Some men don't like that.

Hey, wanna go out for a dinner and a movie, maybe some dancing and who knows what else?

luv4u said:

Sounds good to me.The who knows what else leaves lots of options open...
(if i was to say that i'd see the mace can rushin' me)

crazyhorse said:

If we hit if off then who needs a mace can. Besides I am not dangerous, honest.

Never ask a woman out.

I seem to enjoy asking men out, that is usually how I find my boyfriends, men that ask me out doesnt usually seem to work out in the long run for me, maybe that says something about my personality

J0eyC0c0 said:

Then you agree that it gives a huge advantage?

J0eyC0c0 said:

Bad experience???

crazyhorse said:

A lot of women abuse the luxury position they're in of having men asking them out on a regular basis. If they really want you, they'll come to you eventually. Ofcourse this won't work if all the guys start taking my advice, but I'm sure there will always be plenty of horndawgs out there who can't resist chasing women.

J0eyC0c0 said:

That's a hard thing to do when some lady catches your eye that is just foxy as hell.I think I enjoy the challenge of it.Most dudes are afraid of the rejection and how harsh it's gonna be.That never bothered me.Now that I think about it, each time I was the one getting asked out it turned into a relationship.When I did the asking it was a one night stand almost all of the time.Might be on to something here.....

crazyhorse said:

You just got to make it clear from the beginning that you are not interested in one night stands. Some women want one night stands and so do some men. So women and men have to make it clear to the other person. Communication is the key.

crazyhorse said:

Stop taking advice from your dick.



There ya go.

luv4u said:

Who said I wasnt intrested? I'm a big fan of the one night stand if I'm in the mood.

But being clear about it isnt gonna get you there lol."Hello, umm yes excuse me. I'm such n such, and this is my mac. We'll go out and do so n so, eat that n that. And when the nights over I wanna see you on your back. Oh and by the way, I'll be gone when you wake up and I'm never comin' back."
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I dont like to waste time so I just go straight for the kill

It will be like, "So baby... you wanna fuck or what?"

crazyhorse said:

you should get that on a t-shirt.

see where it gets you.

starkitty said:

there's that venom again.

crazyhorse said:

it was a little venomous at first, but really, i bet some girls would be down.

(would you have me any other way?)

I have no problem asking a guy out...sometimes they are just shy or afraid of being rejected. BUT...when you go on subsequent dates and have to keep asking the guy out...fahgetaboutit! That sucks!

starkitty said:

be down for what? some fool in a shirt that say's that, lol.
hell no wouldnt want ya any other way. that venom is part of your character.

crazyhorse said:

ain't the (sad, sad) truth

I am incredibly shy when it comes to "dating", but I'm not sure why cause when I finally do get the courage to tell a guy I fancy him and ask him out I don't think I've ever been turned down. Not that I can recall anyway.
Now, when it comes to one night stands, that's a different story. For some reason I have no problem asking for exactly what I want. It's when I actually really think I like someone that I get all freaked out about it.
I think I'm wired a little backwards.

I always seem to be the one who asks. I've had a few girls ask me out.....I must admit that it's really nice to be asked out for a change.

CarrieMpls said:

Not really. It's normal to be more afraid of getting turned down by someone you actually like as opposed to someone you just want to lay. There's more weight attached to it.
[This message was edited Fri Jul 2 16:22:10 2004 by VoicesCarry]

VoicesCarry said:

CokeJohnson said:

stop pulling my pigtails, coke.

recess is over.