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Reply #60 posted 08/25/11 5:46pm

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LIES!!!!!!!!!! lol

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Reply #61 posted 08/25/11 5:47pm

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This is what's funny about the org, most of you think you know stuff that you don't lol . Janet WAS pregnant back in the day [I know a fact that she was. I know certain people biggrin ]. I'm just not sure what kid is hers or if she kept the baby. But Janet WAS Preggo!

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Reply #62 posted 08/25/11 5:52pm

SoulAlive

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This is what's funny about the org, most of you think you know stuff that you don't lol . Janet WAS pregnant back in the day [I know a fact that she was. I know certain people biggrin ]. I'm just not sure what kid is hers or if she kept the baby. But Janet WAS Preggo!

Was this back in her 'Fame' days? Around 1984 or so?

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Reply #63 posted 08/25/11 5:55pm

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Was at Wal-Mart today and saw todays edition of the N.E.--there it was, right up at the check-out lane. So I picked it up and read it. To sum it up, Etterlene strongly believes that Omar is James & Janet's son, but she has no hardcore proof. She wants Omar to take a DNA test. She thinks Omar looks just like James. Says that James had told her that Janet was pregnant with their child when they were married.

She said the time she spent with Janet she could tell she was definitely pregnant. But then Janet disappeared for a few weeks, and James and Etterlene didnt know where she was at. When they saw Janet again she was much slimmer, and she told James that she had miscarried. Etterlene says she never believed that Janet miscarried but James did.

She says she later found out that Janet went to Europe during the time she was pregnant---and believes that she had the child and gave the kid to a family in Norway. And that the Jacksons, through Michael, have been taking care of Omar and his family for years.

And she also believes that Janet came clean and admitted to James that Omar is their child a few years ago... confused confused confused

Basically that was it.

EDIT: Found an excerpt from the story posted at http://wendyista.blogspot...s-son.html

"That's Janet son!" Etterlene, 75, told the Enquirer after comparing a picture f Omer with her son James at our request. "That's my grandson! He looks just like James did whe was young. He has the same bone structure and smile. Even the eyebrows are the same. I always believed Janet was pregnant by my son and gave birth 27 years ago. And when I saw her brother Michael with Omer, I knew it was true. Omer is Janet's son."....Etterlene says her son told her that Janet was carrying his child during their brief marriage. "James told me that he got Janet pregnant when she was 18 in 1984," Etterlene, a former gospel singer and matriarch of the famed DeBarge singing family, told The Enquirer. "Janet and I spent some time together back then, and it was obvious to me she was very pregnant. I even teased Janet about it. She laughed it off, but I have no doubt she was carrying a child. I have 10 of my own, so I know 'pregnant' when I see it....Within a few days of my pregnancy comments, Janet disappeared. Even my son James had no idea where she was. When she came back a month after, she was slimmer and there was no baby. Janet told James that she had miscarried. I never believed that, but James said he did." Etterlene said she learned later that Janet was in Europe during the time she would have been pregnant, and she's convinced the Jackson family plotted to cover up the child's birth to protect Janet's fledgling career.

Source: National Enquirer, Sept. 5, print edition
Etterlene tells the tabloid she has a strong suspicion Janet gave birth to the child in Norway and the Jackson family paid a Norwegian family to raise Omer, who's now 27. For the record: Both Janet and her husband of one-year James have denied this. But, Etterlene, who already has 55 grandchildren, says, her son -- and Janet, for that matter -- are lying. She says she wants a DNA test to prove she's right and wishes that one day Omer will "come knocking on [her] door and [they] can be one big happy family." Yeah, good luck with that.

Read more: http://wendyista.blogspot...z1W5Z4Yfza

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rolleyes @ Etterlene

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Reply #64 posted 08/25/11 6:03pm

SoulAlive

hmmm so a pregnant Janet went to Norway,had a child,and gave it to a family in Norway?! falloff

Etterlene has a vivid imagination!

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Reply #65 posted 08/25/11 6:14pm

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Tittypants said:

This is what's funny about the org, most of you think you know stuff that you don't lol . Janet WAS pregnant back in the day [I know a fact that she was. I know certain people biggrin ]. I'm just not sure what kid is hers or if she kept the baby. But Janet WAS Preggo!

Was this back in her 'Fame' days? Around 1984 or so?

i always thought she was. i used to watch fame pretty religiously back in the day and remember when she came on. i remember at first, she had a lot of scenes - after all, this is mj's sis we're talking about at the height of thriller-mania - then she started to have less and less screentime. i can remember a whole scene with her sitting. i was more struck by the fact that it was an odd scene since i don't think she spoke at all. but now, of course, i look back on it and wonder if she was shot that way b/c she was pregnant.

i remember how they wrote her out of the series, it was an episode pretty much dedicated to cleo(?) and in the last scene, it's a long shot and she turns to walk away, i remember thinking that janet looked pregnant. but i didn't dwell on it. i only started to think about it more b/c other people also seemed to notice what i had noticed.

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Reply #66 posted 08/25/11 6:23pm

SoulAlive

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SoulAlive said:

Was this back in her 'Fame' days? Around 1984 or so?

i always thought she was. i used to watch fame pretty religiously back in the day and remember when she came on. i remember at first, she had a lot of scenes - after all, this is mj's sis we're talking about at the height of thriller-mania - then she started to have less and less screentime. i can remember a whole scene with her sitting. i was more struck by the fact that it was an odd scene since i don't think she spoke at all. but now, of course, i look back on it and wonder if she was shot that way b/c she was pregnant.

i remember how they wrote her out of the series, it was an episode pretty much dedicated to cleo(?) and in the last scene, it's a long shot and she turns to walk away, i remember thinking that janet looked pregnant. but i didn't dwell on it. i only started to think about it more b/c other people also seemed to notice what i had noticed.

Interesting.Btw,I was watching an episode of 'Fame' just the other day.It was from 1982,a few years before Janet joined the cast.That was such a lousy show lol Stupid songs!!!! The movie was great but the TV series sucked.

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Reply #67 posted 08/25/11 6:40pm

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hmmm so a pregnant Janet went to Norway,had a child,and gave it to a family in Norway?! falloff

Etterlene has a vivid imagination!

If U watched the De Barge Unsung episode last year. Etterlene looked like she wasn't playing with a full deck. That women is not all there. That family has some type of mental illness. The father abused her. James was beatened daily by his older brother. Because the father showed favoritism toward him. It also was hinted that the siblings particularly Bunny was sexually abused by the father..

So what i'm saying is take anything she says with a grain of salt...

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Reply #68 posted 08/25/11 6:57pm

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SoulAlive said:

hmmm so a pregnant Janet went to Norway,had a child,and gave it to a family in Norway?! falloff

Etterlene has a vivid imagination!

Elder mothers of famous families say and do the darndest things, don't they? Katherine & Etterlene, I like to speak to the both of y'all...

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Reply #69 posted 08/25/11 6:58pm

Timmy84

KCOOLMUZIQ said:

SoulAlive said:

hmmm so a pregnant Janet went to Norway,had a child,and gave it to a family in Norway?! falloff

Etterlene has a vivid imagination!

If U watched the De Barge Unsung episode last year. Etterlene looked like she wasn't playing with a full deck. That women is not all there. That family has some type of mental illness. The father abused her. James was beatened daily by his older brother. Because the father showed favoritism toward him. It also was hinted that the siblings particularly Bunny was sexually abused by the father..

So what i'm saying is take anything she says with a grain of salt...

Etterlene definitely looked like she was not 100% there on the Unsung show. sad

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Reply #70 posted 08/25/11 7:24pm

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This is what's funny about the org, most of you think you know stuff that you don't lol . Janet WAS pregnant back in the day [I know a fact that she was. I know certain people biggrin ]. I'm just not sure what kid is hers or if she kept the baby. But Janet WAS Preggo!

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well james himself said janet got pregnant and had a abortion, i mean her getting pregnant is not farfetched, she was having sex after all. the secret kid thing is where it dont add up, for one they were married so how could janet just give the kid away without james consent? the marriage was annulled, a judge wont annul a marriage if there are kids involved. you got one debarge saying he knew the girl and hung out with her, you got the mom saying she has no proof but she 'believes' there is a kid, now all a sudden its not a girl but a boy.in the meantime this kid would be grown now and still nobody can produce a pic, birth certificate, nothing? latoya went on a ruin her family rant where she said her dad raped her sister and her brother raped lil boys but never said her sister had a baby and gave it away, um ok.

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Reply #71 posted 08/25/11 7:39pm

mjscarousal

SMH..... Those goons wont stop at nothing.... the press is relentless. I like Degarge but why do they keep go running to the tabloids lying???????? This shit is old and tired.

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Reply #72 posted 08/25/11 8:39pm

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Logically if you look at timelines, she never had the kid. The timeline of the "girl" from the rumor 5 years didn't match, and I thought Omer was 26, not 27 like this article says. I can believe abortion or miscarriage if it's really true she was pregnant, but I don't believe there was a kid at all. Janet also said she was taking birth control pills at that time too, but who knows....and who cares.

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Reply #73 posted 08/25/11 9:08pm

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kibbles said:

i always thought she was. i used to watch fame pretty religiously back in the day and remember when she came on. i remember at first, she had a lot of scenes - after all, this is mj's sis we're talking about at the height of thriller-mania - then she started to have less and less screentime. i can remember a whole scene with her sitting. i was more struck by the fact that it was an odd scene since i don't think she spoke at all. but now, of course, i look back on it and wonder if she was shot that way b/c she was pregnant.

i remember how they wrote her out of the series, it was an episode pretty much dedicated to cleo(?) and in the last scene, it's a long shot and she turns to walk away, i remember thinking that janet looked pregnant. but i didn't dwell on it. i only started to think about it more b/c other people also seemed to notice what i had noticed.

Interesting.Btw,I was watching an episode of 'Fame' just the other day.It was from 1982,a few years before Janet joined the cast.That was such a lousy show lol Stupid songs!!!! The movie was great but the TV series sucked.

LOL! you are so right! some of the actors were okay; i remember liking nia peeples. can i just say in my defense, i was young. i mean, i wouldn't even watch the 'facts of life' now for nostalgic value if it was on nick at nite right this second, but my little face was all up in the tv back then when it was on.

remember the jermaine/tootie episode. lawd hab mercy. . .

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Reply #74 posted 08/25/11 10:16pm

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She took birth control pills back then, hence the chubbiness. She was never pregnant.

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Reply #75 posted 08/25/11 10:17pm

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I believe hes hers. biggrin

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Reply #76 posted 08/26/11 12:21am

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I've always been on the fence about this. Meaning, I don't know whether the baby lived or died. But i remember when the story broke about Janet being pregnant in my local newspaper. It was a major article because James being from Detroit and then Grand Rapids. Janet was clearly pregnant. I'm talking like 7-8 months pregnant. Then,no baby.

You never heard about the birth, nada. I remember thinking that I should cut the article and photograph out as a keepsake, but I did not. I tell you, I regret not having done that. I know what I saw, and read. Years afterward, I would think about it and go, I know what I read. But once that marriage became anulled, I wasn't surprised that the baby, I assumed came out of her? got anulled with the marriage.

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Weight! You believe the basic and unsupported and rumored premise that Janet has a child because she "was on Fame she was preggers and then you didn't see her anymore." AND, you don't believe this for two seconds because I'm just gonna stop.

You must be a child. I remember clear as day when Janet was on on Fame and I remember Jet magazine showing pictures of a very pregnant Janet. Then no one talked about it or her sudden weight gain anymore. Im not stupid. I have three kids of my own and Janet was preggers. Omar is NOT black in any way shape or form so I don't know what your trying to get at.

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Reply #77 posted 08/26/11 12:40am

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I've always been on the fence about this. Meaning, I don't know whether the baby lived or died. But i remember when the story broke about Janet being pregnant in my local newspaper. It was a major article because James being from Detroit and then Grand Rapids. Janet was clearly pregnant. I'm talking like 7-8 months pregnant. Then,no baby.

You never heard about the birth, nada. I remember thinking that I should cut the article and photograph out as a keepsake, but I did not. I tell you, I regret not having done that. I know what I saw, and read. Years afterward, I would think about it and go, I know what I read. But once that marriage became anulled, I wasn't surprised that the baby, I assumed came out of her? got anulled with the marriage.

Marlena58 said:

You must be a child. I remember clear as day when Janet was on on Fame and I remember Jet magazine showing pictures of a very pregnant Janet. Then no one talked about it or her sudden weight gain anymore. Im not stupid. I have three kids of my own and Janet was preggers. Omar is NOT black in any way shape or form so I don't know what your trying to get at.

Problem solved. If your story is accurate there will be archival evidence in these local papers. Do not stop, run to your local newspaper archives. (If you are the one who solves this mystery surely there is a bunch of money to be had selling the story.) And with such controversial and inflamitory information that impacts someone's life so deeply you really ought to verify it, if you can - and if what you say is true, it is verifiable 24 hours a day. If you do not bother to verify this information your word is not worth the ink those newspapers were printed with 25 years ago.

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Reply #78 posted 08/26/11 3:58am

SoulAlive

In this 1985 picture,she looks like she had gained a little weight and is wearing all black to hide it hmmm Maybe this is why the pregnancy rumors started?

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Reply #79 posted 08/26/11 4:39am

KCOOLMUZIQ

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In this 1985 picture,she looks like she had gained a little weight and is wearing all black to hide it hmmm Maybe this is why the pregnancy rumors started?

James looks high as a kite here! I remember seeing them together at Six Flags magic mountain around the summer of 84 being incognito. Barely recognized Janet she looked very haggard. I recognized James first right away.They did not want to be bothered especially Janet. De Barge was at the height of there success then. What a difference a couple of years what end up making. Janet end up turning into a major superstar. James ends up showing up drugged completely out at one of her appearances. That's another story.

eye will ALWAYS think of prince like a "ACT OF GOD"! N another realm. eye mean of all people who might of been aliens or angels.if found out that prince wasn't of this earth, eye would not have been that surprised. R.I.P. prince
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Reply #80 posted 08/26/11 8:14am

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This is all quite interesting. I think Omar kinda resembles James a bit, but he doesnt resemble Janet at all, nor Michael, nor any Jackson for that matter. Etterlene, Etterlene, disbelief What can I say? I aint mad at her, I think she truly believes that the kid is James and Janet's son. She knows Janet was pregnant, but she disappeared for a few weeks, came back and...no baby. She wants to know what happened to the baby. She sees Omar who kinda resembles James and she thinks he's the child of James & Janet. Maybe its too hard for her to think that their baby was miscarried or aborted.

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Reply #81 posted 08/26/11 8:20am

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Or maybe there never was a baby.

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Reply #82 posted 08/26/11 8:24am

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There may or may not have ever been a baby but people are saying that Janet was pregnant and its not that far-fetched to believe that she was since they were married. Was she on birth control? Maybe, maybe not, if so, maybe it failed on her one time. I dont know...no one really knows except for Janet and James.

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Reply #83 posted 08/26/11 8:29am

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Or the "baby," which would now be a grown adult and probably would have surfaced by this time. That was over a quarter of a century ago, folks. Time to throw the "baby" out with the bath water. lol

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Reply #84 posted 08/26/11 8:32am

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LOL some people just dont want to let some things go even when its clearly made up... I guess its fun to talk about for them LOL

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Reply #85 posted 08/26/11 8:33am

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^ I agree. I think Janet was pregnant but that she either lost the baby or had an abortion. I dont believe she has a secret child out in the world somewhere.

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Reply #86 posted 08/26/11 9:57am

SoulAlive

yeah,I also think Janet was pregnant but either miscarried or had an abortion.It's absurd to think that she would try to "hide" a baby,or give it to another family to raise.Why would she need to do that?

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Reply #87 posted 08/26/11 10:01am

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Frankly, I don't think Janet wanted kids then, now, or ever.

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Reply #88 posted 08/26/11 10:05am

Timmy84

[sarcasm]I heard from a friend who's a member of a family from a family member that Janet had that kid and is in Russia.[/sarcasm] lol

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Reply #89 posted 08/26/11 10:07am

SoulAlive

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Frankly, I don't think Janet wanted kids then, now, or ever.

I kinda get that feeling too.

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