Now i like many others have had theirs ups and down with opposite sex,
but i believe that within my age range im in dire need of help
cause everyone within the 16-21 age range are a bunch of F*cking Morons
is it so hard to find a women with an intelligent mind, that oesn't speak slang all the time but can develop a well put sentence every now and then.

Call me pretenious,
but i've ran into these dim witted women everyday,
don't get me wrong they're beautiful, But their is nothing going on in the head
and they usually want me to be something im not like the preverbial Bad Boy "Gangster"
which im not, im a musician Who LIKES TO READ, im not a gangster god dammit
and then theirs the dim wits that wan't to change who i am,
it just never ends...
at this time in my life its not even about sex anymore and just about good companionship(christ i sound like 40 year old woman)
I just need a muse, the songs i write are numbing and emotionless
Loneliness is like a knife in your soul
but i guess im just too damn picky!
i just want someone, who can carry on an intelligent conversation
and someone i can serenade about Moonlights and Serephic places where the river meets the sea.
someone who can beautiful without the exess of too much make-up
who likes movies and is not ashamed to cry
who am i kidding...
she doesn't exist, anywhere but in my imagination
casual sex is numbing...
i need something meaningful though
that was my rant...
go ahead and add yours lol

You're much too young to settle down - life's too short.

Just shag around until you're 35 at least.

Don't worry, you'll find someone. If you have all the qualities you've listed, you can be sure you'll find a soulmate. Not all women between 16-21 are that dumb. And 'till you find her... keep listening to your muse, although she's non-existing, she can be very strong and wise and giving you lots of energy.

BinaryJustin said:

everyone says that,
and i've pantomined
but it gets exhausting moving from one woman to the next
they all expect a sort of love from you but
they barely know the shape of their own heart rather than mines

Stop looking and you'll find her.

That's what happened for me and my hubby and on March we'll have been together 13 years.

Luv4oneanotha said:

I have a feeling she will find you soon enough

Luv4oneanotha said:

Yeah it's hard, and YOU have to become hard to adapt to it, but this is going to be the best way to find a woman that you can both have a good conversation with AND have sex with. Unless you're more interested in the 'conversation' part of a relationship, then you should go 'talk around' I guess, until you find your perfect 'Chat Buddy'...but there's less probability that you're going to be able to dip your wick in her. Unfortunately for you most girls are shallow and consider sex to be an essential component of a 'proper' 'marriage-worthy' relationship.