs right in no time at all

nakedpianoplayer said:

I always speak the truth, usually I just don't feel like getting too personal on a forum. Those whom I feel should know already know all this stuff anyway.

As far as Mrs Right goes, she'd have to deal with a lot of my shit and I don't think there are too many people out there who could or would want to. Only time will tell I guess, but damn, it's not easy being patient and staying optimistic.

eikonoklastes said:

tell me about it

Great thread.