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For Those Of Us Who Have Made Real Connections Here...... The easy Org women/men thread had me thinking about stuff and I wanted to dedicate this thread to those of us who have made real life connections. Particularly to those of us on opposite ends of the country or on an entirely different continent. I have been fortunate/unfortunate to have made not one but two connections with two wonderful people here. It sucks that I can't be with either of them, but I am fortunate to have found someone I consider to be my soulmate.
To the other Orgers who are in the same boat, stymie knows your pain. | |
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It isn't easy. But when it's that strong and that real, it will work out.
Take comfort in knowing that others have made it work and are still doing so. You'll get there Ivy. | |
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TheOrgerFormerlyKnownAs said: The easy Org women/men thread had me thinking about stuff and I wanted to dedicate this thread to those of us who have made real life connections. Particularly to those of us on opposite ends of the country or on an entirely different continent. I have been fortunate/unfortunate to have made not one but two connections with two wonderful people here. It sucks that I can't be with either of them, but I am fortunate to have found someone I consider to be my soulmate.
To the other Orgers who are in the same boat, stymie knows your pain. PURRRRR Darin is close by... I loves me some of Stymie. You got Yahoo, lady? | |
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CookieMonster said: TheOrgerFormerlyKnownAs said: The easy Org women/men thread had me thinking about stuff and I wanted to dedicate this thread to those of us who have made real life connections. Particularly to those of us on opposite ends of the country or on an entirely different continent. I have been fortunate/unfortunate to have made not one but two connections with two wonderful people here. It sucks that I can't be with either of them, but I am fortunate to have found someone I consider to be my soulmate.
To the other Orgers who are in the same boat, stymie knows your pain. PURRRRR Darin is close by... I loves me some of Stymie. You got Yahoo, lady? | |
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ivy...i know we didnt get to talk about this at all in chicago...but i am in the same boat 
so i know what your going through too  
well both make it through.....we are strong women! and we need to remember that about ourselves....i know for my own self....i have gotten through a lot worse. i just gotta remember to stay positive....and know that things work themselves out.....and do happen how they are supposed to. 
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violett said: ivy...i know we didnt get to talk about this at all in chicago...but i am in the same boat
so i know what your going through too
well both make it through.....we are strong women! and we need to remember that about ourselves....i know for my own self....i have gotten through a lot worse. i just gotta remember to stay positive....and know that things work themselves out.....and do happen how they are supposed to. Sometimes you just need a good trannie to point that out! LMFAO!  | |
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TheOrgerFormerlyKnownAs said: CookieMonster said: You got Yahoo, lady? Yes. Well... | |
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GangstaFam said: violett said: ivy...i know we didnt get to talk about this at all in chicago...but i am in the same boat
so i know what your going through too
well both make it through.....we are strong women! and we need to remember that about ourselves....i know for my own self....i have gotten through a lot worse. i just gotta remember to stay positive....and know that things work themselves out.....and do happen how they are supposed to. Sometimes you just need a good trannie to point that out! LMFAO! Don't you ever forget that YOU ARE A WOMAN!!!!  | |
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TheOrgerFormerlyKnownAs said: The easy Org women/men thread had me thinking about stuff and I wanted to dedicate this thread to those of us who have made real life connections. Particularly to those of us on opposite ends of the country or on an entirely different continent. I have been fortunate/unfortunate to have made not one but two connections with two wonderful people here. It sucks that I can't be with either of them, but I am fortunate to have found someone I consider to be my soulmate.
To the other Orgers who are in the same boat, stymie knows your pain. Couldn't agree more...  | |
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I've done the long distance thing in the past and I know what a test it can be to keep it going and keep it fresh and current and close to what's going on in the rest of your life, but I also can't help but feeling that within that challenge is a certain level of closeness and appreciation that is completely unique to the situation.
To alla yez in that kind of a relationship right now, ya know, ain't nobody stupider than Cupid...if the little winged brat were smart, he'd aim arrows at someone down the block who would make the day-to-day aspect of a relationship a lot easier and logistically uncomplicated. But (un)fortunately, people are a little more complex than that, and we love who we love, location and all that other stuff be damned. It's all just part of the journey, though - and I know none of you believe for a moment that it's not worth it, and I know exactly what that feels like. Kinda wonderful and sad and stressy and calming, all in the same frustratingly wonderful bundle. I wish you all the absolute best. | |
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Anxiety said: I've done the long distance thing in the past and I know what a test it can be to keep it going and keep it fresh and current and close to what's going on in the rest of your life, but I also can't help but feeling that within that challenge is a certain level of closeness and appreciation that is completely unique to the situation.
To alla yez in that kind of a relationship right now, ya know, ain't nobody stupider than Cupid...if the little winged brat were smart, he'd aim arrows at someone down the block who would make the day-to-day aspect of a relationship a lot easier and logistically uncomplicated. But (un)fortunately, people are a little more complex than that, and we love who we love, location and all that other stuff be damned. It's all just part of the journey, though - and I know none of you believe for a moment that it's not worth it, and I know exactly what that feels like. Kinda wonderful and sad and stressy and calming, all in the same frustratingly wonderful bundle. I wish you all the absolute best. chris...you are soo awesome. thank you.
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GangstaFam said: violett said: ivy...i know we didnt get to talk about this at all in chicago...but i am in the same boat
so i know what your going through too
well both make it through.....we are strong women! and we need to remember that about ourselves....i know for my own self....i have gotten through a lot worse. i just gotta remember to stay positive....and know that things work themselves out.....and do happen how they are supposed to. Sometimes you just need a good trannie to point that out! LMFAO! LOL!!!
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Anxiety said: GangstaFam said: Sometimes you just need a good trannie to point that out! LMFAO! Don't you ever forget that YOU ARE A WOMAN!!!! LOL and!!! that i am the one whos wearing the pants...because i can have children! 
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sucks, don't it?
welcome to my hellPower tends to corrupt; absolute power corrupts absolutely. - Lord Acton | |
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TheOrgerFormerlyKnownAs said: I wanted to dedicate this thread to those of us who have made real life connections. Particularly to those of us on opposite ends of the country or on an entirely different continent.
That's why we need to stop fooling around and get a house!! | |
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2the9s said: TheOrgerFormerlyKnownAs said: I wanted to dedicate this thread to those of us who have made real life connections. Particularly to those of us on opposite ends of the country or on an entirely different continent.
That's why we need to stop fooling around and get a house!! my sentiments exactly | |
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Milty said: 2the9s said: That's why we need to stop fooling around and get a house!! my sentiments exactly I mean I understand the reservations some might have, but you need to play past them! We could at least get a time-share or some shit! | |
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violett said: Anxiety said: Don't you ever forget that YOU ARE A WOMAN!!!! LOL and!!! that i am the one whos wearing the pants...because i can have children! "Honey, I'm set. I think you're the one that needs to be worried." | |
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GangstaFam said: violett said: LOL and!!! that i am the one whos wearing the pants...because i can have children! "Honey, I'm set. I think you're the one that needs to be worried." 
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Anxiety said: ...within that challenge is a certain level of closeness and appreciation that is completely unique to the situation
So true
Anxiety said: ...It's all just part of the journey, though...wonderful and sad and stressy and calming, all in the same frustratingly wonderful bundle.
Again, so true. This thread came at a time of need...thanks to you TOFKA  and to all | |
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2the9s said: Milty said: my sentiments exactly I mean I understand the reservations some might have, but you need to play past them! We could at least get a time-share or some shit! Yeah, we could do a summer thing. Rent out one big place and maybe make it into a reality show,  . | |
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theVelvetRoper said: 2the9s said: I mean I understand the reservations some might have, but you need to play past them! We could at least get a time-share or some shit! Yeah, we could do a summer thing. Rent out one big place and maybe make it into a reality show, .Yeah! I wouldn't wanna do a cross country trip in an RV or anything, but hey! Time's a wasting! | |
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TheOrgerFormerlyKnownAs said: The easy Org women/men thread had me thinking about stuff and I wanted to dedicate this thread to those of us who have made real life connections. Particularly to those of us on opposite ends of the country or on an entirely different continent. I have been fortunate/unfortunate to have made not one but two connections with two wonderful people here. It sucks that I can't be with either of them, but I am fortunate to have found someone I consider to be my soulmate.
To the other Orgers who are in the same boat, stymie knows your pain. You express my feelings pretty exactly Stymie, you are a great person in every way.
And to my soul mates in this place, all the love in the world | |
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Thing is, the 'relationships' don't have to last forever, and don't have to even be relationships in the typical sense to be worthwhile. Some orgers love to meet other orgers and have a good time, while others never get this chance and indeed may never wish to. Ultimately, connections can be made, and fun had, in brief encounters on this website. I've smiled a million times because of this place. There are several people that I love to bits without ever having met them - gooey, starkitty, red, kdowney, rockininreno - to name just a few. Those are real connections and so worthwhile if they make u happy. If I never meet these people I'll not feel bad, but there's enough care and concern in one person to allow u to care about their well-being and still live your 'real' life outside of the org. That's the beauty of it for me. | |
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Internet "relationships", for me... suck. I've had one and I wish I'd never have gone there. Friendships... I'm thankful for and wish that I'd one day meet those that have become my friend. | |
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Also, while I'm here, I have a wife and I sometimes wonder about the time I spend on this site. But, if it makes me sad or pathetic or whatever to care about people here then label me as such. There are some great people here and I wish all the best for (nearly) all of them.
Time to plant some flowers and sing songs to the trees. | |
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NoodleSoup said: Also, while I'm here, I have a wife and I sometimes wonder about the time I spend on this site. But, if it makes me sad or pathetic or whatever to care about people here then label me as such. There are some great people here and I wish all the best for (nearly) all of them.
Time to plant some flowers and sing songs to the trees. Does your wife ever resent your computer for the time you spend on it? | |
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