Ok, so the last man I was madly in love with, who failed to acknowledge the pain he caused, calls me, right... but that's not it....


I first ran into him 5 1/2 months ago and it was a complete shock. We were pleasant to each other and spoke for a few minutes. I was over it. I left and thought "Oh, he's alive."

Then this weekend I saw him at a hangout in L.A. I tapped him and said hello. Mind you, I was with a friend hanging out with her for her birthday with her friends. He kept talking to me about different stuff and well, she got up and left and I haven't spoken to her since. I'm working on mending that. That was Saturday.

Sunday, I'm at the big Holloween Carnival in West Hollywood and I see him again. He talked to me for a minute. No harm, no foul. Well, I thought "Damn, twice, I guess that's it, right?"

Ok, so Wednesday night I get a call on my cell from a number I do not recognize and it's him and I'm like "Who the hell is this" simply because he called me by a name I no longer go by

So he runs up my fucking cell phone minutes talking to me from his job I have had it. I don't want to be the crazy bitch, but I just don't get it. I could be friends with him again if he at least talk about the shitty number he did on me, but maybe because I have been nice he thinks I'm over it. I am, but it would still be nice to have some type of validation, right?

So like I accidently called him a ho and he laughed but had to go soon after

I mean, he was talking about his sex life and I'm chaste, so I was like "I have friends who are hoes, (like you)" I think he took it the wrong

What do I do know?
[Edited 11/3/04 22:39pm]

althom said:

That's the first thing you said on the other thread!

Janfriend, I think you should leave him alone.

kiss85 said:

but what if he calls me again?

Janfriend said:

Screen your calls.

Janfriend said:

Answer it and tell his bitch ass to get a life. I've done it. It works!

Update: I've emailed him a few times and invited him out (with my friends) this weekend but it's still up in the air. I'm not in love with him anymore, but I can be pleasant, no?

Janfriend said:

Be careful sweetie

You don't have to put up with it to be nice.

Just make sure you're not going over limits you're comfortable with.



(Wearing a dress made of Cool Whip is a definite no.)

mdiver said:

of what?... Nothing will happen, but I know I cannot be close to him and I don't want to be alone with him because that's too personal. I can handle emails and hanging out with other people around