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There ain't no cure for the holiday blues Usually Christmas is my favorite time of the year but lastnight I just got so depressed.  I'm having a lot of stress at work, my family is having "issues," I'm broke, and I'm lonely. I wish it was January. Anyone else feel me out there?In spite of the cost of living, it's still popular. |
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Basically sounds like everyday in my life. 
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I kinda know what you mean, i've had alot of change this year in my life and this christmas is going to be totally different to any of the ones in the past..... i kinda feel a little reserved about Christmas this year and just hoping things are going to be ok 
i feel sorry for the people around me this year i have a feeling they are going to have lots of pieces to pick up. | |
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JoweeCoco said: Basically sounds like everyday in my life.
awww Joe at least we got each other  In spite of the cost of living, it's still popular. |
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| I feel ya. I'm also broke this year (out of work for the past three months), and am just not feeling the holiday spirit. Usually, I get a live Christmas tree, but I'm probably not going to do that, because I don't have the money to spend on it.
Unemployment sucks, and what makes it worse is family and friends acting surprised because I haven't found a job yet, and acting like I can just get a job like that, overnight. I hate when people act like that, it just gets me even more frustrated and angry with my current situation. It's not easy to find a job nowadays, especially when the city you live in has a 12% unemployment rate. If the offenders (the people making these comments) were out of work and living here, they would change their tune in a hurry.   [Edited 11/26/04 11:02am] RIP, mom. I will forever miss and love you. | |
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Sweeny79 said: Usually Christmas in my favorite time of the year but lastnight I just got so depressed.
I'm having a lot of stress at work, my family is having "issues," I'm broke, and I'm lonely. I wish it was January. Anyone else feel me out there? Don't worry, you're not alone.
My door is always open, except between 2-4, on Sabbath or when I'm not home. Oh, and if I'm in the middle of  I also lock my door. | |
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lollyp0p said:
I kinda know what you mean, i've had alot of change this year in my life and this christmas is going to be totally different to any of the ones in the past..... i kinda feel a little reserved about Christmas this year and just hoping things are going to be ok
i feel sorry for the people around me this year i have a feeling they are going to have lots of pieces to pick up. That's exactly it Lolly! Change! this time last year I was in such a positive place, I changed so much about my life, how I saw it, who I allowed into it, what direction it was going. Things were looking up everything seemed so good! I had so much confidence in my self and where things were going, but now, a year later, things feel like they are at a stand still. I still have faith that I made the right decisions but I feel like I'm not doing enough and the walls are closing in on me. In spite of the cost of living, it's still popular. |
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psychodelicide said: I feel ya. I'm also broke this year (out of work for the past three months), and am just not feeling the holiday spirit. Usually, I get a live Christmas tree, but I'm probably not going to do that, because I don't have the money to spend on it.
Unemployment sucks, and what makes it worse is family and friends acting surprised because I haven't found a job yet, and acting like I can just get a job like that, overnight. I hate when people act like that, it just gets me even more frustrated and angry with my current situation. It's not easy to find a job nowadays, especially when the city you live in has a 12% unemployment rate. If the offenders (the people making these comments) were out of work and living here, they would change their tune in a hurry.
[Edited 11/26/04 11:02am] I know what you mean hon the economy is in the toilet now It's not your fault. In spite of the cost of living, it's still popular. |
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Heavenly said: Sweeny79 said: Usually Christmas in my favorite time of the year but lastnight I just got so depressed.
I'm having a lot of stress at work, my family is having "issues," I'm broke, and I'm lonely. I wish it was January. Anyone else feel me out there? Don't worry, you're not alone.
My door is always open, except between 2-4, on Sabbath or when I'm not home. Oh, and if I'm in the middle of I also lock my door. thanks sweets   In spite of the cost of living, it's still popular. |
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Double post edit [Edited 11/26/04 11:06am] RIP, mom. I will forever miss and love you. | |
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psychodelicide said: Sweeny79 said: I know, and unfortunately, with Bush in office for 4 more years, I can't see it changing anytime soon. 
I know what you mean hon the economy is in the toilet now It's not your fault.  I know In spite of the cost of living, it's still popular. |
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Sweeny79 said: Heavenly said: Don't worry, you're not alone.
My door is always open, except between 2-4, on Sabbath or when I'm not home. Oh, and if I'm in the middle of I also lock my door. thanks sweets But seriously, I'm almost with one foot in NY, so when I get there, if you ever need company, just ring-a-ding-a-ling and I'm always available. Except between 2-4, Sabbath and..... | |
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Heavenly said: Sweeny79 said: thanks sweets But seriously, I'm almost with one foot in NY, so when I get there, if you ever need company, just ring-a-ding-a-ling and I'm always available. Except between 2-4, Sabbath and..... you gotta give me a   In spite of the cost of living, it's still popular. |
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| ....Christmas is never a great time.....I get my lonely spells...My family as largely gone and "fragmented"...
....But there are those much worse off...on the other hand that doesn't make it any easier..... .....What I do is set my expectations low...stay off the alcohol....and anything good is a bonus..... ....There's always gonna be someone here at least to help raise a smile.... 
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Steadwood said: ....Christmas is never a great time.....I get my lonely spells...My family as largely gone and "fragmented"...
....But there are those much worse off...on the other hand that doesn't make it any easier..... .....What I do is set my expectations low...stay off the alcohol....and anything good is a bonus..... ....There's always gonna be someone here at least to help raise a smile....
Thanks Steadwood  
And I think you might be on to something, it IS about expectations In spite of the cost of living, it's still popular. |
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Sweeny79 said: JoweeCoco said: Basically sounds like everyday in my life.
awww Joe at least we got each other Now let's turn all the light off and just sit in the dark like good vampires!  | |
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JoweeCoco said: Sweeny79 said: awww Joe at least we got each other Now let's turn all the light off and just sit in the dark like good vampires! I'm way ahead of ya bro! :baresfangs:In spite of the cost of living, it's still popular. |
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Sweeny79 said: Usually Christmas is my favorite time of the year but lastnight I just got so depressed.
I'm having a lot of stress at work, my family is having "issues," I'm broke, and I'm lonely. I wish it was January. Anyone else feel me out there?
I know how you feel, I cant wait till the holidays are over. | |
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Sweeny79 said: Usually Christmas is my favorite time of the year but lastnight I just got so depressed.
I'm having a lot of stress at work, my family is having "issues," I'm broke, and I'm lonely. I wish it was January. Anyone else feel me out there?Awwwww..sweety!
You've made so many changes in your life this past year...maybe you're feel like you haven't done enough some how. It could be that because you made all those changes early on in the year it feels like you've stalled....but you've only come to a point now that is calmer. | |
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