- don't talk about ur ex's
- meet him somewhere (don't give exact address of ur home/work/hang outs, just in case you NEVER want 2 c him again) Plus if u r in ur own car u can cut the date short at any time.
- don't ask him about his $$ on the first date, or his car or houses etc etc
- don't ask about really personal things like bankruptcy LOL or child payments or baby mutha's LOL
- Try to think positive and b confident at all times because if u don't ur body language is going 2 send him negative messages and that looks unattractive (men like confident women!)
- Make sure u let him talk about himself and don't take over the conversation it should b 50/50
- Don't eat anything that makes a mess (Pasta, soups etc etc) if you get nervous and make a boo boo it might turn out 2 b really cute or really pathetic LOL
- Don't kiss on the first date!!!! give him something 2 work 4! maybe on the second date or 3rd u will-- but NOT THE FIRST!! LOL
- no NOOKY!!!!
- relax, have fun, talk about ur hobbies, childhood, career (NOT ur career goals!!!! u r not interviewing for him! LOL just talk about basic stuff that u do at work!)
- don't talk about having kids!!!!!
- don't talk about how his place is too boyish and "needs a feminine touch" LOL
(he's single -- his house is not going 2 look like ur place, boys r messy!!!)


that's it 4 now LOL HEHEHEHEHEHE

I agree with pretty much everything here, except for "Don't kiss on the first date...".

If I went in for a kiss and she backed-off, I would read this as a lack of interest and move on. Doesn't mean you have to taste each other's tonsils, but if he tries to kiss her and she refuses it either looks: (a) like she's not interested or (b) like she's prudish.

Oh man for gods sake don't do what I did on my first date ever back in the day....Don't yell out "Everybody have fun tonight!" then pull down your pants and wiggle around and yell "Everybody Wang Chung tonight!" I got kicked in my Wang Chung for that....On the way home I sang a different tune for sure..."Owner of some swollen balls" Sha boing boing

The one thing you have to always remember is that your date
is not all about pleasing and making the right impression on
the guy/girl.

Firstly you have to admit to yourself that you are quite an
ok catch and that you're worth every ounce of attention.

Don't go to your date attention-hungry and seeking for his or
her approval for anything that happens on the date or not.

After you've ensured yourself of your worth, all the other
things kick in, like no farting, no nonstop talking and
no spitting food etc etc etc

if you have to put on a load of airs and graces to make them like you, it isn't going to last. Be yourself and RELAX

never use the line "i won't be ignored". it's a turn off.

Don't know whether it has been said already, haven't read the whole thread.....but here's my advice:

don't talk too much about yourself!

My ex-girlfriend did this all the time and, unfortunately, this is what broke us up! Too bad, still think of her.....

abierman said:

this makes me absolutely INSANE.

PrimeraDama said:

I agree with pretty much everything here, except for "Don't kiss on the first date...".

If I went in for a kiss and she backed-off, I would read this as a lack of interest and move on. Doesn't mean you have to taste each other's tonsils, but if he tries to kiss her and she refuses it either looks: (a) like she's not interested or (b) like she's prudish.

Ace said:

Bad breath is a real turn off for me.

Or (c) the guy has really bad breath that smells like he hasn't brushed in a week. Bad breath is a real turn off for me.

psychodelicide said:

Offer him some gum or a mint. He'll get the hint.

Ace said:

Some guys just don't get it despite being given gum or a tic-tac.

Hotlegs said:

Then say, "Ya know, Bob: your breath is not good."

Is anybody ever bothered by silence? After about 10-15 mins of going back and forth on various topics, I think it's good to take a moment to build up the discussion, and not talk just to prove that you can. Some talkative people like to go on and on and on with stories and whatnot to the point that I get drained from listening and I just need a moment to take it all in. Sometimes the silence leads to a misinterpretation of interest.

don't talk too much and don't talk too little.