subhuman09 said:

Huh?

Smooches;)

The hell? This person didn't see me offer to run EWM down with a car cos he's got a bad attitude. Or.... never mind, but people have so many opinions. Most of us fuckers don't care enough to cuss each other out all the time, we do occasionally and the cliques are still around, they're just sleeping atm.

I just don't want to feel like its a club in here. Jesus no one has yet seen this. As I've stated before, u need a pass to get loadsa replies in the g discussion.....but other places on this site u don't get that.

About 90% of u all know and love eachother on here, thats great and all, but u no longer get hardly loners like me on the g disscussion anymore.

U will not see many new faces I reckon as some of u r caught up in urselves all the time.

if I started a pointless thread (which I do), few may answer. they r the ones who r cool and do not mind that a loner like me started the thread. Yet someone else starts a thread just as pointless (which is fine) and it will get a zillion responses. So y the popularity thing?

some will only post on mates threads.

Who the fuck cares if ones threads get many replies?

Te

Not me, seriously. But oh never mind.


Some of u don't even like Prince 4 fucks sake? I cannot win.

Iam saying that it would be nice to treat everyone as equal, no matter the opinions expressed. Yet most seem to have none.

thesexofit said:

Know why no one wants to get close to you? It's your avatar, man. I mean [i]MC Hammer [/i]

thesexofit said:

This post is the crux of it, I believe. It obviously does bug u when your threads don't get many replies. There are a plethora of reasons why this may be the case, above and beyond the cliques you're referring to. You're claiming not to care about popularity, replies and such, but all the while demonstrating otherwise with this thread, these posts.

Some people are more given to getting along with others, some to making waves. I find that most people are able to get on with most others here, despite the diversity. Friendships form, and naturally people tend to post on their friends' threads a little more than others. How could you expect otherwise?

Equal opportunities for threads? People will gravitate to whatever interests them, this interest sometimes arising from a friendship with the starter of the thread, sometimes owing more to the subject matter.

Perhaps next time you're thinking of going to a Prince gig you can spare a thought for Danni Minogue and go to watch her instead. It can't be right that so many people love Prince and want to see him perform at the expense of others. This world isn't just.

The fact is, there will always be people more popular than you, and if you hold this up and bestow it with more importance than perhaps you should, you'll never be able to rest. The real worth is in following your path, holding true to what you believe in, understanding you may or may not gain popularity, but never letting this dictate how you follow your path. Either that or smiley emoticons and vagina threads.

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I make the best threads.

ThreadCula said:

Natisse said:

Very Good Nattie Jean.

See sexofit...you may want to take a tip from Natisse Here. In a very short time, she made a lot of friends here and is "popular". But she also reached out past the "cliques" and such you describe here to make friends. I mean if that is what you want.

When I first came on I too felt a little as you did. Although vulgar and immature threads and postings were not the way I found a few friends on here. I was just myself. and eventually made a few friends around here. I also reached out a bit too. It's really the only way to make friends.

Sure there may be some sorta clique I guess I have popped into, but I don't think of it like that..it's really just the ones that I agree with and have similar tastes. ANd then there are those I like giving a hard time too and having fun with.

and in the end...it's just a web site

So, do you have a lot of friends in high school?

Yeah, I remember when I was young too, questioning why and wanting to know why people won't respond to my "where does she want me to cum" questions.

Seems like only yesterday...

Yeah, I did actually. And no I did not ask those questions as I was not on a website at the time.

I have real ife friends, as we all do. I just like to vent my frustrations sometimes and this was one of them. Not a major problem, but just to get my point across.....I hate no one on here, never have , never will.

This has all been explained.

I admit my threads are often immature but I don't see many mature threads either, but thats cool.

I ain't mad 4 no replies, but just wonder about the goings on around here. As i said before, u either in or out in most cases. But I'm cool with that

thesexofit said:

No drama necessary.

Hate you, I don't even know you.

Have a point and I'll respond.

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I don't want u to respond


U right about the drama.....I get mad sometimes.....I like MC hammer. I guess thats all people need to know about me?
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thesexofit said:

stuff is so shallow.....I bet that if I had Hammer in my av, y'all would be over me!

natisse: I don't make friends behind the screen, at least.....I wouldn't call them 'friends'...

abierman said:

I would they ARE my friends and I'm sorry to hear you've made no friends here but that's your loss not mine

Natisse said:

The entire org are your friends Nat....it needs no justification

Steadwood said:

thank you hon

Steadwood said:

Exacatilly!!!

I am Captain Bullshit. Founder of Captain Bullshit and the Crapateers. Who are YOU?

CAPTAINBULLSH1T said:

You see many replies on popular orger's threads because well, for the simple reason that they're friends. just like in real life, you have more chance to have a long chat with a friend than with a stranger. And also for the reason that the people who post a lot, know what kind of threads will get more replies.
The fact that we don't fight on threads as much as other forums is because we try our best to find way to discuss things without starting a fight.
If you behave in real life the way it seems you expect us to behave here, you'll probably get a black eye twice a week. Is that what you call fun?

Natisse said:

well, I guess it is all about personal interpretation. I don't call people 'friends' until I've met them, just my personal rule of thumb....Until then, you are just a name, and so am I to many, fine! I couldn't care less what people on the net think of me, it just means jackshit to me. Doesn't mean we can not get along, it just means that you don't have to expect any ass-kissing from my side since I don't know what the fuck your ass looks like! Compliments are ok, I give and even get them sometimes....but let's not exaggerate.
My loss? Natisse, if I wouldn't have anything going for me in life, it probably would be my loss.....luckily that's not the case, and I work hard for that and my real friends know.....
The org is just a funny way to waste time, and sometimes you lot amaze me.....then I try to contain myself, but my dutch humor/sarcasm goes strange ways....and frankly, I kinda enjoy that. Hail to provocation!
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abierman said:

miserable fucker edit


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abierman said:

Many of us have met...Nat and I included ...she is a dear friend of mine and so are many others here ...it is possible to have that regardless of where the friendship starts...but to each his own

Ocean said:

exactly, each to his own..... you see, rockandrollisalive calls me a miserable fucker, because he can here.... I bet that if he would meet me, he would think twice before saying such a thing....but that's cool and that's what I like. You can say here whatever you want, and that should stay like that. Whenever you meet, it is a whole different ball-game....you sart from the beginning.
What I am commentig on is the serious ass-kissing that is going on here lately, I am sure (or, I hope) that most of you are not like that in real life. The world is not such a kiss-ass place.....if you know what I mean.
[Edited 1/19/05 5:54am]

thesexofit said:

Ermmm

Well, wow! Using the word 'fuck' in your thread title is really offensive. It certainly got my attention. Then I open the thread and you are bitching like a silly newbie.

I do not see the need for offensive threads anyways. If you need offensive, then go to other forums. I am already irritated by the lack of sense shown by most here on this site. This is a MUSIC site in origin, even if it has branched out to incorporate something more broad.

This is not my site, of course and I do not make the rules, but I would have closed a silly thread like this one immediately. What is the use of this?

And of course you hang with friends. They understand your own particular sense of humour, they look forward reading your posts etc. Nothing wrong with that.