Cinnie said:

cbarnes3121 said:

all the gays having babies these days but me

sayin'

I know I feel the same way...the first thing I thought when I read this...

HonestMan13 said:

There could be many reasons why Ne-Yo didn't marry the mother of his child prior to her giving birth. He may not have felt the need to get CLOSER to her and maybe she isn't SO ONE IN A MILLION. It's totally possible this isn't a real relationship anyway he may have bagged her after one of those CHAMPAGNE NIGHTS. He could also believe that she is not IRREPLACEABLE. Only they know for sure.

I rather like this. Creative you are.

Isn't this the same dude that tried to pass off another child as his a few years ago? Then all of sudden it was revealed it wasn't really his...Hmmmmmmm...Congrats anyway.....

[Edited 11/18/10 15:32pm]

DesireeNevermind said:

I still think he gay.

It's really not hard to figure. It's like someone trying to convince you that the sun rises at night and sets in the morning; you're supposed to believe it because they said it? When common sense and everything you've learned and experienced in life up to this point has taught you otherwise?

To me, it's like your pet who barks, pee's on fire-hydrants, sniffs butts as a greeting, enjoys chewing on a good bone, and likes to chase the stick, trying to convince you that he's a cat, lol. Okay, sure.

I think the problem is attitudes, not sexuality.

PDogz said:

DesireeNevermind said:

I still think he gay.

It's really not hard to figure. It's like someone trying to convince you that the sun rises at night and sets in the morning; you're supposed to believe it because they said it? When common sense and everything you've learned and experienced in life up to this point has taught you otherwise?

To me, it's like your pet who barks, pee's on fire-hydrants, sniffs butts as a greeting, enjoys chewing on a good bone, and likes to chase the stick, trying to convince you that he's a cat, lol. Okay, sure.

I think the problem is attitudes, not sexuality.

It could have been the dick in his mouth that gave it away... I'm just saying.

DesireeNevermind said:

VenusBlingBling said:

Actually, I think it's quite disgusting of you to say that "classless" thing Des. It upsets me, but your entitled to your opinion...

Disgusting? Really? Because I think she's plain looking and am questioning why he won't marry her?

Now that is very interesting.

In what way is that interesting?

No, as I mentioned it was your comment about them being "classless" because they're having an out of wedlock baby that was disgusting to me. So me being upset has nothing to do with who they are or how they look or whatever. I totally understand if you find it tacky that he's acting the way he is, but your comment was directed towards everyone who has kids before marriage. Do we needs God's approval before we can create a new person or is it because of the danger of not getting the needed support in case the father ditches the mother?

Don't worry NeYo, we aren't swayed by your tactics - we still think you're gay.

midiscover said:

Don't worry NeYo, we aren't swayed by your tactics - we still think you're gay.

KCOOLMUZIQ said:

Isn't this the same dude that tried to pass off another child as his a few years ago. Then all of sudden it was revealed it wasn't really his...Hmmmmmmm...Congrats anyway.....

That's just sad.

HonestMan13 said:

PDogz said:

It's really not hard to figure. It's like someone trying to convince you that the sun rises at night and sets in the morning; you're supposed to believe it because they said it? When common sense and everything you've learned and experienced in life up to this point has taught you otherwise?

To me, it's like your pet who barks, pee's on fire-hydrants, sniffs butts as a greeting, enjoys chewing on a good bone, and likes to chase the stick, trying to convince you that he's a cat, lol. Okay, sure.

I think the problem is attitudes, not sexuality.

It could have been the dick in his mouth that gave it away...

...or THAT, lol.

midiscover said:

Don't worry NeYo, we aren't swayed by your tactics - we still think you're gay.

At some point in the not too distant future, NeYo will realize he's been going to a whole lotta trouble... for nothing!

VenusBlingBling said:

DesireeNevermind said:

Disgusting? Really? Because I think she's plain looking and am questioning why he won't marry her?

Now that is very interesting.

In what way is that interesting?

No, as I mentioned it was your comment about them being "classless" because they're having an out of wedlock baby that was disgusting to me. So me being upset has nothing to do with who they are or how they look or whatever. I totally understand if you find it tacky that he's acting the way he is, but your comment was directed towards everyone who has kids before marriage. Do we needs God's approval before we can create a new person or is it because of the danger of not getting the needed support in case the father ditches the mother?

Not a comment, a question. Look at what I said. Ne-Yo professes to be "classy" and he has said so. He calls himself the gentleman. So I asked what's classy about making babies out of wedlock. Well?

My comment wasn't directed toward everyone who has had children out of wedlock. For godsakes, there are rape victims who've had children out of wedlock. Don't twist my words to fit your misconception. If you dig Ne-Yo and he can do no wrong then cool, that's how you feel. If you support people having babies out of wedlock then again, that's just how you feel. What's interesting to me is your knee jerk reaction without even paying full attention to the point I was making and questions I raised. So if you can explain to me what's classy about yet another singer/rapper/crooner with baby mommas and no wife, by all means teach and preach. I'm eager to hear your perspective on the matter.

Dude couldn't just get a congratulations?!

I swear, some of y'all are ROUGH! So what if he's gay. What does that have to do with his potential fathering skills? If (read IF) he doesn't wanna come out yet, that's HIS issue.