*ahem*

this is just my opinion ....but ummmm joey...everyone isn't secure in their sexuality.... and sometimes women and men alike are somewhat intimidated by their partner and/or their confusion with regard to what each opts to bring to the table and or expect from the encounter..... some find it akward to verbalize and talk about what they want ...need and expect sexually..... yet all the while still fall into some sort of submissive compliance . . .

and then there are others ..... who sexually challenge one another... i personally think communication and is key ...cuz there's still anotha group that may just lay there...they want to be dominated ....and "taken" tee hee...depends on the party and the playa's ....

Leave this to Dr. G. Toffee.

Leave this to Dr. G. Toffee.

It had to be said. It's a rare thing for a woman to come with just penetration and no clitoral stimulation. I'd wager no woman on earth genuinley ever came with just a dick between her tits.

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[This message was edited Mon Aug 16 10:39:41 2004 by Marrk]

Let's just say that because of some guys a lot of women assume that just giving up the pussy is enough for a guy to cum and that's why they don't even think of doing anything. They assume all guys are the same.

If a girl's not in the mood, she shouldn't fuck. Same goes for guys. Why fuck when you're not feeling it? Seriously, I don't get it.

some guys talk a lot of shit also.. then things get started and its not all "that".... U can coach all U want but if they ain't got skillz its not gonna do a damn bit of good... U can't tell em how to eat or lick it.. its gotta be a talent they already have....so to get them off maybe U gotta fake it a lill to help em so they can finish

some guys talk a lot of shit also.. then things get started and its not all "that".... U can coach all U want but if they ain't got skillz its not gonna do a damn bit of good... U can't tell em how to eat or lick it.. its gotta be a talent they already have....so to get them off maybe U gotta fake it a lill to help em so they can finish

That's bull, not all women like their pussy eaten the same way, just like they don't like the same sexual position or acts.

i know that... i was using it as an example.... but not all men are open to suggestions... they think they know they shit and they all that .....

i know that... i was using it as an example.... but not all men are open to suggestions... they think they know they shit and they all that .....

nawwwww kinna leavin with the CoCo popper on this one KD...i think that they like a suggestion or two it can all be under the guise of the freakiness of the moment and can then be engaged into prolonged foreplay....i think sometimes they want u to talk to 'em and guide 'em and kind of keep it interesting snicker'n (yeah dianne...i snickered ) but ummmm i think sometimes the weight of being the sexual dominant partner weighs heavy with men at times..... being that they are visual beings..... it can even prolong the duration cuz ummmm without motivation .... we can make them cum pretty quick...it then becomes our advantage to engage them and stimulate them to prolong their efforts .....

[color=indigo:1a2510c7a1]Alright CC hun here ya go! [/color]

[color=green:1a2510c7a1]Here are my thoughts about this...
A woman is "built" to adjust to size etc...the thing about a man and his size is that some women just get intimidated...their bodies can handle the size after a couple gentle thrusts...I just think women get freaked because a guy with a small one has been known to do some damage if he doesn't "work it" well...imagine what a guy with the extra bit could do if he doesn't know what he's doing...I also don't think women give those men enough credit...guys with larger members know they have to do things differently to help the women enjoy the size to the max and women don't take that into consideration when the see it...they just think of their bad experiences or are in shock to see that they have just found their own Ron Jeremy. They think..."THAT is going to be in me" and they don't realize that 9 times outta ten their vibrators are bigger or the same size...you have to be confident in the man...which you should be if you're looking at his member and ready to do the deed in the first place! Its just common sense...a women should know her body and if she does then she should know it can handle it...she's just gotta get over the intimidation part. Even if it hurts for the first little bit...the body will adjust to the size and if the guy is good at what he's doing it can be really awesome...that's why most vibrators are the size that they are cause bigger is better when it is done properly...hence, women will know what is good and what is bad when using their sex toy...they should give that same credit to a nice sized papi that he too knows how to handle his "toy"![/color]

nawwwww kinna leavin with the CoCo popper on this one KD...i think that they like a suggestion or two it can all be under the guise of the freakiness of the moment and can then be engaged into prolonged foreplay....i think sometimes they want u to talk to 'em and guide 'em and kind of keep it interesting snicker'n (yeah dianne...i snickered ) but ummmm i think sometimes the weight of being the sexual dominant partner weighs heavy with men at times..... being that they are visual beings..... it can even prolong the duration cuz ummmm without motivation .... we can make them cum pretty quick...it then becomes our advantage to engage them and stimulate them to prolong their efforts .....

if u can find ones that take suggestion cool.... experience n my case is they don't...

When I was still sleeping with guys, I had to tell this one that he could not eat coochie. I guess it hurt his feelings. He then proceeded to tell me that I could not give head and I shot him a look then he promptly took that lie back. Guys fuck up eating coochie on purpose cuz a lot of them don't want to do it but they want you to suck dick like you're trying to siphon gas out that motherfucker. I am not for trying to suggest a goddamn thing to men in bed. If they were so concerned, they would learn that shit on their own.

Shit, maybe that's why I haven't fucked a guy in four years.

if u can find ones that take suggestion cool.... experience n my case is they don't...

That's bull, not all women like their pussy eaten the same way, just like they don't like the same sexual position or acts.

When I was still sleeping with guys, I had to tell this one that he could not eat coochie. I guess it hurt his feelings. He then proceeded to tell me that I could not give head and I shot him a look then he promptly took that lie back. Guys fuck up eating coochie on purpose cuz a lot of them don't want to do it but they want you to suck dick like you're trying to siphon gas out that motherfucker. I am not for trying to suggest a goddamn thing to men in bed. If they were so concerned, they would learn that shit on their own.

Shit, maybe that's why I haven't fucked a guy in four years.

i know that... i was using it as an example.... but not all men are open to suggestions... they think they know they shit and they all that .....

Then stop fucking. Why would he take your advice if he's getting what he wants either way? Obviously he didn't give a shit about you, so don't give up the pussy, maybe then he'll finally get it.

if u can find ones that take suggestion cool.... experience n my case is they don't...

That's why I've stop fucking.

When I was still sleeping with guys, I had to tell this one that he could not eat coochie. I guess it hurt his feelings. He then proceeded to tell me that I could not give head and I shot him a look then he promptly took that lie back. Guys fuck up eating coochie on purpose cuz a lot of them don't want to do it but they want you to suck dick like you're trying to siphon gas out that motherfucker. I am not for trying to suggest a goddamn thing to men in bed. If they were so concerned, they would learn that shit on their own.

Shit, maybe that's why I haven't fucked a guy in four years.

i know that... i was using it as an example.... but not all men are open to suggestions... they think they know they shit and they all that .....