now, if anyone remembers, ive been chasing a girl at college who ive affectionately named the shag.
my last post about her was to ask 'how should i approach her??'

well, if anyones interested, heres the update.
after i asked her friend if she fancied me, she said that the shag thinks im cute.

basically, wtf does cute mean????

does she fancy me or not????

Don't girls go through a a few days when they will shag anything? It is part of their cycle.....anyway


This reminds me of being at school, I think she thinks ur cute becuase she knows u fancy her! Girls love it when u fancy 'em, even if they do not fancy u back!

Maybe she does, but it does not sound too hopeful though?

thesexofit said:

thanks for your reply.

well, at least she didnt say i was an ugly bastard, so i have to take some positives from this.

i dont want to make a foul of myself by asking her out if she doesnt fancy me back, so, i really need to find a girls prospective, to tell me what she means by saying im cute.

INHO cute means she is telling you that you have potential to be in her tight pants or at least a close college friend. But who really wants to be cute? It is time to let loose son... be yourself and don't give a damn. Let it flow, but at the same time, don't rush things that are awkward. Most importantly, don't change for, "the Shag" and most of all you shouldn't refer to her as that either... it's more like a quest or challenge that you tangled yourself into. effectionate or not, it's still a label.

If little conversation before and after class is all that occurs between you two, then thats what it is. Can it change... sure, but don't put two feet on the ice... you might fall into something you can't get out of.

Give me some more info on this.. and I could think of something.

i hate that shit. when they say it, i have to ask if by "cute" they mean "aw yeah, i'd fuck him..." or "he's not that attractive, but he has a nice personality"cute. i'm fucking sexy dammit. bitches better start getting that shit right.

icecool2k19 said:

How's about asking her them questions instead?

Get over yourself, you're not cute.

In my mind, cute's always a good thing.
But JD's right. You're better off talking to the girl straight out than using a go between at this point.

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Give her a Christmas Card and put at least nine x's in it.

Cheese and dip?


is this high school or are you a grown man?


whatta we talking about here?



and you are?

My wife will say I'm cute but never that I'm handsome.

I don't really mind because I think I'm neither, so anything is a bonus.

with a name like icecool, i dont think anybody would have thought i was above the age of 25??
well ive just turned 21 and this girl is 18.

heres some background:
shes in my geography class, and shes fking hot as(i wouldnt class her as beautiful, but shes the hottest girl in the college by far.)
we go into geog twice a week and shes only been there about 10 times.
whenever she does appear, she turns up at least half an hour late, so that rules out talking to her before class. she rushes off after class as well.

a month ago after class, she came up to me and started talking to me.
we were talking about our progress reports which were the complete opposite, so i came out with line "opposites attract as they say".
i dont remember if she appreciated it.

at that time i found out she has a friend in the same geog class. so i decided to find out some info about this girl through her friend, and to find out if she likes me. the response i got from her friend was that the shag thought 'im cute'.

which leads me back to this post.

So anything new this week yet?

U got it bad too.....

thesexofit said:

well i had a geography class today, but....
yep you guessed it, she didnt turn up.

but, i did do a favour for her friend today.
so hopefully she will pass on the message that im a nice and sweet guy.

by being friends with her friend, hopefully i will hang around with both of them and start talking. good idea??

i did however say a very bad chat up line to her friend, but thats another story.

icecool2k19 said:

alcoholic

She said I'm cuuuuute!

Cute to me is both cute on da outside and a cute way about da personality all kinda rolled in2 one. Cute is not scaled down from sexy, rather it's a piece of sexy, to describe an emotional reaction..kinda like this:

When people say I'm cute, I usually feel like a little kid, unless they say it in a sexy voice
But it still has a sound of immature, I dunno.

CinisterCee said: