SoulAlive said:

missfee said:

Classic reason to date someone long enough to get an idea of who they are. I understand that sometimes you date people and then they seem to really show their true colors after you put a ring on it, but I'm a firm believer in date, date, and date more to be sure as much as possible that you know what you are getting yourself into before signing your life over to them and procreating.

Exactly.Or,to make things easier,don't get married at all Just be a "couple",but don't make it official.Oprah has been with Stedman for decades and they're still together.

Also Goldie Hawn and Kurt Russell.

Timmy84 said:

missfee said:

Classic reason to date someone long enough to get an idea of who they are. I understand that sometimes you date people and then they seem to really show their true colors after you put a ring on it, but I'm a firm believer in date, date, and date more to be sure as much as possible that you know what you are getting yourself into before signing your life over to them and procreating.

[Edited 5/23/12 12:38pm]

Yeah. That's probably why I'll turn off of marriage. You have to know what you're getting into and what that person maybe. People just love to spring into a relationship and marriage like it's a game. And it's a game because if both parties don't play right, they'll get burnt.

Usher reminds me of Britney in a certain way when it comes to relationships and the idea of being in love rather than just being in love. Fortunately for the latter she finally found someone genuine but for the longest time both of them would cling to anybody just to say they have somebody. You know, I'll get married just to say I have a wife/husband. Not the way to do it.

Jennifer Lopez is very similar as well. It's like she HAS TO have a man. It's a requirement. She could never be single.

musicjunky318 said:

Timmy84 said:

Yeah. That's probably why I'll turn off of marriage. You have to know what you're getting into and what that person maybe. People just love to spring into a relationship and marriage like it's a game. And it's a game because if both parties don't play right, they'll get burnt.

Usher reminds me of Britney in a certain way when it comes to relationships and the idea of being in love rather than just being in love. Fortunately for the latter she finally found someone genuine but for the longest time both of them would cling to anybody just to say they have somebody. You know, I'll get married just to say I have a wife/husband. Not the way to do it.

Jennifer Lopez is very similar as well. It's like she HAS TO have a man. It's a requirement. She could never be single.

True.

Something always happen to Usher before a album release.

musicjunky318 said:

Timmy84 said:

Yeah. That's probably why I'll turn off of marriage. You have to know what you're getting into and what that person maybe. People just love to spring into a relationship and marriage like it's a game. And it's a game because if both parties don't play right, they'll get burnt.

Usher reminds me of Britney in a certain way when it comes to relationships and the idea of being in love rather than just being in love. Fortunately for the latter she finally found someone genuine but for the longest time both of them would cling to anybody just to say they have somebody. You know, I'll get married just to say I have a wife/husband. Not the way to do it.

Jennifer Lopez is very similar as well. It's like she HAS TO have a man. It's a requirement. She could never be single.

I agree! Jennifer Lopez acts like she would DIE if she doesn't have a love interest every moment of her life.When one relationship ends,there is always someone else,right there to fill the void.She never allows herself a chance to 'get over' the previous relationship.I don't understand why so many people can't just stay single for awhile.They rush into marriage like it's going out of style,lol.And of course,these marriages never last.

babybugz said:

Something always happen to Usher before a album release.

It's quite ironic, ain't it?

SoulAlive said:

musicjunky318 said:

Usher reminds me of Britney in a certain way when it comes to relationships and the idea of being in love rather than just being in love. Fortunately for the latter she finally found someone genuine but for the longest time both of them would cling to anybody just to say they have somebody. You know, I'll get married just to say I have a wife/husband. Not the way to do it.

Jennifer Lopez is very similar as well. It's like she HAS TO have a man. It's a requirement. She could never be single.

I agree! Jennifer Lopez acts like she would DIE if she doesn't have a love interest every moment of her life.When one relationship ends,there is always someone else,right there to fill the void.She never allows herself a chance to 'get over' the previous relationship.I don't understand why so many people can't just stay single for awhile.They rush into marriage like it's going out of style,lol.And of course,these marriages never last.

In a way, you could look at it as her being needy. She has to have a man, any man, by her side, she doesn't know how to be alone. Thus makes her a needy woman.

Women who go from man to man to man to man and never take a break; I swear sooner or later they walk up somebody that's a woman beater. I have not seen this not happen yet... I don't now what that's all about, just an observation.

Jlo should know better. SHe just likes being a sugar mama.

smoothcriminal12 said:

SOFT ASS NUCCA

BITCH MADE NUCCA

MAMA'S BOY NUCCA

STILL-SLEEP-IN-THE-BED-WITH-MY-TEDDY-ASS-NUCCA

I laughed at this then totally felt ashamed after.

Dren5 said:

smoothcriminal12 said:

SOFT ASS NUCCA

BITCH MADE NUCCA

MAMA'S BOY NUCCA

STILL-SLEEP-IN-THE-BED-WITH-MY-TEDDY-ASS-NUCCA

I laughed at this then totally felt ashamed after.

Yeah....

I'm still not ashamed yet.

missfee said:

SoulAlive said:

I agree! Jennifer Lopez acts like she would DIE if she doesn't have a love interest every moment of her life.When one relationship ends,there is always someone else,right there to fill the void.She never allows herself a chance to 'get over' the previous relationship.I don't understand why so many people can't just stay single for awhile.They rush into marriage like it's going out of style,lol.And of course,these marriages never last.

In a way, you could look at it as her being needy. She has to have a man, any man, by her side, she doesn't know how to be alone. Thus makes her a needy woman.

either that,or she has low self-esteem.

Yep at this point

smoothcriminal12 said:

Dren5 said:

I laughed at this then totally felt ashamed after.

Yeah....

I'm still not ashamed yet.

U called it right! Fake ass ninja is what he is. I don't think Tameka is nuts after all.

How the fuck you sleep with your woman's bridesmaid and think that shit is cool? This nucca done lost his mind. It's all Diddy's fault. Everybody Diddy touch either turns into a ho or runs and finds the Lord or they break ties with the man. Something is wrong with him. We need to start a prayer vigil for Cassie. You see she still walking around with half her head shaved. Girl is crying out for help!

morningsong said:

USHER GRILLED IN COURT Did You Sleep with the Bridesmaid?

Yep at this point

The irony of a Michael Jackson popcorn eating GIF being used to reference another man's public castigation has my head spining like a Michael Jackson spinning GIF.

Seems like TF had no problem with Usher's behavior when he was with her and she was getting ALL of the silver and gold, AND the milk and honey. Really seems like she is trying to hurt the man. Just hurting the children at the end of the day.

HotGritz said:

smoothcriminal12 said:

Yeah....

I'm still not ashamed yet.

U called it right! Fake ass ninja is what he is. I don't think Tameka is nuts after all.

smoothcriminal12 said:

HotGritz said:

U called it right! Fake ass ninja is what he is. I don't think Tameka is nuts after all.

How the fuck you sleep with your woman's bridesmaid and think that shit is cool?

Huh, he slept with her bridesmaid? I guess she didn't know that for a while. I am always suprised and stunned with that kind of news. That's a little bit on the foul side, and is like playing with fire.

Usher & Tomeka played themselves at the end and now two kids gotta suffer because of two adults' indiscretions.

smoothcriminal12 said:

Dren5 said:

I laughed at this then totally felt ashamed after.

Yeah....

I'm still not ashamed yet.

I just laughed again and still felt bad again after I did it.

I think it's the whole subject matter - like, this is a custody battle.

But goddamn that was funny.

Dren5 said:

smoothcriminal12 said:

Yeah....

I'm still not ashamed yet.

I just laughed again and still felt bad again after I did it.

I think it's the whole subject matter - like, this is a custody battle.

But goddamn that was funny.

It's just, when you see the image that Usher portrays himself as, "R&B thug", then to hear about him breaking down in court, it's just...ironic.

Usher rnb thug? Please

Usher is not cute to me. I like his music tho.

smoothcriminal12 said:

Dren5 said:

I just laughed again and still felt bad again after I did it.

I think it's the whole subject matter - like, this is a custody battle.

But goddamn that was funny.

It's just, when you see the image that Usher portrays himself as, "R&B thug", then to hear about him breaking down in court, it's just...ironic.

Most of these so-called R&B singers try to act all hard until they get arrested or are in court struggling with questions... I think folks like that have an identity crisis and Usher's had one since his career started (about 20 years ago).

missfee said:

SoulAlive said:

I agree! Jennifer Lopez acts like she would DIE if she doesn't have a love interest every moment of her life.When one relationship ends,there is always someone else,right there to fill the void.She never allows herself a chance to 'get over' the previous relationship.I don't understand why so many people can't just stay single for awhile.They rush into marriage like it's going out of style,lol.And of course,these marriages never last.

In a way, you could look at it as her being needy. She has to have a man, any man, by her side, she doesn't know how to be alone. Thus makes her a needy woman.

As pretty as Jennifer is.... she has low self esteem. Clinging to the first guy that shows her attention and falling easily for some guy.

The other reason is because she doesnt know how to be independent. She has ALWAYS had a man ever since she broke out in the spotlight. She doesnt know how to be single or independent. I think she feels shes needs a man to make her more of a woman... I dunno. She really needs time to herself

mjscarousal said:

missfee said:

In a way, you could look at it as her being needy. She has to have a man, any man, by her side, she doesn't know how to be alone. Thus makes her a needy woman.

As pretty as Jennifer is.... she has low self esteem. Clinging to the first guy that shows her attention and falling easily for some guy.

The other reason is because she doesnt know how to be independent. She has ALWAYS had a man ever since she broke out in the spotlight. She doesnt know how to be single or independent. I think she feels shes needs a man to make her more of a woman... I dunno. She really needs time to herself

Jennifer Lopez is a lot like Kim Kardashian when you think about it. They both have big booties. Both were made famous by shagging the right dude at the right time and both are boy crazy and can't be single to save their lives.

Yeah yeah, J. Lo can dance but so can 90% of the girls in the hood. Yeah Yeah Kim is a master marketer but so are drug dealers.

Timmy84 said:

smoothcriminal12 said:

It's just, when you see the image that Usher portrays himself as, "R&B thug", then to hear about him breaking down in court, it's just...ironic.

Most of these so-called R&B singers try to act all hard until they get arrested or are in court struggling with questions... I think folks like that have an identity crisis and Usher's had one since his career started (about 20 years ago).

I agree.

smoothcriminal12 said:

Dren5 said:

I just laughed again and still felt bad again after I did it.

I think it's the whole subject matter - like, this is a custody battle.

But goddamn that was funny.

It's just, when you see the image that Usher portrays himself as, "R&B thug", then to hear about him breaking down in court, it's just...ironic.

When has Usher ever tried to portrary himself as an "R&B Thug"? I think you have him confused with these other cats.

Chris Brown to paparazzi: "Y'all niggaz is weenies. Get outta here, blood!"

http://www.boobootv.com/2...blood-now/

Trey jumps out into the audience to fight somebody

http://www.youtube.com/wa...fxPPgryUnU

Disrespect the Money Team, and Brandy's lil brother Ray J will smack you up, fool!

http://www.youtube.com/wa...DkWz5nO7ig

Apparently, Lil Fizz from B2K thinks he's a Crip

http://www.youtube.com/wa...DEbBFx712I

Remember TQ? (ever see somebody sing while waving a pistol? lol)

http://www.youtube.com/wa...R62Oxhpu-s

Then there was Devante Swing...

http://www.youtube.com/wa...bbOi3EKo7Q

But these guys were the 1st to pioneer R&B thuggin

http://www.youtube.com/wa...VSiv8-ugu0

[Edited 5/25/12 18:20pm]

Prospect said:

smoothcriminal12 said:

It's just, when you see the image that Usher portrays himself as, "R&B thug", then to hear about him breaking down in court, it's just...ironic.

When has Usher ever tried to portrary himself as an "R&B Thug"? I think you have him confused with these other cats.

Listen to his music.

smoothcriminal12 said:

Prospect said:

When has Usher ever tried to portrary himself as an "R&B Thug"? I think you have him confused with these other cats.

Listen to his music.

Ain't nothing in his music that stands out as "thuggish"

[Edited 5/25/12 18:56pm]