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I hate being told off. I got told off by my housemate/landlord for smoking in my room. I feel bad because I shouldnt have done it and well I find it hard to let things go when Im told off. Can you let things go when you get a bollocking? | |
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Next time put the cigaret out on his forehead. | |
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JDINTERACTIVE said: I got told off by my housemate/landlord for smoking in my room. I feel bad because I shouldnt have done it and well I find it hard to let things go when Im told off. Can you let things go when you get a bollocking? since they seem to have the upper hand being the landlord and all..you need other tactics....booger/snot in their food maybe? | |
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analbolique said: Next time put the cigaret out on his forehead.
he he! They've put up do this and do that notes all over the house. There's one in the bathroom that says 'remember to flush the toilet after use...thanks'. I find that really anal and patronising. I think someone just forgot once and well you just feel cheeky to get it taken down. I find it embarassing if I have a friend over. | |
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Christopher said: JDINTERACTIVE said: I got told off by my housemate/landlord for smoking in my room. I feel bad because I shouldnt have done it and well I find it hard to let things go when Im told off. Can you let things go when you get a bollocking? since they seem to have the upper hand being the landlord and all..you need other tactics....booger/snot in their food maybe? No, they're OK. But you know what I mean?! Its my fault but 'jeez'! | |
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CarrieMpls said: I hate it too. Even if I know I'm in the wrong. I cannot take criticism at all.
But, I can own up to mistakes. And will apologize as needed. Yeah. You always remember it too. | |
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JDINTERACTIVE said: Christopher said: since they seem to have the upper hand being the landlord and all..you need other tactics....booger/snot in their food maybe? No, they're OK. But you know what I mean?! Its my fault but 'jeez'! im evil sorry. anyhoo im sure you'll feel better in a bit. if it happens more than once id say something to them. or just | |
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JDINTERACTIVE said: Christopher said: since they seem to have the upper hand being the landlord and all..you need other tactics....booger/snot in their food maybe? No, they're OK. But you know what I mean?! Its my fault but 'jeez'! Makes you feel like a lil kid, doesn't it? | |
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analbolique said: JDINTERACTIVE said: No, they're OK. But you know what I mean?! Its my fault but 'jeez'! Makes you feel like a lil kid, doesn't it? Yeah. I think there's a certain way to approach people and situations. | |
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i hate to be the one being yelled at, but i LOVE to be the one yelling at someone i have JUST ABOUT perfected my arguing skills, and feel confident that i can hold my own in most any situation my mother says i missed my calling... and yeah, shes right, i woulda made a great lawyer
anyway, yeah, i know how you feel.. but, shake it off sweetie maybe they just had a rough day and took it out on you much love - NPP One of the best days of my life... http://prince.org/msg/100/291111
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JDINTERACTIVE said: analbolique said: Next time put the cigaret out on his forehead.
he he! They've put up do this and do that notes all over the house. There's one in the bathroom that says 'remember to flush the toilet after use...thanks'. I find that really anal and patronising. I think someone just forgot once and well you just feel cheeky to get it taken down. I find it embarassing if I have a friend over. During my second year at uni, a crazy caffeine-addicted American housemate got so pissed off with a another housemate for leaving 'do-this' notes all over the place that he decided to spunk in a condom and tie it to his door handle. Ahhh, those were the days | |
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TaoOfGimp said: JDINTERACTIVE said: he he! They've put up do this and do that notes all over the house. There's one in the bathroom that says 'remember to flush the toilet after use...thanks'. I find that really anal and patronising. I think someone just forgot once and well you just feel cheeky to get it taken down. I find it embarassing if I have a friend over. During my second year at uni, a crazy caffeine-addicted American housemate got so pissed off with a another housemate for leaving 'do-this' notes all over the place that he decided to spunk in a condom and tie it to his door handle. Ahhh, those were the days | |
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TaoOfGimp said: During my second year at uni, a crazy caffeine-addicted American housemate got so pissed off with a another housemate for leaving 'do-this' notes all over the place that he decided to spunk in a condom and tie it to his door handle. Ahhh, those were the days when you post....i can picture you saying your post with the mask on. | |
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nakedpianoplayer said: i hate to be the one being yelled at, but i LOVE to be the one yelling at someone i have JUST ABOUT perfected my arguing skills, and feel confident that i can hold my own in most any situation my mother says i missed my calling... and yeah, shes right, i woulda made a great lawyer
anyway, yeah, i know how you feel.. but, shake it off sweetie maybe they just had a rough day and took it out on you much love - NPP You don't argue. You call them a bitch and then roll up your sleeves. | |
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analbolique said: TaoOfGimp said: During my second year at uni, a crazy caffeine-addicted American housemate got so pissed off with a another housemate for leaving 'do-this' notes all over the place that he decided to spunk in a condom and tie it to his door handle. Ahhh, those were the days You love it really joey | |
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Christopher said: TaoOfGimp said: During my second year at uni, a crazy caffeine-addicted American housemate got so pissed off with a another housemate for leaving 'do-this' notes all over the place that he decided to spunk in a condom and tie it to his door handle. Ahhh, those were the days when you post....i can picture you saying your post with the mask on. Hehe Imagine me saying it with a Clint Eastwood style voice as well! | |
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TaoOfGimp said: Christopher said: when you post....i can picture you saying your post with the mask on. Hehe Imagine me saying it with a Clint Eastwood style voice as well! the org needs a voice generator that reads the text back to you in a your choice of character. | |
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TaoOfGimp said: analbolique said: You love it really joey I bet that handle didn't squeek anymore though. | |
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We all make mistakes...
Put it behind you and move on. | |
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Is your room mate gary Barlow? | |
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lollyp0p said: Is your room mate gary Barlow?
Yes. I am the Robbie Williams of the house. | |
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JDINTERACTIVE said: lollyp0p said: Is your room mate gary Barlow?
Yes. I am the Robbie Williams of the house. Ohhhhh sp do you walk around in your underpants ripping parts of your flesh off and chucking them to roller skating young women? | |
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lollyp0p said: JDINTERACTIVE said: Yes. I am the Robbie Williams of the house. Ohhhhh sp do you walk around in your underpants ripping parts of your flesh off and chucking them to roller skating young women? Yes because Ive come undone. | |
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JDINTERACTIVE said: lollyp0p said: Ohhhhh sp do you walk around in your underpants ripping parts of your flesh off and chucking them to roller skating young women? Yes because Ive come undone. I know someone who can give you meds to help with that condition | |
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I'm aggressively combative when somebody tries to tell me off.
but only in real life--not here on the org. Just not here on the org. | |
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It might be because you feel guilty about smoking at all?
I feel like some kind of leper now when I'm smoking, especially in public. It's not cool anymore to be smoking. It sucks. I don't like to be told what to do, and being a Literal (of which I just found out), I will try to pick apart every accusation thrown at me and somehow win the argument. I don't give up. | |
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Awwww JD, I know how you feel about these things. Just try to let go of it, you can only control what hasn't happened yet, what already passed is over and done with. I know how you feel though, I'm an expert at the "what if I'd" or "what if I hadn't"
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JDINTERACTIVE said: analbolique said: Next time put the cigaret out on his forehead.
he he! They've put up do this and do that notes all over the house. There's one in the bathroom that says 'remember to flush the toilet after use...thanks'. I find that really anal and patronising. I think someone just forgot once and well you just feel cheeky to get it taken down. I find it embarassing if I have a friend over. Sounds like you live with a control freak. I would move, if you can swing it financially. I would go off if somebody did that to me. Someone recently posted a sign on the laundry room door where I live: "Please stop slamming doors!" I noticed that it wasn't up there for very long, and someone took it down. Think they got pissed that the sign was there in the first place. RIP, mom. I will forever miss and love you. | |
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analbolique said: nakedpianoplayer said: i hate to be the one being yelled at, but i LOVE to be the one yelling at someone i have JUST ABOUT perfected my arguing skills, and feel confident that i can hold my own in most any situation my mother says i missed my calling... and yeah, shes right, i woulda made a great lawyer
anyway, yeah, i know how you feel.. but, shake it off sweetie maybe they just had a rough day and took it out on you much love - NPP You don't argue. You call them a bitch and then roll up your sleeves. you DO know me One of the best days of my life... http://prince.org/msg/100/291111
love is a gift an artist with no fans is really just a man with a hobby.... | |
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