And you can always spot a hypocrite among the crowd... not all of those who became a fan of him after he died were honestly fans when he was alive. It's always been a trend to like any artist who dies. | |
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Well Said....
I dont have a problem with new fans because I think its cool that alot of people especially YOUNG people are now discovering his TALENT AND MUSIC
However, what I do find issue with is people like teens, 20s and even old ass adults acting like they have been fans for hundreds of years knowing damn well they were shitting on him 5 years ago, talk trashed about him and didnt listen to his music...
Ive been a fan of Michael since before I could tie my shoes... I remember being little as young as 2nd and 3rd grade being teased because I loved MJ and this was around 2000/ 20001 so Invincble and not came out to long ago... I got teased cause I didnt listen to the music that was out....
I remember it being SOOO HARD to find ANYTHING on Michael.. posters etc..
I remember when the Ultimate collection came out being so excited...
I remember being on MJJsource heavy during the trial...
I remember when Numberones came out... etc...
I was a hardcore MJ fan all the way through thats why gets on my nerves with all this bullshit and all the bullshit fans now today just because he passed...
I use to go to las vegas every summer when I was little and the ONLY thing I could find on Michael were a few paintings that I would collect every summer... BEFORE his passing in 09.
I have items that I could barely collect before his passing and those collectibles and items I will always treasure...
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Did we grow up together? You're just a couple of years older than me but we've had the same experiences
I remember going into stores looking for MJ and Prince and folks giving "the look" when I asked It wasn't until about when 3121 and I started buying music exclusively at record stores that weren't part of big chains here in California like Rasputin and Amoeba where I didn't get shit from the employees from asking about them
I got that voluntary "I don't like Michael Jackson" speech so many times I've lost count. I was never one of those extrovert fans. I'd mention that I was a fan in passing or would have a cassette/CD or a book and next thing I know.... "I HATE MICHAEL JACKSON!" "MICHAEL JACKSON'S A CHILD MOLESTOR!" and I became "THE Michael Jackson fan" I expected rude comments. It's like, "Damn, mentioning the guy's name brings hate"
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Well I was raise on Janet and got into Michael on my own. Of course I knew who he was but I was listening to other things at the time. I got into him during the invincible era and of course we know what followed after that. So I can say I was a big fan during the harder times and I guess that's why I give a side eye to people who jumped on board now. Those VH1 marathons on Michael were good though | |
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OMG vh1 specials, be still my heart! I would tape those after school and fake sick too for them
I knew a few diehards offline in the 90s and 00s. But I still felt alone like I couldn't express it and tried to hide it around family and peers though I don't know how family figured out I was nuts with mom randomly blurting out I'm marrying one day, or my dad bashing him with me pretending I need water keeping a straight face and mom telling him leave him alone cause I love him lolllll and like some of you, went to mjifc and sometimes downplayed itwhen buying his music. As I grew a fuck it attitude, I just acted like an enthusiast fan upon the you like mj reaction, got lost in it to the point where no one said anything sometimes or they would look like an asshole. Or I would talk about dancing to him and suddenly they would show interest. But I dealt with assholes too and still get angry thinking about it. Being a fan was great and yet so painful and like some of you, I got tired or drained from defending him and resentful sometimes and tired of fans, but I'd grown selfish and stressed for awhile. Stupid shit like the disguises made me cringe too when I was younger, then the post it's, but after the death I missed that. At least I appreciated and loved him and still do though I'm so sad. Tonight I went to karaoke with my dad and I was not going to sing mj but he told me to despite hating him as a person. I found myself being hesitant cause the enthusiasm is gone a little and I'm still dealing with the pain of the hate, but settled with come together beatles with moonwalker adlibs [Edited 1/28/12 22:54pm] | |
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That's not what I said. I said a certain amount of respect should be shown by newer fans to older ones, who were there all along and took a lot of crap.
Nor did I say I was the only one - notice during this entire convo I've been saying things like 'we' and us' in reference to longstanding fans. There's a lot of us out there, I'm by no means the only one.
Nor were my comments about MJ's personal life specifically so much as being 'there', period. Having been around for most of his solo career and continuing to do it even when you got slagged off for it, knowing something about his actual work as well as not jumping ship when the shit hit the fan in his personal life.
And frankly yeah, I do think it is. I think that honestly the people who were genuinely into his music, found their way to him long before he 'died' and it suddenly became cool to mention listening to MJ. And like other members here have said, it's easy to be able to tell the bandwagoners from the actual fans anyway - very transparent.
My take. Like it or don't, not my problem.
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This is exactly what I'm saying. Then they wanna talk shit to and disrespect the actual fans? GTFOOHWTBS.
And...I don't get what made her mention his personal life, either - I wrote one thing and she read something entirely different into that, which is...interesting, but really her own thing to deal with, not mine. What you read into and project onto people ultimately says more about you and where your head is at than it does, them.
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...Yeah, I've got a few years on you - I was born in 1981.
I'm out in the Midwest though but, yep! Our experiences were very similar. I ended up just standing there thinking to myself like "Wtf? I didn't ask you what you thought of MJ"; that day I went home and told my mom what the librarian said and she was pissed.
But yeah you'd definitely get to the point where you expected dumb shit to come out of people's mouths . The few times I did get a positive reaction from people, I was genuinely shocked because it was so uncommon. In 2000 I was in college, down in the computer lab and looking at MJ-related stuff (okay, admittedly it was a pervy .gif of him and Naomi Campbell) then a random girl, total stranger to me, came up to me and asked me if I was an MJ fan. I nodded yes, slowly and cautiously, waiting for dumb shit to come out of her mouth, and then she starts prattling away "Oh me too!" and talking about how awesome she thought he was.
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I had similar reactions lol I would be shocked if someone mentioned they dug Michael too. My parents could tell seeing me at my computer a few years ago that I had Michael on there and all they did was laugh. Not for me liking Michael (they liked him too, least his music) but that's all they saw me with on my computer. My cousin was still a big fan and he was as breathless as I was on June 25, '09. | |
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I was born in 83 and had similar experiences. But it was a combo of good and bad and I was too sensitive about when things went wrong. Cried so much during the trial too, I get mad at bandwagoners and hypocrites too | |
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Yeah - definitely wasn't easy being an MJ fan in the 90's. Very hard in the UK with the stupid bullshit tabloid media headlines, I lost count of the "Wacko Jacko" headlines I'd see adorning those garbage papers on a weekly basis. But kids knew not to start shit with me about it. I was always a proud and diehard fan and didn't give a fuck who knew. |
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hi, this is a little off topic, but i was haveing a "arguement" with someone earlier about mj.. and they brought up the blanket window insident, i told them it was a lion king reference.. im just making sure that i didnt give them false info.. didnt michael say it was a lion king reference? thanks! | |
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It was a made up excuse by one of Michael's friends so that maybe people would forgive him. They didn't. | |
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LOL! I tell people Mike had a "Rafiki Moment".
Nah, he never said it. I just explain to people that everyone makes errors in judgement. Michael Jackson should be no different. Although honestly, he really had a tight grip over Blanket and I knew he wasn't going to fall. I've honestly seen parents do way worse to their kids.
Like Steve Irwin putting his child very close to the mouth of a crocodile? And no hard grip, just holding his hands as if the kid was walking towards it. The salvation of man is through love and in love. - Dr. V. Frankl
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Born in '91 and I can completely relate to what you're all saying (I became an MJ fan in 1996). | |
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I'm pretty sure that it was Michael's lawyer Brian Oxman who made that lion king comment. Very smart dude. Thank God he didn't make a reference to Pocahontas. | |
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Im guest hosting an internet radio show tonight at 10pm (EASTERN TIME) tonight we're gonna be talking about the top 10 MJ WATERCOOLER MOMENTS ( i.e. things mj done on tv that people discuss heavily the next day)
its gonna be fun, i never been heavily featured on a radio show, i gotta talk for an hour and a half, i dont talk that much in a week
so if you like me check me out, listen, call, talk shit , its all good THEY TRYINA ADD ME ON AS COHOST SO I HOPE I DO A GOOD JOB
let em know that BJ sent you.
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I don't remember MJ ever saying anything about the Lion King, no. Had to be the other dude.
Honestly, I think Michael was just high outta his mind on that bullshit and he wasn't thinking straight so he did something fucking stupid. 비 | |
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This brings me to another gripe I have, only this one about the overseas fan community.
Right after MJ 'died', I started seeing a ton of European fans, blame it on the United States citizens in general as well as the media.
"U.S. killed him, U.S. killed him."
Bullshit. I noticed that when you point out that it was actually the British press and tabloids that were the most brutal, they just pretend you never said that, they just go onto how MJ left the States.
At which point I would usually mention how he'd always eventually move back.
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I remember it and some of the behind the scenes footage. Not high, but still a stupid decision. "My fans wanna see him? I'll show them!" He did something similar with Michael Jr. (Prince) when he was a baby
Now that I think about it. We didn't know Blanket existed until that incident "We may deify or demonize them but not ignore them. And we call them genius, because they are the people who change the world." | |
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A lot of the rumors over the years originated in UK tabloids
http://www.the-michael-jackson-archives.com/badcontents.html
the Bad era had UK tabloids in a frenzy
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I always thought that balcony incident was stupid on his part. I get why he wanted to show them but still... I was like "Mike come on! " | |
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I think he was on something when he did that - let's be real here, MJ was acting like he was fiending and tweaking for basically that entire broadcast - something was off. And he's not exactly stupid, so I doubt he would do something like that while he was stone-cold sober.
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Been reading from the sidelines and here is my point of view on post 2009 fans.
I'm fine with them. I even understand them. For many fans MJ was the music of their youth and thry out grew him. It happens. Now his sudden death made them think back and maybe rediscover the music.
I'm fine with that too.
If people are jumping on a bandwagon - well better late then never. At least you'll hear more MJ music.
Fans who try to outfan another are just lame in my book. I have been a fan for decades now and don't profess to know everything (i'm only at about 99.9% ). I'm cool with people having opinions that differ to mine, cool with someone challenging me - but I ask the same respect be shown.
The only fans that irk me are the ones that will say MJ got a raw deal from the media etc etc, or say that he was the victim of wild rumours and tabloid garbage and then turn around and give the same raw deal to poople like Murray (Now I'm not defending Murray, he was guilty and was proven so) or try to talk about him faking his death etc etc. The hypocritcal fans are the ones I don't have time for - they have become their (and Mj's legacy) own worse nightmare.
Oh and for the record I am the biggest fan EVER, and you ain't bad you ain't nothing. (that's a joke folks) "I'm not human I'm a dove, I'm ur conscience. I am love" | |
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You gotta be kidding me.
Most of the people who jumped on after he 'died' weren't former fans who suddenly returned to the fold; you know it and I know it - they were random people who were never into his music in the first place, and some who even used to constantly slag him off. These are all people who just heard he croaked, and once he was being mentioned everywhere (and suddenly in a positive tone) they wanted to be in on it so they bought MJ t-shirts and suddenly started claiming they were always fans but you ask them the lyrics to something like "Whatever Happens" and they'll give you the blank stare.
That's what this is about that dishonesty along with the blatant disrespect a lot of them show the actual, longstanding MJ fans. You say it's okay to have someone disagree with you, but with respect - and a lot of them don't do that. So yeah, I don't care if you think it's lame or not but I have little patience with a bunch of pushy, overbearing assholes who show up out of nowhere talking shit when they don't know shit and are pretty much trying to jump in on a trend and weren't there when things were suckass and then shit on the ones who were.
And none of this shit is an unreasonable request or unique to this particular community. The hacker community/techie folks hate it when new people who know nothing about the subject and just wanna look cool, pop up and then talk shit to them - plenty of different online communities and groups feel this way about stuff like this. And I don't think it's unjustified.
And I've been a fan for decades too. Like I said, I was born in 1981 and I've been a fan from anywhere between 2-4 years old, and I'm thirty now. So don't try that "I've been a fan for decades" bullshit on me. Come see me when you were a fan before you could even add or multiply. 비 | |
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I know they did. And a lot of the ones that didn't, were way worse in the overseas tabloid press than in the American. The British tabloids are on some other shit entirely and don't hold back on people at all. So it's weird to me that European fans always bitch about the States like all the worst shit went on here when it didn't, barring the allegations, but frankly that could've happened anywhere because all over the planet there's greedy opportunistic people.
I remember once being in a chat with a friend at the time (another American) and we were basically clusterfucked by everyone else in there about this stuff and it pissed us both off. And no matter how many times you pointed out the inaccuracies of what they were saying, they still kept right on babbling.
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Yeah the European fans do like to look down their nose at you if you're from North America. But really, they were/are no better than anyone else.
Hell, I knew a girl from Germany. She's been a fan since she was a toddler and when Michael passed away, she saw people in the record store like you won't believe. She even told me some muhfugga said to her "it's cool to like Michael again", and she nearly beat the shit outta him.
America didn't kill Michael Jackson. The world crucified him for th longest time..and when the man finally succumbed to his wounds...the finger pointing starts. Fuck'em... The salvation of man is through love and in love. - Dr. V. Frankl
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Like I said before, in those situations, I love to mention that MJ always moved back to the U.S. every time. Makes them absolutely batshit-crazy with anger then they just try and pretend you never said it .
I wouldn't go as far as hitting someone in a situation like that - I'd just give them a look that made them want to kick their own ass.
Crucify isn't the word I'd use - MJ was no deity - but he was definitely getting it from all sides. The worst stuff was coming from the press outside of the United States, that I do remember. As far as the Anti-American sentiment in the MJ fan community, the post 2009 part is about needing someone to blame yeah, but this was actually an issue on the MJ fan boards, yearsssss before then as well. So it's not purely that.
Having said that, I don't think it's really accurate to say being shat on is what really did him in; honestly I think it's probably more accurate that he had all these other unresolved issues he wasn't dealing with - some physical, some not - that he was trying to cope with by pumping himself full of that shit. Do I think the worldwide hostility toward him contributed? Yeah, I think it definitely didn't help, especially the allegation shit, but I think it was by no means the main factor.
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The UK & European print press is/was brutal, but the American TV reporting is a whole other kettle of fish. Our 24 hour news networks are getting bad, but never to the extent of bullshit like Court TV and Fox News which is just down right slanderous.
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