Arbwyth said:
Free2BMe said:
Thank you for posting this. I agree wholeheartedly. I've always wondered why this family doesn't EXPECT Janet or badger her to help in anyway. My question is why do they just allow her to go on her merry way and not request or ask her to help?Why don't they expect her to have the brothers on HER tour? Why don't Katherine and Joe expect her to help out her nieces, nephews and other 2nd generation Jackson family member. WTF was Michael expected to help body and if he didn't even the damn media was saying that he refused to help his family. Again double standards.
I've always just assumed it was because Janet never got talked into doing a whole lot of bullshit for the family to begin with -- by the time she was a star and therefore somebody they'd be interested in manipulating, she'd already learned to say no from looking at how they treated Michael, I would guess. So because she probably said no to their ideas right off the bat, they learned there was no use in trying with her. But because Michael had agreed to their shit before, they thought they could talk him into it again even when he'd said no approximately 2,349,109 times. That's just my theory -- who the hell knows with that family, though.
janet was never really part of the j5/jacksons, the 'vegas' family act notwithstanding. there is no emotional blackmail they could trade in on with janet.
however, with mj, his parents and his brothers felt that he owed them something. supposedly, katherine had told him once 'you might not need your brothers, but they need you.' and supposedly right before he died, joe was out front of mj's house screaming that he had nothing and it was mj's fault. there is a lot anger and bitterness there, in spite of what they pretend, because mj did leave them, taking all "their" money and fame with him. janet didn't do that to them, cause their fame and money never came through her, so i think they don't feel the same sense of 'betrayal', if you will, toward her.
but i don't think they were always successful in getting mj to do stuff. after the victory tour, he never committed to another tour with his brothers. jermy put together that 'family honors' thing and sold it on the premise that mj would perform; he didn't. when they were doing that reality show, most of which had been shot well before he died, mj couldn't even be bothered to be heard on the telephone. even janet made an 'appearance' that way. jermy, randy, and others manipulated him in other ways, though, like moving in with katherine knowing that mj wouldn't let his mother go without, and that if she asked him, he would give her more money to cover her added expenses.