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Reply #120 posted 08/27/11 12:16pm

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Ms. Etterlene Debarge has a lil' bit of rep. of not being factual.

I'll leave it at that. smile

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Reply #121 posted 08/27/11 12:16pm

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Marlena58 said:

I don't believe this for two seconds. Omar is NOT black. He said himself that Mj was NOT his father but that his parents worked for Mj and thats why he grew up around Mj. I believe Janet had a baby because when she was on Fame she was preggers and then you didn't see her anymore. It was in Jet magazine and on the radio but Omar is NOT her son

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Reply #122 posted 08/27/11 12:20pm

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Marlena58 said:

KCOOLMUZIQ said:

Geez! I'm getting tired of defending people. Janet left "Fame" because she was tired of doing it & wanted to focus on her singing career. The stress of her & James relationship wore her to death. When Janet is stressed she gains weight. That is why she goes up & down all the time. Janet did not have a baby! There would be no reason for her to cover it up if she did. All her other siblings had kids except that liar backstabbing La toya. So why would she try to hide it? Katherine a devout JW wouldn't approve of her lying about having a baby.

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Aint she beautiful! giggle

Who am I defending? I don't believe Omar is Janet's son but I do believe (like many people) she had a baby. I mean this is the same woman who hid a 10 year relationship. Lets not be so naive

^right. That is why I don't understand why people get this attitude that it is utterly ridiculous that Janet would have secrets. The only reason we ever found out the truth was because courts got involved ( in the divorce)

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Reply #123 posted 08/27/11 12:40pm

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kellistarr120 said:

I've always been on the fence about this. Meaning, I don't know whether the baby lived or died. But i remember when the story broke about Janet being pregnant in my local newspaper. It was a major article because James being from Detroit and then Grand Rapids. Janet was clearly pregnant. I'm talking like 7-8 months pregnant. Then,no baby.

You never heard about the birth, nada. I remember thinking that I should cut the article and photograph out as a keepsake, but I did not. I tell you, I regret not having done that. I know what I saw, and read. Years afterward, I would think about it and go, I know what I read. But once that marriage became anulled, I wasn't surprised that the baby, I assumed came out of her? got anulled with the marriage..

Same here. I lived in Toledo and the rumor was that Janet and James got married in Toledo because there is no waiting period in Ohio. I remembered either George Clinton, or someone in his band eloped in Toledo for the same reason so it is not unreasonable to believe that Janet and James married in Toledo.

Anywhoo, the article mentioned that Janet was in the "family way" and would be leaving Fame. And there was jokes that Penny was all grown up now and married and having a baby.

So I don't doubt that Janet was preggers and I mean in her third trimester... she couldn't hide it anymore.

Then she and James got divorce, she spent time in "Europe" the place people used to go when they want to hide out after cosemetic surgeries, dry out clinics etc.

Then I saw Janet on the cover of it was either Ebony or Essence... she wore white and had colored contacts...they were green. She looked beautiful and she was slimmer. In the article she clarified things in her marriage to James... like the fact she did not buy him a mercedes,that was HER mercedes he was driving around town in... and the fact that discussing that whole period in her life was very hard to do. And she was evasive.

I just remembered thinking "what happened to the baby". I have always thought Janet had a baby. Why would she want to hide it? I dunno know... I don't for the life of me know why she wanted to hide marriage to Rene.

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Reply #124 posted 08/27/11 12:46pm

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Ottensen said:

Alls I wanna know is:

Which one of youse out there has that RIGHT ON! Magazine that announced Janet's pregnancy with her in all her round belly glory sitting on James' lap in the accompanying photo? Where are the 40+ people at up in here? lol That magazine is STILL in my parents attic with all my favorite books and movie star mags from when I was a kid. What I remember was headlines ablaze all in the black press then about a coming baby for James and Janet, and then suddenly there's no baby, she lost weight, and was annulling the marriage. I didn't think much of it because even that that age I figured it was their business. But it looked abundantly clear to me in the photo that she was with child, or else she was just somehow concentrating a wholllle buncha weight in her mid-section.

Anyhoo- maybe there's a kid, maybe not. Meh. Wouldn't be the first time celebs from that era hid information about their lives from the general public to protect an image they were building. Now we live in a society where people want to be seen as "real", or relatable, so there's now the extreme opposite; people magnifying their imperfections, mistakes, life conflicts, warts and to gain or maintain brand recognition in their careers.

So while some would say, "why go to all that trouble just to hide a kid"?. I would reply, if it were true, it would simply be reflective of the the time, the social mores having to do with being a celebrity then. If it's not true, then, that's fine too. Either way, do we really care? That's Janet and James' headache . martini

I do remember seeing that picture. I also remembered the one of James standing behind her and putting his arms around her waist and cradling her huge belly. It was the classic couple with child shot.

Sorry, I have tried and tried to find that issue online, but the free archives don't go back far.

shrug Believe what you want... I know what I read. and not from a rag magazine... I'm talking about the Toledo Blade.

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Reply #125 posted 08/27/11 12:52pm

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TonyVanDam said:

purplethunder3121 said:

Or maybe there never was a baby.

.....or maybe there was a miscarriage.

I always think of miscarriage where the pregnancy is less than 6 months along. Janet was bigger than that. But I never considered a stillborn... which is pregnancy farther along than 6 months but the fetus doesn't survive. It is then called a stillborn.

I could imagine Janet in a marriage that is a disaster... drug addict husband... and then the baby dies... so she cut her losses.

Yup, that is plausible and would explain the denials and no baby.

hmmm

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Reply #126 posted 08/27/11 3:19pm

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prodigalfan said:

Ottensen said:

Alls I wanna know is:

Which one of youse out there has that RIGHT ON! Magazine that announced Janet's pregnancy with her in all her round belly glory sitting on James' lap in the accompanying photo? Where are the 40+ people at up in here? lol That magazine is STILL in my parents attic with all my favorite books and movie star mags from when I was a kid. What I remember was headlines ablaze all in the black press then about a coming baby for James and Janet, and then suddenly there's no baby, she lost weight, and was annulling the marriage. I didn't think much of it because even that that age I figured it was their business. But it looked abundantly clear to me in the photo that she was with child, or else she was just somehow concentrating a wholllle buncha weight in her mid-section.

Anyhoo- maybe there's a kid, maybe not. Meh. Wouldn't be the first time celebs from that era hid information about their lives from the general public to protect an image they were building. Now we live in a society where people want to be seen as "real", or relatable, so there's now the extreme opposite; people magnifying their imperfections, mistakes, life conflicts, warts and to gain or maintain brand recognition in their careers.

So while some would say, "why go to all that trouble just to hide a kid"?. I would reply, if it were true, it would simply be reflective of the the time, the social mores having to do with being a celebrity then. If it's not true, then, that's fine too. Either way, do we really care? That's Janet and James' headache . martini

I do remember seeing that picture. I also remembered the one of James standing behind her and putting his arms around her waist and cradling her huge belly. It was the classic couple with child shot.

Sorry, I have tried and tried to find that issue online, but the free archives don't go back far.

shrug Believe what you want... I know what I read. and not from a rag magazine... I'm talking about the Toledo Blade.

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Reply #127 posted 08/27/11 3:21pm

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KCOOLMUZIQ said:

Marlena58 said:

I don't believe this for two seconds. Omar is NOT black. He said himself that Mj was NOT his father but that his parents worked for Mj and thats why he grew up around Mj. I believe Janet had a baby because when she was on Fame she was preggers and then you didn't see her anymore. It was in Jet magazine and on the radio but Omar is NOT her son

Geez! I'm getting tired of defending people. Janet left "Fame" because she was tired of doing it & wanted to focus on her singing career. The stress of her & James relationship wore her to death. When Janet is stressed she gains weight. That is why she goes up & down all the time. Janet did not have a baby! There would be no reason for her to cover it up if she did. All her other siblings had kids except that liar backstabbing La toya. So why would she try to hide it? Katherine a devout JW wouldn't approve of her lying about having a baby.

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Aint she beautiful! giggle

I agree. If Janet/James have a child(and that's a big if) why hide it? What would be the purpose? None that I can think of. eek eek. I'm with you, I don't think there is a child/children. Just a young woman who happens to gain weight when she's stressed out. And, that definitely was the case with her. Wouldn't you being stressed out if you were living with your family, who don't approve of your marriage/your husband had a drug problem?JMHO eek

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Reply #128 posted 08/27/11 7:48pm

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prodigalfan said:

kellistarr120 said:

I've always been on the fence about this. Meaning, I don't know whether the baby lived or died. But i remember when the story broke about Janet being pregnant in my local newspaper. It was a major article because James being from Detroit and then Grand Rapids. Janet was clearly pregnant. I'm talking like 7-8 months pregnant. Then,no baby.

You never heard about the birth, nada. I remember thinking that I should cut the article and photograph out as a keepsake, but I did not. I tell you, I regret not having done that. I know what I saw, and read. Years afterward, I would think about it and go, I know what I read. But once that marriage became anulled, I wasn't surprised that the baby, I assumed came out of her? got anulled with the marriage..

Same here. I lived in Toledo and the rumor was that Janet and James got married in Toledo because there is no waiting period in Ohio. I remembered either George Clinton, or someone in his band eloped in Toledo for the same reason so it is not unreasonable to believe that Janet and James married in Toledo.

Anywhoo, the article mentioned that Janet was in the "family way" and would be leaving Fame. And there was jokes that Penny was all grown up now and married and having a baby.

So I don't doubt that Janet was preggers and I mean in her third trimester... she couldn't hide it anymore.

Then she and James got divorce, she spent time in "Europe" the place people used to go when they want to hide out after cosemetic surgeries, dry out clinics etc.

Then I saw Janet on the cover of it was either Ebony or Essence... she wore white and had colored contacts...they were green. She looked beautiful and she was slimmer. In the article she clarified things in her marriage to James... like the fact she did not buy him a mercedes,that was HER mercedes he was driving around town in... and the fact that discussing that whole period in her life was very hard to do. And she was evasive.

I just remembered thinking "what happened to the baby". I have always thought Janet had a baby. Why would she want to hide it? I dunno know... I don't for the life of me know why she wanted to hide marriage to Rene.

I think Janet had a baby also. She was a presenter on one of music award show I wanna say it was the AMA and the showed a backstage side view of her and she definitely had a baby hump. The dress was blue and black if my memory is correct it had to be around 83'-84'ish. Are those shows archived?

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Reply #129 posted 08/27/11 8:47pm

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purplethunder3121 said:

prodigalfan said:

I do remember seeing that picture. I also remembered the one of James standing behind her and putting his arms around her waist and cradling her huge belly. It was the classic couple with child shot.

Sorry, I have tried and tried to find that issue online, but the free archives don't go back far.

shrug Believe what you want... I know what I read. and not from a rag magazine... I'm talking about the Toledo Blade.

stoned

hmmm You should "Just say no". lol

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Reply #130 posted 08/27/11 9:50pm

lowkey

why do people say janet hid a 10 year relationship? rene was right there in public view, who didnt know they were a couple? she tried to keep the marriage a secret but if anybody paid attention there were people calling him her husband long before the divorce, hell latoya came right out and said they were married during her talk show tour.when it comes to things like pregnancies, abortions,miscarriages,ect i really dont think other people should reveal that info, the debarge family are out of line for always bringing this up. james n janet dont talk about it publicly so nobody else should. etterlene debarge is crazy and a hypocrite, she always talkin that religious stuff yet she go to tabloids and spread gossip.

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Reply #131 posted 08/27/11 10:06pm

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prodigalfan said:

Marlena58 said:

Who am I defending? I don't believe Omar is Janet's son but I do believe (like many people) she had a baby. I mean this is the same woman who hid a 10 year relationship. Lets not be so naive

^right. That is why I don't understand why people get this attitude that it is utterly ridiculous that Janet would have secrets. The only reason we ever found out the truth was because courts got involved ( in the divorce)

I just want to say that Janet did NOT hide her 10 year relationship with Rene. It was OBVIOUS that they were together. It was OBVIOUS that they were LIVING TOGETHER as "man and wife"(that's called "common-law marriage".) The only thing that was not obvious is that she and Rene were LEGALLY married. Everything else was obvious and I am tired of people acting as if she HID the RELATIONSHIP. She didn't. This would only have been considered secret if we hadn't known about them being together and living together. Everybody and their mama KNEW that Janet and Rene were TOGETHER.

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Reply #132 posted 08/27/11 10:10pm

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why do people say janet hid a 10 year relationship? rene was right there in public view, who didnt know they were a couple? she tried to keep the marriage a secret but if anybody paid attention there were people calling him her husband long before the divorce, hell latoya came right out and said they were married during her talk show tour.when it comes to things like pregnancies, abortions,miscarriages,ect i really dont think other people should reveal that info, the debarge family are out of line for always bringing this up. james n janet dont talk about it publicly so nobody else should. etterlene debarge is crazy and a hypocrite, she always talkin that religious stuff yet she go to tabloids and spread gossip.

I agree with what you said. I just wrote a post saying basically the same thing about this so-called "secret" relationship. How could it be secret when Janet and Rene were a couple and seen everywhere TOGETHER? They acted like man and wife and were living as man and wife.

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Reply #133 posted 08/27/11 11:36pm

MadamGoodnight

Many people have claimed to have actually seen her in person while in this state. No, not those I've seen Elvis type of sightings, but legit claims. I don't think this one will ever go away. It will be discussed for years to come.

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Reply #134 posted 08/28/11 10:06am

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lowkey said:

when it comes to things like pregnancies, abortions,miscarriages,ect i really dont think other people should reveal that info, the debarge family are out of line for always bringing this up. james n janet dont talk about it publicly so nobody else should. etterlene debarge is crazy and a hypocrite, she always talkin that religious stuff yet she go to tabloids and spread gossip.

nod Instead of constantly gossipping about a "secret grandchild" that may or may not exist,I think Etterlene needs to be more concerned with her own children and the many problems that they're dealing with.Yes,they're all grown but I think they could still use her love,guidance and advice right now.Focus on that.

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Reply #135 posted 08/28/11 12:08pm

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Janet Jackson Does Not Have a Secret Son

08/27/11 11:22am Roger Friedman

I got a kick out of the National Enquirer cover story this week. Janet Jackson’s ex mother in law says that Janet and her son, James, are the parents of Michael Jackson barnicle Omer Bhatti. I don’t know the mechanics of these things: does the Enquirer go to these people and pay them to make up stories? It’s all a lot of fun, I guess. Omer Bhatti, of course, has actual parents in Norway. Their names are Riz and Pia Bhatti.

I’ve written about this a lot over the years. When Omer was 12, they dressed him up a like a mini Michael and brought him to Tunis, where Michael was performing in 1996. Omer did a little moonwalking in the lobby and Michael invited him to his suite. He liked the kid so much that he added the Bhattis to his tour. Then Riz and Pia went to work for him at Neverland.

Over the years, Omer stayed at Neverland even after his parents returned to Norway. When he joined them at home, Omer became a Michael Jackson imitator and made money from it. He let people think he was Michael’s kid. Jackson liked to tell intimates that Omer was his secret illegitimate son; none of it was true. It was just Michael’s fantasy and it was sad.

As far as Janet Jackson goes, I do feel bad for her. For years a persistent rumor circulated that she had a secret child that been raised by her sister, Rebbie. Now it’s this thing. Janet has no children, and I’m sure it’s frustrating to keep reading these crazy stories. Omer Bhatti quite likes it, though, because it perpetuates his connection to Michael Jackson.

http://www.showbiz411.com...secret-son

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Reply #136 posted 08/28/11 2:16pm

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NaughtyKitty said:

Janet Jackson Does Not Have a Secret Son

08/27/11 11:22am Roger Friedman

I got a kick out of the National Enquirer cover story this week. Janet Jackson’s ex mother in law says that Janet and her son, James, are the parents of Michael Jackson barnicle Omer Bhatti. I don’t know the mechanics of these things: does the Enquirer go to these people and pay them to make up stories? It’s all a lot of fun, I guess. Omer Bhatti, of course, has actual parents in Norway. Their names are Riz and Pia Bhatti.

I’ve written about this a lot over the years. When Omer was 12, they dressed him up a like a mini Michael and brought him to Tunis, where Michael was performing in 1996. Omer did a little moonwalking in the lobby and Michael invited him to his suite. He liked the kid so much that he added the Bhattis to his tour. Then Riz and Pia went to work for him at Neverland.

Over the years, Omer stayed at Neverland even after his parents returned to Norway. When he joined them at home, Omer became a Michael Jackson imitator and made money from it. He let people think he was Michael’s kid. Jackson liked to tell intimates that Omer was his secret illegitimate son; none of it was true. It was just Michael’s fantasy and it was sad.

As far as Janet Jackson goes, I do feel bad for her. For years a persistent rumor circulated that she had a secret child that been raised by her sister, Rebbie. Now it’s this thing. Janet has no children, and I’m sure it’s frustrating to keep reading these crazy stories. Omer Bhatti quite likes it, though, because it perpetuates his connection to Michael Jackson.

http://www.showbiz411.com...secret-son

Thanks for clearing this up.

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Reply #137 posted 08/28/11 3:04pm

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Janet's weight blew up when she made the When I Think of You video, too.

Her weight's always been up and down. She was taking birth control pills during her marriage to James, hence the major weight gain.

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Reply #138 posted 08/28/11 3:53pm

lowkey

if the proof that she had a kid is 'she gained weight back when she did fame', well that mean she must have kids throughout the years when she would blow up. she must of had twins in 2006 because she was big as hell.

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Reply #139 posted 08/28/11 4:42pm

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if the proof that she had a kid is 'she gained weight back when she did fame', well that mean she must have kids throughout the years when she would blow up. she must of had twins in 2006 because she was big as hell.

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Reply #140 posted 08/28/11 4:44pm

SoulAlive

NaughtyKitty said:

Janet Jackson Does Not Have a Secret Son

08/27/11 11:22am Roger Friedman

I got a kick out of the National Enquirer cover story this week. Janet Jackson’s ex mother in law says that Janet and her son, James, are the parents of Michael Jackson barnicle Omer Bhatti. I don’t know the mechanics of these things: does the Enquirer go to these people and pay them to make up stories? It’s all a lot of fun, I guess. Omer Bhatti, of course, has actual parents in Norway. Their names are Riz and Pia Bhatti.

I’ve written about this a lot over the years. When Omer was 12, they dressed him up a like a mini Michael and brought him to Tunis, where Michael was performing in 1996. Omer did a little moonwalking in the lobby and Michael invited him to his suite. He liked the kid so much that he added the Bhattis to his tour. Then Riz and Pia went to work for him at Neverland.

Over the years, Omer stayed at Neverland even after his parents returned to Norway. When he joined them at home, Omer became a Michael Jackson imitator and made money from it. He let people think he was Michael’s kid. Jackson liked to tell intimates that Omer was his secret illegitimate son; none of it was true. It was just Michael’s fantasy and it was sad.

As far as Janet Jackson goes, I do feel bad for her. For years a persistent rumor circulated that she had a secret child that been raised by her sister, Rebbie. Now it’s this thing. Janet has no children, and I’m sure it’s frustrating to keep reading these crazy stories. Omer Bhatti quite likes it, though, because it perpetuates his connection to Michael Jackson.

http://www.showbiz411.com...secret-son

Well,I guess this clears up everything up once and for once.Someone needs to send a copy of this article to Etterlene.Let's see her try to dispute these facts lol

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Reply #141 posted 08/28/11 8:05pm

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Free2BMe said:

prodigalfan said:

^right. That is why I don't understand why people get this attitude that it is utterly ridiculous that Janet would have secrets. The only reason we ever found out the truth was because courts got involved ( in the divorce)

I just want to say that Janet did NOT hide her 10 year relationship with Rene. It was OBVIOUS that they were together. It was OBVIOUS that they were LIVING TOGETHER as "man and wife"(that's called "common-law marriage".) The only thing that was not obvious is that she and Rene were LEGALLY married. Everything else was obvious and I am tired of people acting as if she HID the RELATIONSHIP. She didn't. This would only have been considered secret if we hadn't known about them being together and living together. Everybody and their mama KNEW that Janet and Rene were TOGETHER.

Yeah, I remembered a interview on a late night talk show where Rene was there and the interviewer asked them when were they going to get married.

Rene started to speak and then Janet answered something... I can't remember what she said, but I know what she DID not say.... that they were already married.

I highly suspected then that they were already married, but Janet wanted it to remain private. That is cool, and understandable. But the fact it, she was not forthcoming. So I don't understand why people act shocked when people believe that she is hiding other things.

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Reply #142 posted 08/28/11 8:59pm

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El come get your momma, so now Michael is omer's father and Janet is his mother lol

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Reply #143 posted 08/28/11 9:06pm

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mimi07 said:

El come get your momma, so now Michael is omer's father and Janet is his mother lol

Oh man! shake lol But I wouldnt be surprised if the tabloids tried to run w/a story like that.

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Reply #144 posted 08/28/11 9:14pm

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prodigalfan said:

Free2BMe said:

I just want to say that Janet did NOT hide her 10 year relationship with Rene. It was OBVIOUS that they were together. It was OBVIOUS that they were LIVING TOGETHER as "man and wife"(that's called "common-law marriage".) The only thing that was not obvious is that she and Rene were LEGALLY married. Everything else was obvious and I am tired of people acting as if she HID the RELATIONSHIP. She didn't. This would only have been considered secret if we hadn't known about them being together and living together. Everybody and their mama KNEW that Janet and Rene were TOGETHER.

Yeah, I remembered a interview on a late night talk show where Rene was there and the interviewer asked them when were they going to get married.

Rene started to speak and then Janet answered something... I can't remember what she said, but I know what she DID not say.... that they were already married.

I highly suspected then that they were already married, but Janet wanted it to remain private. That is cool, and understandable. But the fact it, she was not forthcoming. So I don't understand why people act shocked when people believe that she is hiding other things.

It was Arsenio Hall show.

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Reply #145 posted 08/29/11 1:20am

Ottensen

purplethunder3121 said:

prodigalfan said:

I do remember seeing that picture. I also remembered the one of James standing behind her and putting his arms around her waist and cradling her huge belly. It was the classic couple with child shot.

Sorry, I have tried and tried to find that issue online, but the free archives don't go back far.

shrug Believe what you want... I know what I read. and not from a rag magazine... I'm talking about the Toledo Blade.

stoned

You can't be serious with that, no? lol

For what reason would she (or I lie)?

These orgers kill me with some of these emoticons in silly attempts to discredit other people's posts; people get so caught up in their projections onto celebrities that they can never consider the possibility that sometimes they have secrets or certain aspects of their lives that the general public have no clue about. Lord knows I've been around enough celebrities to know that they all have secret corners to their lives that no one outside of their immediate circles are privy to. As a result I never rule out any possibilities when these these wacky ass stories from the world of Hollyweird surface. I'm not saying that there is a child, but I can assure you my memory and vision are just fine, and thus I stand wholly and completely by what I say about seeing preggo photos in some old black music magazines. Whether anyone likes it or not. coffee

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Reply #146 posted 08/29/11 4:24am

SoulAlive

prodigalfan said:

Free2BMe said:

I just want to say that Janet did NOT hide her 10 year relationship with Rene. It was OBVIOUS that they were together. It was OBVIOUS that they were LIVING TOGETHER as "man and wife"(that's called "common-law marriage".) The only thing that was not obvious is that she and Rene were LEGALLY married. Everything else was obvious and I am tired of people acting as if she HID the RELATIONSHIP. She didn't. This would only have been considered secret if we hadn't known about them being together and living together. Everybody and their mama KNEW that Janet and Rene were TOGETHER.

Yeah, I remembered a interview on a late night talk show where Rene was there and the interviewer asked them when were they going to get married.

Rene started to speak and then Janet answered something... I can't remember what she said, but I know what she DID not say.... that they were already married.

I highly suspected then that they were already married, but Janet wanted it to remain private. That is cool, and understandable. But the fact it, she was not forthcoming. So I don't understand why people act shocked when people believe that she is hiding other things.

I don't understand why she just didn't say "Yeah,Rene and I are married".Why the need to deny that? People already knew they were a couple anyway.Sometimes,when you hide certain facts from the public,you just make things worse.That's why some people believe that there is a secret child.The attitude becomes "well...she wasn't forthcoming about her marriage,so maybe she's hiding a secret child,too".Michael Jackson played this game,too.He wasn't totally forthcoming about his surgeries,his children and how they were conceived,etc.Don't get me wrong,I truly understand why they do this.They want to have a private life and this stuff isn't our business anyway,but I'm not sure if their strategy is the right one.

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Reply #147 posted 08/29/11 5:32am

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KCOOLMUZIQ said:

prodigalfan said:

Yeah, I remembered a interview on a late night talk show where Rene was there and the interviewer asked them when were they going to get married.

Rene started to speak and then Janet answered something... I can't remember what she said, but I know what she DID not say.... that they were already married.

I highly suspected then that they were already married, but Janet wanted it to remain private. That is cool, and understandable. But the fact it, she was not forthcoming. So I don't understand why people act shocked when people believe that she is hiding other things.

It was Arsenio Hall show.

yep. Thanks it was Arsenio Hall show.
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Reply #148 posted 08/29/11 5:42am

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SoulAlive said:

prodigalfan said:

Yeah, I remembered a interview on a late night talk show where Rene was there and the interviewer asked them when were they going to get married.

Rene started to speak and then Janet answered something... I can't remember what she said, but I know what she DID not say.... that they were already married.

I highly suspected then that they were already married, but Janet wanted it to remain private. That is cool, and understandable. But the fact it, she was not forthcoming. So I don't understand why people act shocked when people believe that she is hiding other things.

I don't understand why she just didn't say "Yeah,Rene and I are married".Why the need to deny that? People already knew they were a couple anyway.Sometimes,when you hide certain facts from the public,you just make things worse.That's why some people believe that there is a secret child.The attitude becomes "well...she wasn't forthcoming about her marriage,so maybe she's hiding a secret child,too".Michael Jackson played this game,too.He wasn't totally forthcoming about his surgeries,his children and how they were conceived,etc.Don't get me wrong,I truly understand why they do this.They want to have a private life and this stuff isn't our business anyway,but I'm not sure if their strategy is the right one.

exactly. I think some celebrities make it worst (by design). Look at Madonna... she jogs on the streets of NYC. Had 2 kids and ID both fathers... no big controversy... no papparazi stalking her kids. Totally NORMAL. When people conceal and outright lie... it just fans the flames. Maybe this is by design. hmmm

At any rate, I don't understand why she didn't just say we are already married. I got the feeling that Rene sure wanted to say something before Janet smoothly responded to the answer.

And like Ottensen said... I know what I saw too. Janet had a pregnancy bump bigger than what Beyonce is showing now. On the show Fame, she wore a lot of jumpers with the skinny belt hanging around her waist and the belt drooped down. it used to be the style. Anyway, that was the first that I noticed that she had a pouch in there.

Then the next show, her character sat down a lot or would be standing behind a stack of books etc. Soap opera fans recogninze these are strategies used when an actress is pg and the pregnancy is not written in the show.

Finally, she had her last scene on the show... that was late spring. By summer I read in my hometown newspaper that Janet was joining the ranks of expectant moms and would not be on the next season of Fame because she was in the family way.

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Reply #149 posted 08/29/11 5:47am

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SoulAlive said:

I don't understand why she just didn't say "Yeah,Rene and I are married".Why the need to deny that? People already knew they were a couple anyway.Sometimes,when you hide certain facts from the public,you just make things worse.That's why some people believe that there is a secret child.The attitude becomes "well...she wasn't forthcoming about her marriage,so maybe she's hiding a secret child,too".Michael Jackson played this game,too.He wasn't totally forthcoming about his surgeries,his children and how they were conceived,etc.Don't get me wrong,I truly understand why they do this.They want to have a private life and this stuff isn't our business anyway,but I'm not sure if their strategy is the right one.

exactly. I think some celebrities make it worst (by design). Look at Madonna... she jogs on the streets of NYC. Had 2 kids and ID both fathers... no big controversy... no papparazi stalking her kids. Totally NORMAL. When people conceal and outright lie... it just fans the flames. Maybe this is by design. hmmm

At any rate, I don't understand why she didn't just say we are already married. I got the feeling that Rene sure wanted to say something before Janet smoothly responded to the answer.

And like Ottensen said... I know what I saw too. Janet had a pregnancy bump bigger than what Beyonce is showing now. On the show Fame, she wore a lot of jumpers with the skinny belt hanging around her waist and the belt drooped down. it used to be the style. Anyway, that was the first that I noticed that she had a pouch in there.

Then the next show, her character sat down a lot or would be standing behind a stack of books etc. Soap opera fans recogninze these are strategies used when an actress is pg and the pregnancy is not written in the show.

Finally, she had her last scene on the show... that was late spring. By summer I read in my hometown newspaper that Janet was joining the ranks of expectant moms and would not be on the next season of Fame because she was in the family way.

Exactly.Madonna has never tried to hide her children or her marriages.What's the point? I remember when Michael used to make his kids wear masks in public to hide their identity disbelief that was sad and totally unnecessary.

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