I don't believe that this young man is a Jackson or a Debarge. But, like I posted previously, the Jackson family is very good at keeping private business....private. If Janet can be marriage for ten years and no one outside of her and Rene know that they're married, then who's to say that Janet and James didn't have a daughter (I'm going with daughter, because I'm still on the fence about the maternity of that young lady with Babyface of Debarge "Unsung"). I mean, at the end of the day, so what if that union created a child. It's not like it's the first time in history that a celebrity couples had a child. It shouldn't change anyone's perception of either of them. | |
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James has never confirmed nor denied that he has a child by Janet. The only thing that I have ever heard him say on the matter was that there were things that went on in their marriage that had hurt them both. I do think that Janet was pregnant and that she "got rid" of the baby. Once the marriage ended, I think that there was some sort of gag order put in place to keep James quiet about it. Because of this, I think that's some of what's wrong with James. Knowing that one of these people (the boy or the girl) could be his child, is tearing him apart. And Janet is so stupid! She needs to grow up, wise up and realize that she is hurting this man. He needs to get this off his chest so that he can heal and move on. Did you see James crying in the little clip from the Dr. Drew show? He's hurting. Plain and simple. He needs healing from something more than just the drugs. The drugs are symptoms of a deeper problem. | |
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Janet is stupid because she has a right over her body and the choice she makes? Really? I can imagine it being sad to lose a child, but I really don't believe there was one, and if there was, it was never born. | |
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That was James' own fault... and I still don't buy that Janet was even close to being pregnant. She was always chunky. But I guess people believe the stories printed back then and hold on to it as if the truth will come out. Well it's 27 years about, if it don't "come out" now, don't expect for it to ever be "revealed" and James has his own demons that he gotta fix. Ain't Janet's fault he turned into a junkie. | |
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Yeah James was at fault for falling in love with an ignorant, undereducated, selfish, immature, lying, backstabing thick ho, who's ONLY interest was always about herself!
My point wasn't that James is a user, he was using before he met Janet. My point is that I THINK she is part of the reason now. It's just my opinion, bro! But because they have that past, it's still something that he's got to deal with because it's still being thrown in his face that he could be the father of a child that he cannot deny or claim because of her.
For the record, we will all believe what we think to be is truth. You don't believe she had a kid, and I think she did. End of story. Whether the truth will ever come out or not, I don't know. The proof is running through those peoples veins! Right now, only they know! | |
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(FYI I really am eating popcorn right now). [Edited 9/20/11 10:04am] | |
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OK, tell us why you're REALLY mad. | |
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Timmy, you are only making YOURSELF look like the biggest fool on here.
#1) I'm not mad
#2) I have the right to express my opinion. This is a forum and every man has the right to their own opinion.
#3) Even if I was mad, I don't owe YOU an explanation!
Next time, don't call me out.
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Yeah like criticizing someone for something you weren't around for gives you right to say all that? I guess if that's how you see it, good for you. | |
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Timmy,...you are only just proving my point!!!! But, if you are quite finished, then I'm moving on! Ok? I'm done with this. | |
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@Toxic ,
heres my thing , put yourself in 18 or 19 year Janet's Shoes in 84 & 85 she was still A baby herself even at 18 your not thinking ohhhhh i'ma be A star Or i'ma Keep A Baby , mind you She may have put the Baby up for Adoption not due to her been Selfish But due to her still been Young & Nieve & possibly not Ready for Motherhood it happens , then you have James who's on Drugs & Marriage is Fallin Apart put all that together & tell me if any 18 or 19 year old would be able to handle A Bad Marriage & A Child & then They were both In the spotlight back then .
Lets not forget The reason why Janet may not be talking about it Is due to A Agreement with The Child's adoptive Family have anyone thought that maybe Janet & the Adopted Family may have Agreed to not tell anything optaining the Child & thats why she doesn't speak of it But in the Same time Shes never Denied it which means She & whom Ever Adopted the Baby may have had Janet to Agree upon Not talking Or VS Janet had the Family to agree they not talk upon the cHild been Adopted which is Damn Possible since it is Common for A Mother to Adopt her Maybe & telling the Adopt Family they do not want the child to know of them .
& also maybe she felt at the time that puting the Baby up for adoption was for the best inrest of the Child & in most cases it is & I don't think Janet was been Selfish If she put her Baby up for Adoption Its better then keeping A child you don't want & then abuse that child because you don't want it or isn't ready to me thats more selfish then Giving up the Baby .
James & His Family needs to stop If the child is now 29 or 26 years old It doesn't Know them Why go & open up A can of Warms & who to say the Child would Accept them into their life after 20 Something years & I wouldn't want to Open up A can Of warms especially If the Child's Adopt Parents aren't talking & the Kid has had A good life without The Drama I'm seen With The DeBarge's .
& the DeBarge's aren't Thinking If the Kid is adopted what makes them think that this Child's Adopted Family would be pleased of them coming into their lives & their Child's life because The DeBarge's Talk to damn much & as we can see They run to the Tabloids & Media with this Mysterious Kid Janet had Just Imagine what they would do If they ever found out there is One & If I was the Adopt Family I would be Pissed off that These People want to come into my child's life & interrupt it with Media & papparizi & crap .
Could you Imagine what the Media & paparizi would if its ever revealed that theirs A Child between Janet & James That Kid would never have any Privacy hell you see what they do to Prince, Paris, & Blanket Just Imagine what they would do too A Kid Beloning to Janet Jackson & maybe thats Another Big reason why Janet won't Talk about it & is keeping it Hush Hushed Cause she doesn't want Her kid to be Bothered by Greedy , Snobby , Paparizi & media .
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Sorry But Kristinia Is within the DeBarge Family & Her Mother is Named Christine Or Christina So That Young Girl is not Janet & James's Daughter Sweet heart . | |
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Hi jax! Yeah, yeah...you could be right. But also at that time in her life, her father was her manager. My guess is, he had something to do with the decision of whether or not she should keep that kid. You could also be right when it comes to those people knowing and just not wanting to be a part of the drama they've seen? Who knows, right? But as far as 'James needing to stop', again, let me stress that I have yet to hear the man come out and say anything on the matter! Have you? Then please share! | |
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& the DeBarge's aren't Thinking If the Kid is adopted what makes them think that this Child's Adopted Family would be pleased of them coming into their lives & their Child's life because The DeBarge's Talk to damn much & as we can see They run to the Tabloids & Media with this Mysterious Kid Janet had Just Imagine what they would do If they ever found out there is One & If I was the Adopt Family I would be Pissed off that These People want to come into my child's life & interrupt it with Media & papparizi & crap .
Could you Imagine what the Media & paparizi would if its ever revealed that theirs A Child between Janet & James That Kid would never have any Privacy hell you see what they do to Prince, Paris, & Blanket Just Imagine what they would do too A Kid Beloning to Janet Jackson & maybe thats Another Big reason why Janet won't Talk about it & is keeping it Hush Hushed Cause she doesn't want Her kid to be Bothered by Greedy , Snobby , Paparizi & media .
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people need t [Edited 9/20/11 12:29pm] | |
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I think James Approach is right But I think If there is A Kid Janet Should at least go to The Adopted Family & ask if it would be ok to allow the Child to Meet its Birth Father So that James can at least Breath & have some Closure knowing he has A child instead of making Him Suffer & wonder .
His Mother & Family should stop , James however think Should at least be the one to know & meet the Baby. | |
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thank youi [Edited 9/20/11 12:42pm] [Edited 9/20/11 12:45pm] | |
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Ok. Fair enough. I think so too, that if James wants to know and this kid is willing, that he should know. I mean, what harm could come of it now? | |
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Especially if she set it up Privately & the Family & Child are Willing to Meet him I think James have been Good Cause He could be the one Throwing her ass Under the Moving Bus but hes not I think He Deserves to know at least .
& If she had A Abortion then Privately Show JamesTHe Papers , Instead of making him Suffer I mean Damn at least give the poor guy closure why make him Suffer because your ass is to selfish to at least show Documents Or if theres a kid let James see him/or her .
& telling people you had A Abortion doesn't mean its True Hell Show proof Damn it Janet Now this is Making my Heart break for James cause I mean Give the man Closure Idiot ..
& don't Janet know any woman can go & have A kid give it up for Adoption & go & tell Family they had A Abortion like my Aunt did & for years My Grand mother Always told us my Aunt had A baby & was lying & 28 years later my aunt finally told & we met the Child He was Mix White & Black .
So Janet should know Words don't mean shit & just because she says thats what happen doesn't really give James or his family peace or Closure they want Hard core Evidence & Proof .
& telling them isn't really nothing cause she can tell the World she had A Abortion But what good doesn't it do if you can't or won't show proof .
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what bus [Edited 9/20/11 13:18pm] | |
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what business it ours that she had an abortion? you don't think James knows about it ? lol that family dosn't want no closure they attention. | |
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& to be honest I don't think Mrs.DeBarge thinks its Omer , I think shes using him To try to get the Truth out of Janet I think shes like my Grandma a little She knows theres something there & she may damn well be Right & I don't know why But I Believe her I Believe Janet has A Child & is keeping it A Secret .
I However don't think Mrs.DeBarge should go to the Tabloids She should go to James & Janet . | |
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you know not long ago I had the DeBarge's on my Facebook & Mrs.DeBarge E-mailed me asking me If I was the kid because I have pictures up & she was like You look like my son & Janet , I told her Yes I get that a lot from People .
She Responded with You cloud be A DeBarge , I Replied back I'm Sorry but I don't talk about my Family online at all & I was like I get asked a lot about it But I don't talk about My Parents to anyone .
She replied I Understand but you look Just like Janet & James to me , I replied thank you .
This was Before all the Omer Bhatti crap came up Months back & I'm like huhhhhh? why would she E-mail me about who I look like & that I look like her Son & After I told her I don't talk about my Family Or Parents I never heard from her .
& then This with Omer Bhatti Comes up .......LOL .
I'm like My Mother looked like young Janet & my Dad is Mix American Indian & Black & I'm like I don't Believe I'm Family & I'm like Why would Mrs.DeBarge E-mail me asking me that & I guess I stopped her from farthering the Convo By saying I do not Talk about Family online .......LOL
I personally thought it was Crazy & Strange I'm Like I may look like Janet cause my Mom did sadly my Mother Died in 2001 so I don't talk about my mom because its to Hard for me even 10 years later .
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and that's proof thoes people are fetchiing for attention , you don't go to know damn taboild, or bring it up everytime you have an album out or ask radom people, you go striaght to James or Janet and if they tell her they don't have a child than she needs to accept it plain and simple. and James needs to step up and tell his family to stop it , it's between Janet and James ( and to somewhat extent I could see Etterhene since she would be a grandmother) but aevery other Debagrge needs to stop [Edited 9/20/11 13:42pm] | |
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I Notice She stop talking to me Once I stopped the Convo I'm like i'm not Janet Or Janet's Kid even though my Family & friends tease me about been adopted & shit I do not think I am & I even If was She shouldn't go to Any child & ask them that & i'm like thats the wrong thing to do .
& I notice Right after that I Heard about the NE Mag & Etterlene Claiming Omer & I'm like OK! Why is she Going to NE Claiming Omer Months After She E-mails me . | |
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You know, I used to not be a fan of Debarge. When they were big in the 80's, I was just a kid. I just recently became interested in James because of the NE reporting that he has this kid. I have never been a fan of Janet and will never be! I have followed her thoughout her WHOLE career and I just can't find the good in her. That being said, I really wish that she would just stop and think of James for just one second and put herself in his shoes. He has gone through so much pain, and it's just not fair to keep this man guessing, simply because she is too selfish to own up to someone that could possibly be James' kid. I think this could really help James, you know, mentally. Now, whether he wants to know, and whether the kid wants to know, I don't know. But if all other parties involved wants to go through with it, then Janet needs to step up to the plate! Maybe she thinks if she admitted that she has a kid, that maybe her now billionaire boyfriend, may not want her! But that's typical Janet!!!! She's ALWAYS been in it, for herself. No body else matters! | |
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how are you calling Janet selfish if you don't even no the story and it's obvious you are biased and for whatever reason have a problem with Janet , and when did James claims he didn't know? it's not James that is even claiming he has a kid or asking if he doe., He knows if he has a child or not , it's his family that keep using this story to get attention, if anything James needs to step up to the plate and tell his family he doens't have a child and move on and accept it, accept the children he does have . [Edited 9/20/11 14:49pm] | |
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You know, I could say the same thing about you, too! But I'm not. You're right, I don't like Janet. I have never said that James said he has a kid. Or that he has one with Janet. I have said just the opposite. I don't know the whole story, but none of here do and that includes you. But you don't know what, if anything, I know. So don't call me a lair, ok? Everything I say, I will back up. | |
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