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Reply #30 posted 12/18/11 3:11am

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sosgemini said:

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Now I am gonna be really pissed at Obama for picking B'Weave over Etta to sing At Last. Etta should have had her moment. mad

right!

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Reply #31 posted 12/18/11 9:34am

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Timmy84 said:

sosgemini said:

rose

Now I am gonna be really pissed at Obama for picking B'Weave over Etta to sing At Last. Etta should have had her moment. mad

"Beyonce oughta have her ass whipped! sexy "

I actually laughed when she said this about Barack:

"Well he ain't MY president. bored2 "

lol

She's one hellraiser nod lol

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Reply #32 posted 12/19/11 1:16am

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Etta keeps it real. She put them negroes on blast hard body.

And not a single f--k was given. What a legend.

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Reply #33 posted 12/19/11 6:52am

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One of the greats. I hope her remaining time is as comfortable and peaceful as possible.

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Reply #34 posted 12/20/11 8:43am

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Timmy84 said:

MidniteMagnet said:

What the hell are prayers going to do? Prayers don't cure terminal illness. They just give hope to the person praying.

Yeah I know prayers don't work. It's almost looking like she's knocking on Heaven's door already.

All u can pray for is that she doesn't suffer to much before she transitions, and that she is surrounded by love.

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Reply #35 posted 12/20/11 9:07am

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sad sad sad

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Reply #36 posted 12/20/11 10:20am

Timmy84

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Timmy84 said:

Yeah I know prayers don't work. It's almost looking like she's knocking on Heaven's door already.

All u can pray for is that she doesn't suffer to much before she transitions, and that she is surrounded by love.

I think she HAS made her peace. Her family on the other hand is a different story. neutral

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Reply #37 posted 12/21/11 1:06pm

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sosgemini said:

rose

Now I am gonna be really pissed at Obama for picking B'Weave over Etta to sing At Last. Etta should have had her moment. mad

This is just truly grotesque.

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Reply #38 posted 12/21/11 2:00pm

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She may pull through. There is still hope. Zsa Zsa Gabor's doc said many times that she was on her death bed but she held on.

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Reply #39 posted 12/21/11 2:42pm

Timmy84

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She may pull through. There is still hope. Zsa Zsa Gabor's doc said many times that she was on her death bed but she held on.

Difference is Zsa Zsa got sick almost immediately. Etta's was more gradual.

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Reply #40 posted 12/22/11 10:15pm

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musicjunky318 said:

Etta keeps it real. She put them negroes on blast hard body.

And not a single f--k was given. What a legend.

My friend works in the hospital Etta frequents and apparantly she cusses like a sailor and is not nice. What she said to my freind was unbelieveable

Under certain circumstances, urgent circumstances, desperate circumstances, profanity provides a relief denied even to prayer.
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Reply #41 posted 12/23/11 12:58am

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LiquidGold said:

musicjunky318 said:

Etta keeps it real. She put them negroes on blast hard body.

And not a single f--k was given. What a legend.

My friend works in the hospital Etta frequents and apparantly she cusses like a sailor and is not nice. What she said to my freind was unbelieveable

There was a radio show in LA that used to air and one of the hosts came into the studio in shock sharing how Etta felated the microphone and simulated masturbated on stage. This was like 3 years ago! lol

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Reply #42 posted 12/23/11 6:47am

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LiquidGold said:

musicjunky318 said:

Etta keeps it real. She put them negroes on blast hard body.

And not a single f--k was given. What a legend.

My friend works in the hospital Etta frequents and apparantly she cusses like a sailor and is not nice. What she said to my freind was unbelieveable

Your friend should know better than to reveal this information about a sick patient. Whatever happened to privacy?? And people who are sick or using medications may "act out". Doesn't have any bearing on real character. Your friend should be ashamed to reveal this information. and if the hospital knew... your friend would be FIRED. neutral
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Reply #43 posted 12/23/11 8:00am

Timmy84

prodigalfan said:

LiquidGold said:

My friend works in the hospital Etta frequents and apparantly she cusses like a sailor and is not nice. What she said to my freind was unbelieveable

Your friend should know better than to reveal this information about a sick patient. Whatever happened to privacy?? And people who are sick or using medications may "act out". Doesn't have any bearing on real character. Your friend should be ashamed to reveal this information. and if the hospital knew... your friend would be FIRED. neutral

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Reply #44 posted 12/23/11 9:09am

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Posted: December 23, 2011

http://www.inquisitr.com/...the-worse/

Etta James Takes a Turn For the Worse

It was reported earlier this month that the singer was in poor health, and her live-in physician (Dr. Elaine James, no relation) confirmed that James was suffering from chronic leukemia and dementia. The “At Last” singer is reportedly so ill she can no longer communicate, restricted to simple nods and “uh huh” when speaking with her caregivers.

Yesterday, CNN tweeted that James had been transported from her home and live-in medical staff to a hospital, saying:

“An update on Etta James: Her manager tells CNN that she’s been taken to the hospital – her husband and sons are with her.

Earlier this month, her reps released the following statement on the singer’s illnesses:

“Etta has a terminal illness. She’s in the final stages of leukemia. She has also been diagnosed with dementia and Hepatitis C. She’s in a home right now and mostly sleeps. She is under the care of a live-in doctor from Riverside Community Hospital and two others who have placed her on oxygen. Her husband is with her 24 hours a day, and her sons visit regularly. We’re all very sad. We’re just waiting.”

As James convalesces, her family remains locked in a legal battle over her estate. James’ husband and sons are currently disputing as to how to manage the singer’s affairs during her illness, as well as what will become of the considerations when the singer passes on. No updates have been given on James’ condition since the news she had been hospitalized.

... Candl... pray

[Edited 12/23/11 9:10am]

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Reply #45 posted 12/23/11 9:31am

Timmy84

free2bfreeda said:

Posted: December 23, 2011

http://www.inquisitr.com/...the-worse/

Etta James Takes a Turn For the Worse

It was reported earlier this month that the singer was in poor health, and her live-in physician (Dr. Elaine James, no relation) confirmed that James was suffering from chronic leukemia and dementia. The “At Last” singer is reportedly so ill she can no longer communicate, restricted to simple nods and “uh huh” when speaking with her caregivers.

Yesterday, CNN tweeted that James had been transported from her home and live-in medical staff to a hospital, saying:

“An update on Etta James: Her manager tells CNN that she’s been taken to the hospital – her husband and sons are with her.

Earlier this month, her reps released the following statement on the singer’s illnesses:

“Etta has a terminal illness. She’s in the final stages of leukemia. She has also been diagnosed with dementia and Hepatitis C. She’s in a home right now and mostly sleeps. She is under the care of a live-in doctor from Riverside Community Hospital and two others who have placed her on oxygen. Her husband is with her 24 hours a day, and her sons visit regularly. We’re all very sad. We’re just waiting.”

As James convalesces, her family remains locked in a legal battle over her estate. James’ husband and sons are currently disputing as to how to manage the singer’s affairs during her illness, as well as what will become of the considerations when the singer passes on. No updates have been given on James’ condition since the news she had been hospitalized.

... Candl... pray

[Edited 12/23/11 9:10am]

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Reply #46 posted 12/23/11 12:43pm

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Does anyone know when Etta recorded her recent album? She's been so sick that it seemed like this final album came out of nowhere.

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Reply #47 posted 12/23/11 12:47pm

Timmy84

MidniteMagnet said:

Does anyone know when Etta recorded her recent album? She's been so sick that it seemed like this final album came out of nowhere.

I'm guessing 2009.

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Reply #48 posted 12/23/11 6:33pm

Timmy84

Etta James hospitalized for breathing trouble

(AP) – 4 hours ago

RIVERSIDE, California (AP) — Etta James' longtime manager says the terminally ill blues singer has been hospitalized after experiencing difficulty breathing.

Lupe De Leon says James' family is with her at a Southern California hospital where she was taken earlier this week.

De Leon, who has been James' manager for 30 years, says the singer is "in pretty bad shape" but it remains unknown whether she will be able to be released. He says James was taken to the hospital on Wednesday evening and is on a breathing apparatus.

James' doctor recently announced that the "At Last" singer has been diagnosed with terminal leukemia. The Grammy-winner and Rock-and-Roll Hall of Fame member is also suffering from dementia. She has been receiving mostly at-home care.

A judge on Monday set aside $350,000 for James' treatment.

Copyright © 2011 The Associated Press. All rights reserved.

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Reply #49 posted 12/23/11 7:35pm

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prodigalfan said:

LiquidGold said:

My friend works in the hospital Etta frequents and apparantly she cusses like a sailor and is not nice. What she said to my freind was unbelieveable

Your friend should know better than to reveal this information about a sick patient. Whatever happened to privacy?? And people who are sick or using medications may "act out". Doesn't have any bearing on real character. Your friend should be ashamed to reveal this information. and if the hospital knew... your friend would be FIRED. neutral

Get your facts straight. Actually, when this happened, it was already made public she was in the hospital and what she was in the hospital for and my friend actually had to report the incident to the hospital. She was very upset about it and told me what happened in terms of what was said to her. She didn't devulge anything personal to me like why she there (which was already reported by the newspaper) or what procedures were being done, so she was not in the wrong. She didn't violate HIPAA

Oh, and while your bullslhittin' apparantly that is very much that woman's character based on what people who have interacted with her have said

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Reply #50 posted 12/24/11 9:31am

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LiquidGold said:

prodigalfan said:

Your friend should know better than to reveal this information about a sick patient. Whatever happened to privacy?? And people who are sick or using medications may "act out". Doesn't have any bearing on real character. Your friend should be ashamed to reveal this information. and if the hospital knew... your friend would be FIRED. neutral

Get your facts straight. Actually, when this happened, it was already made public she was in the hospital and what she was in the hospital for and my friend actually had to report the incident to the hospital. She was very upset about it and told me what happened in terms of what was said to her. She didn't devulge anything personal to me like why she there (which was already reported by the newspaper) or what procedures were being done, so she was not in the wrong. She didn't violate HIPAA

Oh, and while your bullslhittin' apparantly that is very much that woman's character based on what people who have interacted with her have said

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I'm not bullshitting. I work in a hospital. I know the laws. The fact that you discussed her actions, and use of language... the fact that you didn't use vague terms... you used specific name, specific events.... it wouldn't be hard to find out which hospital she is at, and look at her records and find out which health care workers took care of her... and on and on. Do your 'friend" a favor and stop talking about this in a public forum.
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Reply #51 posted 12/24/11 9:47am

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LiquidGold said:

musicjunky318 said:

Etta keeps it real. She put them negroes on blast hard body.

And not a single f--k was given. What a legend.

My friend works in the hospital Etta frequents and apparantly she cusses like a sailor and is not nice. What she said to my freind was unbelieveable

and another thing... why would you come on a thread asking for prayers for a sick woman and asking for good will/ good vibes for her and post something defamatory about her???

Why? Do you have nothing better to do then talk negatively about a gravely ill woman while she is in the hospital on death bed?

Even if it is true, so what?? A professional would know that gravely ill people can experience dementia and say all kinds of things to people that are mean, and even racist. And most PROFESSIONAL people have a little chuckle about it... or ignore it and keep it moving.

The fact that your friend went around running her mouth about PRIVATE events says a lot about her.

You know something... when people pass away or have a serious illness, to the hospital personel, it is just one of many... a part of work. Maybe you will remember it... maybe not. But to the patient and/or family... they remember that stuff FOREVER.

It becomes part of their family history... in fact YOU become part of their family history. How you treat that patient is how you will be remembered FOREVER to that family when Dad died, Or grandma passed away.

Tell your friend to be mindful of that.

I had a woman who *I* did not know, recognize me at the furniture store and remembered that I took care of her husband when he was dying. She grabbed my hand and broke down in tears thanking me for being so kind to her, and taking so good of her husband. The woman actually owned the furniture store and all of her employees came around and thanked me and looked at me like I was some rock star.

lol I was embarrassed.... and I surely didn't remember her and barely remembered her husband. but she definitely remembered me.

What was especially embarrassing was that she gave me a genereous discount on my purchase. I told her she didn't need to, I was just doing my job but she did.... and I sure did appreciate that. lol

My point is.... I have had mean patients as well who kicked and called me the n word, c word, slave, animal, h word... I treat those patients the same as the nice ones... I don't FUCKING judge them... and I don't blab about it.

I had wives, husbands and children ask me to please forgive the sick one's bad behavior because it is not their character. They don't have to tell me that. as a professional... I already know.

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Reply #52 posted 12/24/11 12:11pm

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I like her even more for cussing like a sailor and not being nice.

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Reply #53 posted 12/24/11 12:34pm

Timmy84

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I like her even more for cussing like a sailor and not being nice.

Yeah usually that turns me off but something about Etta doing it makes me laugh. lol

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Reply #54 posted 12/24/11 12:44pm

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prodigalfan said:

LiquidGold said:

My friend works in the hospital Etta frequents and apparantly she cusses like a sailor and is not nice. What she said to my freind was unbelieveable

Your friend should know better than to reveal this information about a sick patient. Whatever happened to privacy?? And people who are sick or using medications may "act out". Doesn't have any bearing on real character. Your friend should be ashamed to reveal this information. and if the hospital knew... your friend would be FIRED. neutral

many very sick or dying patients enter states of delirium and dementia, what they say can be very shocking. however i agree w/prodigalfin's words, "your friend would be FIRED, if the hospital administration knew this info was revealed. (and imo should be held accoutable)

in addition, a person who gossip mongers about one about to either pass on or be taken off life support, should be a lot more sensitive in passing on (less than) credible information to the public.

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Reply #55 posted 12/26/11 5:59pm

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LiquidGold said:

musicjunky318 said:

Etta keeps it real. She put them negroes on blast hard body.

And not a single f--k was given. What a legend.

My friend works in the hospital Etta frequents and apparantly she cusses like a sailor and is not nice. What she said to my freind was unbelieveable

She has dementia and I that usually starts slowly and takes a few years to take hold.

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Reply #56 posted 12/26/11 7:39pm

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prodigalfan said:

LiquidGold said:

My friend works in the hospital Etta frequents and apparantly she cusses like a sailor and is not nice. What she said to my freind was unbelieveable

and another thing... why would you come on a thread asking for prayers for a sick woman and asking for good will/ good vibes for her and post something defamatory about her???

Why? Do you have nothing better to do then talk negatively about a gravely ill woman while she is in the hospital on death bed?

Even if it is true, so what?? A professional would know that gravely ill people can experience dementia and say all kinds of things to people that are mean, and even racist. And most PROFESSIONAL people have a little chuckle about it... or ignore it and keep it moving.

The fact that your friend went around running her mouth about PRIVATE events says a lot about her.

You know something... when people pass away or have a serious illness, to the hospital personel, it is just one of many... a part of work. Maybe you will remember it... maybe not. But to the patient and/or family... they remember that stuff FOREVER.

It becomes part of their family history... in fact YOU become part of their family history. How you treat that patient is how you will be remembered FOREVER to that family when Dad died, Or grandma passed away.

Tell your friend to be mindful of that.

I had a woman who *I* did not know, recognize me at the furniture store and remembered that I took care of her husband when he was dying. She grabbed my hand and broke down in tears thanking me for being so kind to her, and taking so good of her husband. The woman actually owned the furniture store and all of her employees came around and thanked me and looked at me like I was some rock star.

lol I was embarrassed.... and I surely didn't remember her and barely remembered her husband. but she definitely remembered me.

What was especially embarrassing was that she gave me a genereous discount on my purchase. I told her she didn't need to, I was just doing my job but she did.... and I sure did appreciate that. lol

My point is.... I have had mean patients as well who kicked and called me the n word, c word, slave, animal, h word... I treat those patients the same as the nice ones... I don't FUCKING judge them... and I don't blab about it.

I had wives, husbands and children ask me to please forgive the sick one's bad behavior because it is not their character. They don't have to tell me that. as a professional... I already know.

[Edited 12/24/11 9:50am]

Maybe you should reread what I wrote. No one was using specific events or places, or a timeframe of when this happened (which was not recent) and I didn't get into specifics on what exactly happened and what exactly was said. Anyone one who follows this person knows about her language, so there was nothing privately revealed here. My friend did not go running her mouth or blabbing about it. You do not know the whole story and won't for that matter. My friend was not passing judgement, but for me to continue will be giving too much. I do know generally speaking that not ALL patient behavior is acceptable. I'm sure you're great at what you do, but don't assume my friend is not great at what she does. You're passing a lot of judgement here

As for nothing better to do, I don't see jumping on whoever said what about her nasty comments about Beyonce, but I guess that's ok

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Reply #57 posted 12/26/11 8:01pm

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LiquidGold said:

prodigalfan said:

and another thing... why would you come on a thread asking for prayers for a sick woman and asking for good will/ good vibes for her and post something defamatory about her???

Why? Do you have nothing better to do then talk negatively about a gravely ill woman while she is in the hospital on death bed?

Even if it is true, so what??

Maybe you should reread what I wrote. No one was using specific events or places, or a timeframe of when this happened (which was not recent) and I didn't get into specifics on what exactly happened and what exactly was said. Anyone one who follows this person knows about her language, so there was nothing privately revealed here. My friend did not go running her mouth or blabbing about it. You do not know the whole story and won't for that matter. My friend was not passing judgement, but for me to continue will be giving too much. I do know generally speaking that not ALL patient behavior is acceptable. I'm sure you're great at what you do, but don't assume my friend is not great at what she does. You're passing a lot of judgement here

As for nothing better to do, I don't see jumping on whoever said what about her nasty comments about Beyonce, but I guess that's ok

i'm in agreement with prodigalfan. to even mention a gravely ill etta james in a rumormongering tone shows little respect. the thread ask for prayers for ms james.

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Reply #58 posted 12/26/11 8:04pm

Timmy84

Didn't Etta's son say her Beyonce outburst was due to dementia? I believe so. Not like it excuses it but also I don't think it's reveal all in jump street unless they were that nasty without being so ill.

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Reply #59 posted 12/30/11 3:57pm

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Good news: Etta James has been put off the respirator and is breathing on her own. smile


She's still not out of the clear though but at least she's cheated death for now... dove

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