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NikkiVail

Q & A with R. Kelly

By Soren Baker

CHICAGO (Billboard) - R. Kelly's biggest hit was the inspirational, Grammy Award-winning "I Believe I Can Fly." But for his life outside music, the Chicago-based singer-songwriter-producer may be grounded for good.



Kelly, whose given name is Robert Kelly, was indicted in June 2002 on 21 counts of child pornography after a videotape surfaced that allegedly showed the singer performing sex acts with an underage girl.


Kelly was arrested at his home in Florida hours after the indictment and released on bond soon thereafter, but his court problems have not affected his productivity. In February he released the critically acclaimed, double-platinum "Chocolate Factory" album; he has penned hits for a multitude of other acts within the past year, including the Isley Brothers, JS, Ginuwine and B2K.


Next up is Kelly's first greatest-hits collection, "The R. in R&B Collection Volume 1"; it is due Sept. 23 from Jive, his longtime label. The set includes Kelly's single, "Thoia Thoing," currently bulleted at No. 8 on the Billboard Hot R&B/Hip-Hop Singles & Tracks chart. On Oct. 21, the package's companion DVD, "R in R&B -- The Video Collection," will be released.


Kelly sat down with Billboard in his Rock Land Studios in Chicago to talk about his music, his legal predicaments and his life.


Q: You told BET last year that you had not seen the tape that allegedly shows you having sex with an underage girl. Have you seen now?


A: I can't get into the specifics of that, man. I got this trial coming up, and I don't want to take no chances.


Q: Do you have a problem with women?


A: No one takes advantage of anybody. People are old enough to know what it is they want and what they don't want. The phrase is, "It's easy to get them." No, it's hard to get them off you. That's really what it is with me and probably a lot of other celebrities because of the fact of who you are.


You walk into a club, and you can't even get to your seat without women grabbing you. Nowadays, they don't just grab your arm. They grab you in all kinds of places. You wouldn't even believe. It's like going through a war zone trying to just get to your seat sometimes. You've got to leave out the back door. It used to be a point where you would come in the back door, sneak to the VIP section and everything is cool. Now everybody knows somebody that can get them in that back door.


Q: You are up on multiple sex-related charges, and you have been releasing a number of sexual songs, such as "Ignition." Why not shy away from that?


A: People have to understand that this is my job. This is what I do. And because of it, not only have I been able to eat for 15 years, but there's a lot of people, not in just my record company but kids in other cities, kids in hospitals that have been able to eat because of my songs, because I decided to write songs and because I continued to write. I feel good about that.


Q: Plus, with the charges against you, you still put a lot of sexual imagery in your videos. Why do that?


A: I wish people could just know me as a person. If people knew Robert and weren't concentrating on what they see on the video, my alter ego with a cigar in his mouth, a drink in his hand and women around him -- that's placement. It's no different than when you go to a Broadway show and you see all the glitter and glamour, all the costumes. That is not those people when they come off the stage.


Q: But you have toned down your stage show, which was pretty graphic. Why?


A: That's just respect the situation. You've got parents in the audience and some kids that slip in, and because of what's going on, it would be disrespectful. There's a line that you draw when you're dealing with things like this. I'm not going to be as into my music per se as I am usually, because you want people to have a good time. Even though that's going to be on their mind, you want to try to take it off their mind as much as you can.


Even before all of this came out, I had cleaned up my show. If you look at the last tour that I had, even before this came out, the show is a lot cleaner. That's just all a part of growing.





Q: You have been quite prolific, despite your legal predicament. Why put out so much material now?

A: I'm just writing these songs and trying to stay popular, trying to keep people seeing that I'm OK. But sometimes it's an act. Sometimes I really am OK, because I might get inspired by my fans calling here and crying, asking if I'm OK, saying, "We love you. We're praying for you." I've got so much mail it's unbelievable.

Q: Throughout your career, you have also been able to write convincingly for women, including JS and Syleena Johnson. How do you do that?

A: I've seen my mom go through a lot when it came to my stepfather and me. I've seen my sister go through a lot. I grew up in a house full of women, with my grandmother and all of them, and I always clung to them. They'd have me standing on the table singing for everybody, and I was real close to them.

In all of that, I've had relationships in the past where I may have done a woman wrong, cheated on her, lied to her, and she left me and I was so hurt. I took that hurt and it turned into sorrow, and that sorrow became passion. I began writing about past relationships that didn't go too well. I wrote about it, but I decided to write about it from the woman's perspective and let the woman shine during the song, where I'm the wrong one, you're the right one. That's how we men do . We get into the whole pride thing, and we allow our pride to take over our reality and lash out at them, knowing they're right. Sometimes they let us do that because that's how much they love us. I just took that whole thing and turned it into music.

Q: How has your wife handled your legal situation?

A: Just as any relationship, you have your ups and downs, your cries, your laughs. In this particular situation, my wife has been very strong. All of this of course hurts, to see people dogging or lashing out and being negative toward someone that she's in love with and supports 1 million percent. But at the same time, she knows who I am, and that's her comfort. She's incredible.

Q: Some of your music has become increasingly spiritual in the past few years. Are you going to church more often?

A: I didn't want people to think that this is something that I'm just starting to do because of the hoopla. I've been going to church for really all my life, but especially since I've been in the business and I saw what the business had to offer other than just money, a record deal, a car and a home. The drugs, the women, the drinks, the parties. Some of those things scared me, because it's very easy for you to go into those things when you're successful. Everything just comes at you. What makes it so bad it's all for free. You don't have to even pay for it because of who you are. It just makes it that much easier to get hooked or get caught up.

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Reply #1 posted 09/20/03 4:55am

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Q:pampers or kimbies?
"Climb in my fur."
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Reply #2 posted 09/20/03 4:59am

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Q: Gerber or Beachnut?
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Q: Hasbro or Fisher Price?
"Climb in my fur."
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Q: Osh Kosh B'Gosh or Gar-Animals?
"Climb in my fur."
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Anxiety

Q: Zwieback or Similac?
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Reply #6 posted 09/20/03 7:29am

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A: No one takes advantage of anybody. People are old enough to know what it is they want and what they don't want. The phrase is, "It's easy to get them." No, it's hard to get them off you.


And when they're NOT old enough - what then??? disbelief
heart prince I never met you, but I LOVE you & I will forever!! Thank you for being YOU - my little Princey, the best to EVER do it prince heart
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Reply #7 posted 09/20/03 8:28am

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Pervert.
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I'm a sucker for a major chord
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Reply #8 posted 09/20/03 3:45pm

mistermaxxx

Musically I'm down for Life.I don't know the cat&like everyone else He has His Issues.but Musically He is the King to Me.
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Reply #9 posted 09/20/03 4:04pm

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"like everyone else He has his Issues"


No,it's NOT like everyone else! Everyone else does not have sex with underage children.Everyone else does not piss on fourteen-year old girls.Everyone else does not make porno videos featuring underage children.I don't see how you can easily dismiss his behavior by referring to it as just having "issues".Unless,of course,you don't think there's anything wrong with molesting children?


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Reply #10 posted 09/20/03 10:42pm

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They better lock him up if they don't want some parent to try their own form of vigilante justice on him.
This post not for the wimp contingent. All whiny wusses avert your eyes.
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Reply #11 posted 09/20/03 10:47pm

mistermaxxx

I'm a Big fan of His Music&don't Condone His Behavior.but I refuse to watch any Video.that's something I won't do.I'll always Buy His Music though.I only Know His Music.I don't know Him Personally.I'm not God so I refuse to Judge.I worry about my ownself getting to Heaven.I Pray for Brother Kelly the Man.as a Artist He got that special "Gift" at Music Making.
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Reply #12 posted 09/20/03 10:56pm

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mistermaxxx said:

I'm a Big fan of His Music&don't Condone His Behavior.but I refuse to watch any Video.that's something I won't do.I'll always Buy His Music though.I only Know His Music.I don't know Him Personally.I'm not God so I refuse to Judge.I worry about my ownself getting to Heaven.I Pray for Brother Kelly the Man.as a Artist He got that special "Gift" at Music Making.

Its funny how u turn this blind and forgiving eye to r. kelly but on other sites u have no problem blasting Prince and his behavior.
"Climb in my fur."
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Reply #13 posted 09/20/03 11:02pm

mistermaxxx

rdhull said:

mistermaxxx said:

I'm a Big fan of His Music&don't Condone His Behavior.but I refuse to watch any Video.that's something I won't do.I'll always Buy His Music though.I only Know His Music.I don't know Him Personally.I'm not God so I refuse to Judge.I worry about my ownself getting to Heaven.I Pray for Brother Kelly the Man.as a Artist He got that special "Gift" at Music Making.

Its funny how u turn this blind and forgiving eye to r. kelly but on other sites u have no problem blasting Prince and his behavior.
I only knock Prince on His Music nothing Personal.and also I did say if you read me above that I Don't Condone R's Behavior that I only dig His Music.that I can seperate the Man&the Music.I Know I'm not the Only R.Kelly Fan up in here but I'm the Only who will give the Brother Support as a Artist.but I have Never Condoned His Behavior all the way back to the days of Aaliyah.I'll always Champion His Music though.
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Reply #14 posted 09/20/03 11:04pm

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mistermaxxx said:

rdhull said:

mistermaxxx said:

I'm a Big fan of His Music&don't Condone His Behavior.but I refuse to watch any Video.that's something I won't do.I'll always Buy His Music though.I only Know His Music.I don't know Him Personally.I'm not God so I refuse to Judge.I worry about my ownself getting to Heaven.I Pray for Brother Kelly the Man.as a Artist He got that special "Gift" at Music Making.

Its funny how u turn this blind and forgiving eye to r. kelly but on other sites u have no problem blasting Prince and his behavior.
I only knock Prince on His Music nothing Personal.and also I did say if you read me above that I Don't Condone R's Behavior that I only dig His Music.that I can seperate the Man&the Music.I Know I'm not the Only R.Kelly Fan up in here but I'm the Only who will give the Brother Support as a Artist.but I have Never Condoned His Behavior all the way back to the days of Aaliyah.I'll always Champion His Music though.



but you brush it aside as "he has issues" ...
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Reply #15 posted 09/20/03 11:08pm

mistermaxxx

AaronMaximus said:

mistermaxxx said:

rdhull said:

mistermaxxx said:

I'm a Big fan of His Music&don't Condone His Behavior.but I refuse to watch any Video.that's something I won't do.I'll always Buy His Music though.I only Know His Music.I don't know Him Personally.I'm not God so I refuse to Judge.I worry about my ownself getting to Heaven.I Pray for Brother Kelly the Man.as a Artist He got that special "Gift" at Music Making.

Its funny how u turn this blind and forgiving eye to r. kelly but on other sites u have no problem blasting Prince and his behavior.
I only knock Prince on His Music nothing Personal.and also I did say if you read me above that I Don't Condone R's Behavior that I only dig His Music.that I can seperate the Man&the Music.I Know I'm not the Only R.Kelly Fan up in here but I'm the Only who will give the Brother Support as a Artist.but I have Never Condoned His Behavior all the way back to the days of Aaliyah.I'll always Champion His Music though.



but you brush it aside as "he has issues" ...
if I was to Hold something against everyone in the Indsutry because of something then my collection would be Bare&I'd be a whole lot Richer.You Can Acknowledge someone with Issues&Still Respect there Gift.
mistermaxxx
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Reply #16 posted 09/20/03 11:09pm

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mistermaxxx said:

AaronMaximus said:

mistermaxxx said:

rdhull said:

mistermaxxx said:

I'm a Big fan of His Music&don't Condone His Behavior.but I refuse to watch any Video.that's something I won't do.I'll always Buy His Music though.I only Know His Music.I don't know Him Personally.I'm not God so I refuse to Judge.I worry about my ownself getting to Heaven.I Pray for Brother Kelly the Man.as a Artist He got that special "Gift" at Music Making.

Its funny how u turn this blind and forgiving eye to r. kelly but on other sites u have no problem blasting Prince and his behavior.
I only knock Prince on His Music nothing Personal.and also I did say if you read me above that I Don't Condone R's Behavior that I only dig His Music.that I can seperate the Man&the Music.I Know I'm not the Only R.Kelly Fan up in here but I'm the Only who will give the Brother Support as a Artist.but I have Never Condoned His Behavior all the way back to the days of Aaliyah.I'll always Champion His Music though.



but you brush it aside as "he has issues" ...
if I was to Hold something against everyone in the Indsutry because of something then my collection would be Bare&I'd be a whole lot Richer.You Can Acknowledge someone with Issues&Still Respect there Gift.



shrug which means you can finance pedophelia, by buying the guy's records.
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Reply #17 posted 09/20/03 11:14pm

mistermaxxx

AaronMaximus said:

mistermaxxx said:

AaronMaximus said:

mistermaxxx said:

rdhull said:

mistermaxxx said:

I'm a Big fan of His Music&don't Condone His Behavior.but I refuse to watch any Video.that's something I won't do.I'll always Buy His Music though.I only Know His Music.I don't know Him Personally.I'm not God so I refuse to Judge.I worry about my ownself getting to Heaven.I Pray for Brother Kelly the Man.as a Artist He got that special "Gift" at Music Making.

Its funny how u turn this blind and forgiving eye to r. kelly but on other sites u have no problem blasting Prince and his behavior.
I only knock Prince on His Music nothing Personal.and also I did say if you read me above that I Don't Condone R's Behavior that I only dig His Music.that I can seperate the Man&the Music.I Know I'm not the Only R.Kelly Fan up in here but I'm the Only who will give the Brother Support as a Artist.but I have Never Condoned His Behavior all the way back to the days of Aaliyah.I'll always Champion His Music though.



but you brush it aside as "he has issues" ...
if I was to Hold something against everyone in the Indsutry because of something then my collection would be Bare&I'd be a whole lot Richer.You Can Acknowledge someone with Issues&Still Respect there Gift.



shrug which means you can finance pedophelia, by buying the guy's records.
He hasn't Been found Guilty of anything.I beleive in Kobe's Innocence as well also OJ Simpson,I believe Michael Jackson was framed as well as Mike Tyson.in other Words I'm Very Pro-Black&don't trust the Legal System.I'll conclude on that Note.Peace
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Reply #18 posted 09/20/03 11:20pm

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mistermaxxx said:

AaronMaximus said:

mistermaxxx said:

AaronMaximus said:

mistermaxxx said:

rdhull said:

mistermaxxx said:

I'm a Big fan of His Music&don't Condone His Behavior.but I refuse to watch any Video.that's something I won't do.I'll always Buy His Music though.I only Know His Music.I don't know Him Personally.I'm not God so I refuse to Judge.I worry about my ownself getting to Heaven.I Pray for Brother Kelly the Man.as a Artist He got that special "Gift" at Music Making.

Its funny how u turn this blind and forgiving eye to r. kelly but on other sites u have no problem blasting Prince and his behavior.
I only knock Prince on His Music nothing Personal.and also I did say if you read me above that I Don't Condone R's Behavior that I only dig His Music.that I can seperate the Man&the Music.I Know I'm not the Only R.Kelly Fan up in here but I'm the Only who will give the Brother Support as a Artist.but I have Never Condoned His Behavior all the way back to the days of Aaliyah.I'll always Champion His Music though.



but you brush it aside as "he has issues" ...
if I was to Hold something against everyone in the Indsutry because of something then my collection would be Bare&I'd be a whole lot Richer.You Can Acknowledge someone with Issues&Still Respect there Gift.



shrug which means you can finance pedophelia, by buying the guy's records.
He hasn't Been found Guilty of anything.I beleive in Kobe's Innocence as well also OJ Simpson,I believe Michael Jackson was framed as well as Mike Tyson.in other Words I'm Very Pro-Black&don't trust the Legal System.I'll conclude on that Note.Peace




just because they're black doesn't mean they're innocent. because the system is unfair to poor blacks, rich blacks with better access to a very good legal defense than most whites should go free even when guilty?
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Reply #19 posted 09/20/03 11:21pm

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i mean, the guy fucking video-taped it. ya know?
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Reply #20 posted 09/20/03 11:56pm

Anxiety

R. Kelly is a shameless pig, he knows it, his fans know it, and he makes money off that fact with every smutty sex song he releases after that whole videotape scandal surfaced. "Heaven I Need A Hug" - what a crock. He should call his next album "Stranger With Candy".
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Reply #21 posted 09/21/03 12:10am

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The Pied Piper said...

A: People have to understand that this is my job. This is what I do. And because of it, not only have I been able to eat for 15 years, but there's a lot of people, not in just my record company but kids in other cities, kids in hospitals that have been able to eat because of my songs, because I decided to write songs and because I continued to write. I feel good about that.

this is just fucked up right here...i can see the testimonials now:

"thanx to 'sex me' and 'feelin' on your booty', my little timmy can eat now!!!"

come the hell on, now... disbelief
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Reply #22 posted 09/21/03 12:18am

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Handclapsfingasnapz said:

The Pied Piper said...

A: People have to understand that this is my job. This is what I do. And because of it, not only have I been able to eat for 15 years, but there's a lot of people, not in just my record company but kids in other cities, kids in hospitals that have been able to eat because of my songs, because I decided to write songs and because I continued to write. I feel good about that.

this is just fucked up right here...i can see the testimonials now:

"thanx to 'sex me' and 'feelin' on your booty', my little timmy can eat now!!!"

come the hell on, now... disbelief


lol
"Climb in my fur."
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Reply #23 posted 09/21/03 12:19am

Chico319

Anxiety said:

R. Kelly is a shameless pig, he knows it, his fans know it, and he makes money off that fact with every smutty sex song he releases after that whole videotape scandal surfaced. "Heaven I Need A Hug" - what a crock. He should call his next album "Stranger With Candy".



:LOL: falloff falloff
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Reply #24 posted 09/21/03 12:20am

Chico319

rdhull said:

Handclapsfingasnapz said:

The Pied Piper said...

A: People have to understand that this is my job. This is what I do. And because of it, not only have I been able to eat for 15 years, but there's a lot of people, not in just my record company but kids in other cities, kids in hospitals that have been able to eat because of my songs, because I decided to write songs and because I continued to write. I feel good about that.

this is just fucked up right here...i can see the testimonials now:

"thanx to 'sex me' and 'feelin' on your booty', my little timmy can eat now!!!"

come the hell on, now... disbelief


lol



Ditto! falloff
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Reply #25 posted 09/21/03 12:29am

AaronMaximus

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are you fuckin kiddin me!?
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Reply #26 posted 09/21/03 4:12am

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mistermaxxx said:

He hasn't Been found Guilty of anything.I beleive in Kobe's Innocence as well also OJ Simpson,I believe Michael Jackson was framed as well as Mike Tyson.in other Words I'm Very Pro-Black&don't trust the Legal System.I'll conclude on that Note.Peace


omfg disbelief omfg disbelief omfg disbelief omfg

This is the type of shit that makes Black people look irrational & overly emotional. sad Let me just clarify that "pro-Black" & "anti-common sense" DO NOT go together (except in this dude's case). Good Lord... disbelief

With the exception of Kobe, ALL these muthafuckas are guilty - & I'm Black so don't come for me lol
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Reply #27 posted 09/21/03 6:22am

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if these girls in the videos were white...would it make a difference?


thought to ponder...



ps..(please exclude the hilton sisters...i think everyone *and* their mother wants to see them two pissed on)...
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Reply #28 posted 09/21/03 6:33am

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mad ( :Shut up, Robert!: ) hmph!
"...lay out my cushion of silk, don't rumple my fur!"
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