My thoughts on all of this are that everyone is entitled to their own opinion, but I've been attacked personally by certain people on this site which has caused me to disrespect some peoples opinions. If you're going to disrespect me and my opinion when you don't even know me, expect it right back.

JANFAN4L said:

I think you guys misunderstood what I was saying. Of course, we love to see educated, artististic, successful black women....I was saying that MANY black women try to live up to the "strong, black woman" image, and have found themselves depressed, etc. and some aren't surviving.

But back to the Janet threads, posts, etc....we go through this anytime an artist releases a cd that many people are into. We've had the R.Kelley threads, the MJ threads, etc. Janet is in the news.....lets talk about her.

theVelvetRoper said:

are you talking about the 1 star threads? because ive looked that over and for the life of me cant figure why you feel its a personal attack against you?

sosgemini said:

Actually, a few of the posts about me were edited in other threads, but, yes, I do take it personally when people are mentioning my and JanFan's name and putting words in our mouths when you don't even know us.

theVelvetRoper said:

thanks for clarifying the situation.... "communication" is important....